OK. Please, before I start, serious posts only. I'm in love with this girl and I need help. I tried to ask my friends and stuff, but it's all biased.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. I love her, and she loves me (at least she's said I love you anyway). We have what I guess you would call a good relationship. We talk, and we hang out, go on dates, have sex, etc. In July, she went overseas for one month. She does dance and goes there for a month every year to get her degree. So, she went, and of course she is over there with all these guys that speak Polish, and can dance Polish folk dance, things I can't do very well, or at all. My family has a history of...cheating. My mom cheated on my dad, and since then, I can't get these suspicions out of my head. Back to the story. So there is this guy over there. They are best friends, and I KNOW that nothing happened between them.
One day I was sending her a long facebook message, just something cute. And I accidentally sent it before it was finished. So i logged in to her facebook to delete it so I could start over. Well, I saw a message between them in her inbox, and I read it. In the message, she said that she was still kind of mad about how I over reacted about them saying things like 'miss you' and 'xoxo' and all that stuff. My best friend is a girl, so I don't know how I couldn't relate. But back to the message. She also wrote how she 'just needed to talk to him' and that made me feel really bad because I want her to talk to me. I told her I looked and she got mad. Long story short, both of us have felt really awkward lately and one night I basically asked her upfront about us. I asked four questions. If she loved me. If she wanted to be my girlfriend. If she cared about me. And if she want everything to work out. Now she is a busy girl.She leads the Polish dance group here in MN, she has school 5 days a week 7-2, works nights on the weekends. She barely has a lot of free time.
So in response to those questions she said that they were really intense. So i kind of freaked out and said that she didn't have any problem answering them a week ago, and all this stuff. So a girlfriend of hers texted me and said that I needed to stop pressuring her and that I needed to give her time to think about her life and get some things done (she is planning the annual x-mas party for the polish community here in town by herself basically). So we haven't spoken in 3 days. WE work together, and I'm not even supposed to talk to her at work, and I'm supposed to wait for Monday when we can talk about things. I am seriously in love with this girl. She inspires me to do so many things. Her parents don't like me much, and one of her best-friends, and I know that ways on her. Basically, I need some advice on how I should go about our talk on Monday. I don't want to lose her. Please help. I'm serious. My email is vegaslove821@yahoo.com if you would like to message me there too. Thank you!!Relationship Problem...need some help/suggestions.?
okay well maybe on monday you can sit down with her and explain how youre feeling and that you love her and all and try to work things out cause it def sounds like youre in love with her.
I really hope you guys can work it out though. good luck :) :)Relationship Problem...need some help/suggestions.?
well...
if i were u i'd dump her. i mean, from the sounds of things, even if theres nothing actually going on with this guy, theres still some sort of feelings. and if u love her, then im guessing u dont want 2 share her.
but... if u just want to work things out, give her a week, dont leave her completely alone, but give her space. then talk to her.
Sunday 11 December 2011
I don't understand, what should I do?
About several months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because he cheated on me with another guy in his car on our driveway while I was a sleep inside the house. He broke up with me and didn't tell me it was because he cheated on me he told me that he just was having second thought and need time to think about what he really wants. I agreed because I thought I wanted the same thing too. Well after a month we got back together and we worked things out he confessed that this guy kissed him outside while we were at a dance and said that ever since then he didn't know how to fell so he took it as if he needed to break up with me. However I found out later that that was just half the truth and we broke up again because he really did cheat on me. Three months went buy and we realized that we missed each other and we wanted to work things he explained to me that he was drunk at the time and wasn't shure weather he wanted to be with me. I forgave him and that was that. Well about 7 months later we decide to move from our home. He decided to move first to find a job and I would stay until we found a place to live in the new city. Well the weekend before I plan to go see him, I plan to have a fun weekend with my friends. However I have too much fun and a little to much to drink. I end up kissing his friend and we end up making out. Well one of my friends goes and gets me to stop. I freak out and I just start to cry. I end up telling my boyfriend over the phone and tell him half of the truth. I made the mistake of telling him that his friend kissed me but I didn't tell him that I kissed him first. He eventually finds out the truth because I tell him. He then calls his friend and asked him what happened and he completely denies everything. Another friend of ours is there and tells him what happens but says some other things that didn't happen. My boyfriend calls me back and is angry with me and tells me that he doesn't know what to think and says that he just doesn't want to talk to me right now. So I don't know if he just wants his space and wants to break up with me or what, should I call him or wait for him to call me?I don't understand, what should I do?
