I'm fine with flirting -- in fact I'm really good at it. But as soon as it turns out a guy likes me I freak out. Things get awkward. I've never said yes to a guy asking me out or to a dance, just because I'm terrified of the idea. I'm not sure why. I don't want to hurt the guy, but I'm so scared. I think I really do want to start serious dating. Please help?How can I be comfortable around guys?
you may be afraid of commitment, and enjoy the chase more than the actual catch.....
or maybe the right guy just hasnt asked you out yet.
have you ever trued just saying yes??? or possibly go on group dates if you are afraid of having awkwardness btw you and your date.
once you are on the date, think of it as though it isnt a date, but that you are just hanging out like friends. dont try to be to proper or polite, or you may freak him out and make him nervousHow can I be comfortable around guys?
pressure is on him, he has to impress you, don't worry about it leave the worrying to him
take your clothes off
Take a deep breath, smile and accept the invitation!
To me it comes naturally i practically grew up with guys around. But there are certain moments when i get butterflies and i know that that guy is worth my while. I think you are scared of not working out, dont let that scare you, it might blossom into something more. What you do is not freak out, say yes to the guy and take it from there.
Thursday, 28 October 2010
Do you girls find grind/freak dancing nasty or offensive?
cuz this one girl told me she doesnt like the fact that their *** would be rubbing on a guys crotch area. do any of you girls like it or just do it to go along with the guys? do you find it offensive? do any of you find it enjoyable? and how do you like the guy when freakdancing? slow, fast, (or depending on the beat of the song)?? what should you do when grinding to attract a girlDo you girls find grind/freak dancing nasty or offensive?
i have no problems with girls getting down to some good jams. When i see girls grinding their @$$ all up on a guy it just makes me think of a dog in heat. I don't conduct myself like that but I guess they are just really trying to get F#####. Too bad that they have to act like that to get noticed. A guy who lets you grind all on him like that at the club won't call you the next day because you grinded on him like that. just a fact.Do you girls find grind/freak dancing nasty or offensive?
ahah offensive? are you kidding? its fun! ;)
freak dancing depends on the song thats playing just grind to the beat! its fun everyone likes it except old people xD
Only skanks freak dance.
hmmm..... maybe its because it makes girls look like whores..... i do it to go along with the guys and i think its fun. i like dancing to a somewhat fast beat.
ok..
i love grinding on guys its so much fun, if the guy knows how to respond its fantastic if they just stand there like a lump then there's nothing and its no fun. we *as girls* normally grind to the beat of the music is easier for the guys so move back with it.
your last question guys don't norm grind unless they are being gridded on. and in that case you already have her attention.
i find it gross lol. when i went to homecoming it was basically the only thing they were doing. the guy i sorta liked was there and i saw him doing it to this other girl and she was going with it and what when through my mind was ';NOOOOO!!!! (his name here) I HAD SUCH HIGH HOPES FOR YOU!!!!!!!'; lol. i was disappointed. i never wanted to see that!!! not with him anyway!!! i just dance to the beat. not really dancing as more as hoping and enjoying the music haha.
ok lol
i love love love to grind hahah but i ant not hoe or slut or nuttin like that lol its just fun
are you kiding, freaking is soooo fun, its the olny way i dance hahaha, i think its fun, it makes me feel hella hot, and it turns me on when a guy knows how to freak hellza well. but yea, i could see how so people would be afended by it, cuz i mean it is hella sextual. if shes not in to it, she probly isnt supper comfterble with her body or doesnt know how to do it right, but i could also just be shes not in to that kinda scene. but to answer your questions,i guess partly the realson we like it so much is becouse the guys like it when we do it, i guess it makes us fell better that you want us or something. i do not find it offensive, i do find it enjoyable, and fast, for sure not slow, heres some tipssssssss :))))))))))))))
help full hints...
Get out there and have some fun. You can't grind if you're not even on the dance floor or standing watching other people grind.
Guys LOVE it when a girl grinds with a boy.
Move towards the middle of a big group of people. Usually that's where a lot of the grinding is.
Find one of your good friends that you feel comfortable with and begin to dance with her. Dance with her normally as if no one was watching. This doesn't have to be sexually. A guy will soon notice you, mainly because you're dancing and having fun with your best friend. Most likely a guy won't say anything when he wants to grind, but instead will give you subtle signals.
Act normally, as if you don't even realize that they're coming. Be sure to keep dancing
They would appreciate if you look at them and smile and signal them over. Don't Ignore them, acknowledge their prescence.
Know what kind of grinding you're doing. When you feel a guy grab you around the hips he can either be facing you or facing your back. If he's facing your back this is normal grinding and more popular. Front grinding is more risqu茅 and sexy! Most people don't do front grinding their first time.