Well, this is complicated, by I would keep calling him. (I mean, if this happened to my girlfriend and I, I'd keep calling her.) If he realizes you are trying to talk to him that badly, he might hear you out. Just say something like, ';Please. I don't expect you to believe it, but this truthful....'; Maybe apologize and tell him it was a huge mix-up, and you could really use a hug right now.
Well, this is complicated, by I would keep calling him. (I mean, if this happened to my girlfriend and I, I'd keep calling her.) If he realizes you are trying to talk to him that badly, he might hear you out. Just say something like, ';Please. I don't expect you to believe it, but this truthful....'; Maybe apologize and tell him it was a huge mix-up, and you could really use a hug right now.
My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
Was I wrong for telling some random guy she barely knows at a dance club, they came together then next thing you know hes over there freaking another girl. I went up to him and said ';hey my sis law is waiting for you!!'; and he was like okay. Then I went up to him and told him I thought he was being disrespectful to her by dancing with another girl. He grabs me by the arm and pulls me and tells me to dance with him, my husband raised hell and told him to not touch me and they almost started a fight, but they didn't because all his friends came and he backed out. My husband told me to stay out of it but I was a little tipsy and at the end my sis in law said that I was blowing things out of proportion and that I was being dramatic, left with the guy and 2 weeks later decides to text me how I'm doing? Me and her were really close almost best friends, I'm really hurt because I meant good and she made me look bad in front of friends and made me look like I was acting like a drunk girl. Who's wrong here? Should I just not ever speak to her again?
This girl is my husbands sister.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
Your husband is right, you should have stayed out of it. It wasnt your business to approach him. If anything, you could have asked your SIL if she was OK with what was going on.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
This is why I have learned that if I'm going to drink at a bar/club, I better sit my @ss at a table and only get up if I need another drink.
To all who answer this question - over/under on this woman's marriage lasting 3 years?
I got 5$ on the under.
Well, I will have to agree with your sister in law on this one. If she felt that he was being disrespectful then she would've taken care of it herself or ASKED you to do something. She did neither. She is a big girl, let her take care of things. Let it be in the past, learn from it and move on,
I reaaaalllly like you so I am saying this with good intention...
YOU made HER look bad and you WERE a drunk girl. You should have apologized... don't hate me!
';she made me look bad in front of friends';
Nope, you did that on your own.
Your sister in law is a full-grown adult who can take care of herself. It's nice that you wanted to be chivalrous, but she didn't need it. You should have butted out. Now, you need to forgive and forget and let this whole misunderstanding go by the wayside like the trivia that it is.
well you shouldnt want your sister in law to go home with some guy from the club. i know you care about her but you probobly should have just let it go. if she is over it then you should be too, you can be friends again
A buck on %26lt;3yr (... that's $100 not $1)
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Why are you meddling in these trivial things?
If you are too controlling and jealous to allow your spouse, much less some random dude, to dance with someone else don't go to a club.
Bizarre. What is this, Rhythm Infidelity?
So she just met some guy and decided to go to the bar toghether and he wasn't 'her guy'. They weren't exclusive and nothing has been said about being so. You butted in where you had NO idea what the relationship was. The sister in law was just letting you know that it was ok for him to be dancing with other women. In the future, BUTT out, and enjoy her friendship. She obviously is not still mad at YOU for humiliating HER so get OVER it.
you might have blown it out of proportion a little bit. i give you props for standing up for her, even if you were drunk.. but she might have just been embarrassed by the whole thing and you know how girls get when you embarrass them. if she doesn't bring it up then i don't see a reason to be mad at her for it. what would you have done in her shoes? would you have gone with the guy that you were dancing with, or the ';drunk'; girl who was yelling at him?
I think you overreacted. If she barely knows this guy, what does it matter if he was dancing with another woman? If he was her husband it would be different.
I really have nothing except an appreciation for your story telling ability.
I wish I could have seen this.
This girl is my husbands sister.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
Your husband is right, you should have stayed out of it. It wasnt your business to approach him. If anything, you could have asked your SIL if she was OK with what was going on.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
This is why I have learned that if I'm going to drink at a bar/club, I better sit my @ss at a table and only get up if I need another drink.
To all who answer this question - over/under on this woman's marriage lasting 3 years?
I got 5$ on the under.
Well, I will have to agree with your sister in law on this one. If she felt that he was being disrespectful then she would've taken care of it herself or ASKED you to do something. She did neither. She is a big girl, let her take care of things. Let it be in the past, learn from it and move on,
I reaaaalllly like you so I am saying this with good intention...
YOU made HER look bad and you WERE a drunk girl. You should have apologized... don't hate me!
';she made me look bad in front of friends';
Nope, you did that on your own.
Your sister in law is a full-grown adult who can take care of herself. It's nice that you wanted to be chivalrous, but she didn't need it. You should have butted out. Now, you need to forgive and forget and let this whole misunderstanding go by the wayside like the trivia that it is.
well you shouldnt want your sister in law to go home with some guy from the club. i know you care about her but you probobly should have just let it go. if she is over it then you should be too, you can be friends again
A buck on %26lt;3yr (... that's $100 not $1)
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Why are you meddling in these trivial things?
If you are too controlling and jealous to allow your spouse, much less some random dude, to dance with someone else don't go to a club.
Bizarre. What is this, Rhythm Infidelity?
So she just met some guy and decided to go to the bar toghether and he wasn't 'her guy'. They weren't exclusive and nothing has been said about being so. You butted in where you had NO idea what the relationship was. The sister in law was just letting you know that it was ok for him to be dancing with other women. In the future, BUTT out, and enjoy her friendship. She obviously is not still mad at YOU for humiliating HER so get OVER it.
you might have blown it out of proportion a little bit. i give you props for standing up for her, even if you were drunk.. but she might have just been embarrassed by the whole thing and you know how girls get when you embarrass them. if she doesn't bring it up then i don't see a reason to be mad at her for it. what would you have done in her shoes? would you have gone with the guy that you were dancing with, or the ';drunk'; girl who was yelling at him?
I think you overreacted. If she barely knows this guy, what does it matter if he was dancing with another woman? If he was her husband it would be different.
I really have nothing except an appreciation for your story telling ability.
I wish I could have seen this.
How do i tell my mom that i.......?
got asked to homecoming by a guy. i'm only 14 (freshmen) so this would b my first homecoming dance. and someone asked me like a few weeks ago but i never brought it up. and homecoming is TONIGHT! and i have to tell her cause the dude im goin with wants to get together for pictures.!! would it b okay if i was liek ';hey mom my friend tom just asked me to go to homecomin is that okay with you?'; and i'll say it in front of my friends so she doesnt like freak or nething. does that sound okay?How do i tell my mom that i.......?
Yes you have to tell her, I mean-ask her for permission, but u dont need to do it infront of your friends so that she麓ll be more ok with it. besides, if she doesnt want u to go she麓ll say it to you even if your friends are there. bedies, why are u u waiting until the last minute to tell her? she wont like that u are trying to hide it from her.How do i tell my mom that i.......?
Sure! It's not like he's asked you for sex or anything. :/ Your mum would have to be REALLY odd if she kicked off about you having a homecoming date. xD
yea but dont act nervous or sumthin...jus be totally chill
yes it should be fine unless ur mom is really mean
yes
sounds good to me!
yea that would be ok to say
No it sounds like you have acted with very poor judgment in leaving things to the last minute. Had you told her some time ago, she may have had a negative reaction, but then warmed to the idea.
Now she is going to be doubly annoyed, one because she probably doesn't want you to go, and two because you brought it up at the last minute leaving her out of the loop until the day of. This shows poor judgment and immaturity (at least that's how she'll see it) which is another reason to refuse to let you go.
I really don't think you want to make it a trifecter by also telling her in front of friends, figuring this will make it go over better.
Well, you should have told her up front. Nothing is better than honesty. She will find out and on this short notice what are you going to do if she tells you no?
That sounds okay. But with my mother, she would get annoyed if I were to ask her for permission for things in front of my friends, as she would feel that she had to say yes. Your mother may feel like this, so just be aware of that. Think about what she would want.
Tell her you'll be home by a specified time, and keep to it. She'll trust you more if you do that. Let her meet him, when he picks you up, if she wants to.
Respect her decisions and requests, and you should be fine. :)
Good luck, and have a great night! :)
Oh no i have a daughter and she always tried doing that in front of her friends made me 10 times madder . Be honest with your parents and they will be honest with you . And introduce him as a friend not boy friend your to young to have a boyfriend Friends are OK . Don't start your life out as a sneak
Yes you have to tell her, I mean-ask her for permission, but u dont need to do it infront of your friends so that she麓ll be more ok with it. besides, if she doesnt want u to go she麓ll say it to you even if your friends are there. bedies, why are u u waiting until the last minute to tell her? she wont like that u are trying to hide it from her.How do i tell my mom that i.......?
Sure! It's not like he's asked you for sex or anything. :/ Your mum would have to be REALLY odd if she kicked off about you having a homecoming date. xD
yea but dont act nervous or sumthin...jus be totally chill
yes it should be fine unless ur mom is really mean
yes
sounds good to me!
yea that would be ok to say
No it sounds like you have acted with very poor judgment in leaving things to the last minute. Had you told her some time ago, she may have had a negative reaction, but then warmed to the idea.
Now she is going to be doubly annoyed, one because she probably doesn't want you to go, and two because you brought it up at the last minute leaving her out of the loop until the day of. This shows poor judgment and immaturity (at least that's how she'll see it) which is another reason to refuse to let you go.
I really don't think you want to make it a trifecter by also telling her in front of friends, figuring this will make it go over better.
Well, you should have told her up front. Nothing is better than honesty. She will find out and on this short notice what are you going to do if she tells you no?
That sounds okay. But with my mother, she would get annoyed if I were to ask her for permission for things in front of my friends, as she would feel that she had to say yes. Your mother may feel like this, so just be aware of that. Think about what she would want.
Tell her you'll be home by a specified time, and keep to it. She'll trust you more if you do that. Let her meet him, when he picks you up, if she wants to.
Respect her decisions and requests, and you should be fine. :)
Good luck, and have a great night! :)
Oh no i have a daughter and she always tried doing that in front of her friends made me 10 times madder . Be honest with your parents and they will be honest with you . And introduce him as a friend not boy friend your to young to have a boyfriend Friends are OK . Don't start your life out as a sneak
Hair Question?!?!?! I'm like freaking OUT!!!?
Okay I'm going to my first formal dance and will probably slow dance for the first time with a guy. My dress is gorgeous and looks great on me! LOL k.... well the problem is how should i do my hair? I need experienced girls help here!! My hair is dark brunette without bangs and goes down a couple inches past my shoulders. My hair is like incredibly straight so curling it into like ringlets is pretty much out of the question. Thanks in advance!!!Hair Question?!?!?! I'm like freaking OUT!!!?
try puting it up in a nice bun or looking on the internet for cute hair stylemore interested
try puting it up in a nice bun or looking on the internet for cute hair style
How can she be perfect?
She always has perfect long curly dark dark brown hair
She has huge perfect brown eyes with long silky eyelashes
She has beautiful acne free golden skin
Her nails are always long and they never break
She's petit in everything
She's a gymnast/cheerleader so she's muscular but not like a body builder
She has perfect white teeth that has never had braces
Her laugh is like bells tingling. It makes other people laugh/feel better instantly.
She's a health freak, and always eats healthy
She also exercises a LOT
She's head cheerleader
She's editor at our school newspaper
She has the biggest boobs i've ever seen
She has a nice *** and legs
Guys fall over her
She dances incredibly well (She did ballet for like 5 years then quit now she does jazz, plus she can grind and crump and all that)
She has perfectly shaped eyebrows and full luscious lips
She is very hygienic
She's rich but she doesn’t show it.
She doesn’t follow the “latest trends” she makes her own style and other people copy it!
She doesn’t have any enemies, everyone loves her
Shes extremely modest
She sings like an angel
She takes pictures for fun, and shes good at it!
She’s soo smart, shes named Student of the year every year and shes always on the honour and effort roll
She’s the most popular girl in the school, but she’s not stuck up
She’s funny, she makes everyone laugh
If you’re down, she can always cheer you up
She always keeps secrets
She has no rumours floating around about her
She volunteers at the gymnastics center twice a week and volunteers at the homeless center once a week. She also works with orphans and organizes charities to raise money for them
She can party, every party she’s at makes everything more interesting.
She doesn’t smoke and rarely drinks
She can act too, but she chooses not to do that as a career because she thinks education is more important.
Teachers love her
Everybody does, im not jealous im just wondering how she can be perfect?How can she be perfect?
Well... to me...you kinda sound like you have a crush...that's a lot of description for just a friend... you need to rethink this whole perfect thing...everyone has a secret. No one is perfect. Maybe she's clincally depressed. or her parents hate her. you never know. but i think you might be blowing this out of porpotion. U have a crush on her and she seems perfect by comparison to everyone else.How can she be perfect?
no idea
it's like the impossible person
wow..i love this....does this person really exist.
::blushes:: are you talking about me? lol jk.... um idk... .and all the things you just said are so easily attainable.
she cant be perfect, becuase nobodys perfect. she must have at least one flaw, you just must not know about it. maybe her home life sucks or something. i dont know what else to tell you...
You sure sound jealous
cool and het a life u wrote all that and no one perfect
god jsut gave he lots of tanlets
She's not perfect.
Looks can be deceiving - especially with an overachiever. She works out ';a LOT'; and makes it a point to eat really healthy? That takes work - no wonder she has a great figure.
Nowhere does it mention her home life. Are her parents together? Does she get help and attention from her family? Does she have a happy, healthy, loving home? Even if you've met her parents, you have no idea what sort of pressure they may be putting on her to maintain her ';perfect'; facade. Or what skeletons are in her closet.
Believe me, no one is perfect. There's a fairly good chance she has her reasons for working so hard to have the image you detailed to us. And so she got lucky with some natural talent and looks - it still takes a lot of work to portray perfection.
Ask your mother if your mother doesn't like her then shes not. sorry!! boss
you're obsessed
Some people possess the qualities that we wish we had. It's admirable that you find someone perfect, but remember that you too have qualities that someone envys. It is important to give yourself credit and find the things that you value in yourself as well. It is good to admire and like the qualities of others, remember to think the same about yourself and you can always change some of thethings about yourself that you don't find so desirable with some hard work
she doesn't sound perfect to me.
i don't like long nails.
i don't like big boobs.
and i don't like cheerleaders.
but it looks like the causes are also in your list.
she always eats healthy, she exercises, she volunteers, she's soo smart.
she's perfect because she's healthy, happy, and smart, and thus motivated.
now obviously, she's NOT perfect. everyone has flaws of some sort. either those flaws are too horrible for her to let other people see, or they're too simple and minor for people to notice.
I know people like this, and I can′t keep from envying them or wondering why she has this perfect life while I′m a better person, I pray and go to church every sunday, help the others and so on.
But we must be careful because appearances cheat. Maybe this person has everything but we don′t live with her 24 hours a day. We can′t know the problems that she surely have. The only place in the world where you can′t find problems is the cemetery.
No one is perfect.
Not to mention you sound like a stalker. You prob know much more about this girl than she does about you.
That is a freakishly long list. Worry about yourself hun.
You seem insecure.
Stalkerrrrr...
She has huge perfect brown eyes with long silky eyelashes
She has beautiful acne free golden skin
Her nails are always long and they never break
She's petit in everything
She's a gymnast/cheerleader so she's muscular but not like a body builder
She has perfect white teeth that has never had braces
Her laugh is like bells tingling. It makes other people laugh/feel better instantly.
She's a health freak, and always eats healthy
She also exercises a LOT
She's head cheerleader
She's editor at our school newspaper
She has the biggest boobs i've ever seen
She has a nice *** and legs
Guys fall over her
She dances incredibly well (She did ballet for like 5 years then quit now she does jazz, plus she can grind and crump and all that)
She has perfectly shaped eyebrows and full luscious lips
She is very hygienic
She's rich but she doesn’t show it.
She doesn’t follow the “latest trends” she makes her own style and other people copy it!
She doesn’t have any enemies, everyone loves her
Shes extremely modest
She sings like an angel
She takes pictures for fun, and shes good at it!
She’s soo smart, shes named Student of the year every year and shes always on the honour and effort roll
She’s the most popular girl in the school, but she’s not stuck up
She’s funny, she makes everyone laugh
If you’re down, she can always cheer you up
She always keeps secrets
She has no rumours floating around about her
She volunteers at the gymnastics center twice a week and volunteers at the homeless center once a week. She also works with orphans and organizes charities to raise money for them
She can party, every party she’s at makes everything more interesting.
She doesn’t smoke and rarely drinks
She can act too, but she chooses not to do that as a career because she thinks education is more important.
Teachers love her
Everybody does, im not jealous im just wondering how she can be perfect?How can she be perfect?
Well... to me...you kinda sound like you have a crush...that's a lot of description for just a friend... you need to rethink this whole perfect thing...everyone has a secret. No one is perfect. Maybe she's clincally depressed. or her parents hate her. you never know. but i think you might be blowing this out of porpotion. U have a crush on her and she seems perfect by comparison to everyone else.How can she be perfect?
no idea
it's like the impossible person
wow..i love this....does this person really exist.
::blushes:: are you talking about me? lol jk.... um idk... .and all the things you just said are so easily attainable.
she cant be perfect, becuase nobodys perfect. she must have at least one flaw, you just must not know about it. maybe her home life sucks or something. i dont know what else to tell you...
You sure sound jealous
cool and het a life u wrote all that and no one perfect
god jsut gave he lots of tanlets
She's not perfect.
Looks can be deceiving - especially with an overachiever. She works out ';a LOT'; and makes it a point to eat really healthy? That takes work - no wonder she has a great figure.
Nowhere does it mention her home life. Are her parents together? Does she get help and attention from her family? Does she have a happy, healthy, loving home? Even if you've met her parents, you have no idea what sort of pressure they may be putting on her to maintain her ';perfect'; facade. Or what skeletons are in her closet.
Believe me, no one is perfect. There's a fairly good chance she has her reasons for working so hard to have the image you detailed to us. And so she got lucky with some natural talent and looks - it still takes a lot of work to portray perfection.
Ask your mother if your mother doesn't like her then shes not. sorry!! boss
you're obsessed
Some people possess the qualities that we wish we had. It's admirable that you find someone perfect, but remember that you too have qualities that someone envys. It is important to give yourself credit and find the things that you value in yourself as well. It is good to admire and like the qualities of others, remember to think the same about yourself and you can always change some of thethings about yourself that you don't find so desirable with some hard work
she doesn't sound perfect to me.
i don't like long nails.
i don't like big boobs.
and i don't like cheerleaders.
but it looks like the causes are also in your list.
she always eats healthy, she exercises, she volunteers, she's soo smart.
she's perfect because she's healthy, happy, and smart, and thus motivated.
now obviously, she's NOT perfect. everyone has flaws of some sort. either those flaws are too horrible for her to let other people see, or they're too simple and minor for people to notice.
I know people like this, and I can′t keep from envying them or wondering why she has this perfect life while I′m a better person, I pray and go to church every sunday, help the others and so on.
But we must be careful because appearances cheat. Maybe this person has everything but we don′t live with her 24 hours a day. We can′t know the problems that she surely have. The only place in the world where you can′t find problems is the cemetery.
No one is perfect.
Not to mention you sound like a stalker. You prob know much more about this girl than she does about you.
That is a freakishly long list. Worry about yourself hun.
You seem insecure.
Stalkerrrrr...
Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
hey guys im back with something on my mind. dance tryouts are coming back around on May 2,2009 and i am freaking out i made the dance team for the 2008-2009 season and i know i have a good chance of making it for the 2009-2010 season but somewhere in my mind i have this feeling im not, my friends they tell me things happen and you might not do as great as you do last year which i dont think was very nice to say to me around this time every year like today one of my friends said the rest of the old girls would make it but i had a chance and i dance good not great that upset me alot, i can dance real good i come home everyday and practice i take it so serious no joke i have been doing this since i was 5 years old{lyrical and modern dance} i just need some support today we had a meeting and it was like 35 girls there who wanted to tryout and in my mind im like what if one of these girls take my spot what if they dance better then me,dont get me wrong though im not intimidated by them i do believed in myself. im just being parinoid i guess i know every morning when i get ready for school or any other day i pray and also pray to make it on the team again this year, this is something i love to do i just hope i make it because seriously if i dont i swear to you i will cry my eyes out literally thats how bad i want it
but i have 2questions
1.do you think i have a better chance of making it again this year
2.do you think my friends were wrong for what the said
thanks in advance yata booz and if you dont mind can you give me a good answer please %26lt;3Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
Talk to the instructor and get their opinion on your capabilities. Without knowing your friends, I cannot say what their agenda is to say that you are good but not great. Unless they gave you specific areas that you should work on to do great. If the instructor says that you do not need to work on anything, then relax and enjoy. If the instructor gives you some constructive criticism then follow the hints and relax and enjoy.Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
well, i did cheerleading ever since the 2nd grade and ive dance since i was 3 and i was asked to be on a select competition team in the 2nd grade. and im not conceited but i am good at dancing its all ive ever wanted and it shows. Im a great cheerleader also, my friends all told me in the middle school that if there was a captain (there wasnt) that it should be me and stuff. I was so good at hitting my moves and i smiled and obviously could dance and i catch on very quick like i can learn and entire dance in less than an hour (if its difficult and easy one i learn quicker) but i cant do very well cheer jumps. which is wierd bcs my jumps in dance are awesome. But anywayz i made the squad as a freshman and then last year (sophmore year) i tryed out thinking im making varsity no problem im so good... then i didn't practice much i didnt work on jumps or anything but i hate calling chants bcs you say the whole thing but i had to call it so i flipped out and messed up the words and i was like oh i need to restart! big mistake. Then when you spirit i kinda stopped bcs i was like lets hear it (embarassing) and for some reason i only did a single jump and i ended up not making it at all not even JV. i cried for a week straight i couldnt even go to school. i had ppl coming up to me i didnt know saying that i should have made it over them and other ppl like how did they make it. Even the coach called and apologized saying i shouldve made it but she has to go by just try outs and mine sucked. (she didnt say sucked hah) but im trying out again. in a weeek!!! ahh! but my point is dont be to cocky (which i dont think you are) just go in and give it everything be prepared and dont listen to everyone else. and your friends are jerks! they shouldn't say that! just make sure your confident but not too much. Be ready for everything and if you dont make it it doesnt mean your not good. It couldve been a bad day or nerves just dont ever give up if you want it even if you dont make it try out again next yr. good luck!!!!!!
but i have 2questions
1.do you think i have a better chance of making it again this year
2.do you think my friends were wrong for what the said
thanks in advance yata booz and if you dont mind can you give me a good answer please %26lt;3Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
Talk to the instructor and get their opinion on your capabilities. Without knowing your friends, I cannot say what their agenda is to say that you are good but not great. Unless they gave you specific areas that you should work on to do great. If the instructor says that you do not need to work on anything, then relax and enjoy. If the instructor gives you some constructive criticism then follow the hints and relax and enjoy.Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
well, i did cheerleading ever since the 2nd grade and ive dance since i was 3 and i was asked to be on a select competition team in the 2nd grade. and im not conceited but i am good at dancing its all ive ever wanted and it shows. Im a great cheerleader also, my friends all told me in the middle school that if there was a captain (there wasnt) that it should be me and stuff. I was so good at hitting my moves and i smiled and obviously could dance and i catch on very quick like i can learn and entire dance in less than an hour (if its difficult and easy one i learn quicker) but i cant do very well cheer jumps. which is wierd bcs my jumps in dance are awesome. But anywayz i made the squad as a freshman and then last year (sophmore year) i tryed out thinking im making varsity no problem im so good... then i didn't practice much i didnt work on jumps or anything but i hate calling chants bcs you say the whole thing but i had to call it so i flipped out and messed up the words and i was like oh i need to restart! big mistake. Then when you spirit i kinda stopped bcs i was like lets hear it (embarassing) and for some reason i only did a single jump and i ended up not making it at all not even JV. i cried for a week straight i couldnt even go to school. i had ppl coming up to me i didnt know saying that i should have made it over them and other ppl like how did they make it. Even the coach called and apologized saying i shouldve made it but she has to go by just try outs and mine sucked. (she didnt say sucked hah) but im trying out again. in a weeek!!! ahh! but my point is dont be to cocky (which i dont think you are) just go in and give it everything be prepared and dont listen to everyone else. and your friends are jerks! they shouldn't say that! just make sure your confident but not too much. Be ready for everything and if you dont make it it doesnt mean your not good. It couldve been a bad day or nerves just dont ever give up if you want it even if you dont make it try out again next yr. good luck!!!!!!
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