Leave your arms by your side or maybe even grab his arms, you can also put them on your thighs as you dance for sapport if you get tiered. or you can wrap you arms arouind your neck, even when your back is to them
If the guy you're trying to dance with isn't the best at grinding, put your hands into his pockets and have your hands follow the motion of your hips. This usually works best when you're hips are moving in circles or sideways figure-eights.
Be ready for the song to end. Usually, the guy will walk away. Sometimes he'll say something and sometimes not. Don't be offended if he just walks away in the middle of the song. Don't let that get to you because the chances are that the guy has gotten 'happy' and doesn't want to make things uncomfortable. Just quickly find that friend you were dancing with before. Make it look like nothing is wrong and you're glad that he's gone. but if you want to keep danceing with him for the next song too dance in the break like music is still playing, dont stop!
When you move your hips, move in the shape of a sideways figure-eight.
Don't move with your shoulders, grinding is done with your hips.
Stay on rhythm. Practice at home where no one is watching. DO THIS!!
Try not to step on the guy's feet. Ouch!
Don't touch yourself and try to act all sexy. It'll probably seem forced.
If a guy touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, leave or move his hand. Just because you're grinding it doesn't give him the right to grope you. but try not to get affened by it, just move his hands, hes just horny he cant help him self
If you want to pop lock and drop it then make sure he doesn't go down with you, just pop lock and drop it normally.
Better yet, let us not pop lock and drop it trust me if you can't do it, don't do it!
The best dancers glow in confidence. If you are worried about how good of a dancer you are, when you grind with someone remember that you are already dancing, so he obviously doesn't have a problem.
If you are to join a train, make sure you are in between people you are comfortable grinding with!
Girls- you don't have to let just anyone grind you!
Any fast song like Rap, or Hip-Hop is best to grind to!
If a guy is behind you, and you're mostly sure he wants to grind with you, back into him a bit, so that he knows you are interested. He will most likely put his hands on your hips, and you will start to grind.
Don't get mad if you see a guy you grinded with, grinding with other girls. Grinding isn't serious. It's just for fun!
Move up and down and be sure to bend your knees and move your knees side to side.
If your boy partner is not knowing what to do, take his hands and place them on your waist/stomach/hips and move him in the way you want to move.
Don't dance too slow or the guy won't enjoy it and will leave.
To make things interesting, you can grind face to face.
The best songs to grind to are the faster beat ones. It gives you more of a chance to show your moves
If the guy gets an erection, either ignore it or walk away ifcreate seamless digital textures
i have no problems with girls getting down to some good jams. When i see girls grinding their @$$ all up on a guy it just makes me think of a dog in heat. I don't conduct myself like that but I guess they are just really trying to get F#####. Too bad that they have to act like that to get noticed. A guy who lets you grind all on him like that at the club won't call you the next day because you grinded on him like that. just a fact.Do you girls find grind/freak dancing nasty or offensive?
ahah offensive? are you kidding? its fun! ;)
freak dancing depends on the song thats playing just grind to the beat! its fun everyone likes it except old people xD
Only skanks freak dance.
hmmm..... maybe its because it makes girls look like whores..... i do it to go along with the guys and i think its fun. i like dancing to a somewhat fast beat.
ok..
i love grinding on guys its so much fun, if the guy knows how to respond its fantastic if they just stand there like a lump then there's nothing and its no fun. we *as girls* normally grind to the beat of the music is easier for the guys so move back with it.
your last question guys don't norm grind unless they are being gridded on. and in that case you already have her attention.
i find it gross lol. when i went to homecoming it was basically the only thing they were doing. the guy i sorta liked was there and i saw him doing it to this other girl and she was going with it and what when through my mind was ';NOOOOO!!!! (his name here) I HAD SUCH HIGH HOPES FOR YOU!!!!!!!'; lol. i was disappointed. i never wanted to see that!!! not with him anyway!!! i just dance to the beat. not really dancing as more as hoping and enjoying the music haha.
ok lol
i love love love to grind hahah but i ant not hoe or slut or nuttin like that lol its just fun
are you kiding, freaking is soooo fun, its the olny way i dance hahaha, i think its fun, it makes me feel hella hot, and it turns me on when a guy knows how to freak hellza well. but yea, i could see how so people would be afended by it, cuz i mean it is hella sextual. if shes not in to it, she probly isnt supper comfterble with her body or doesnt know how to do it right, but i could also just be shes not in to that kinda scene. but to answer your questions,i guess partly the realson we like it so much is becouse the guys like it when we do it, i guess it makes us fell better that you want us or something. i do not find it offensive, i do find it enjoyable, and fast, for sure not slow, heres some tipssssssss :))))))))))))))
help full hints...
Get out there and have some fun. You can't grind if you're not even on the dance floor or standing watching other people grind.
Guys LOVE it when a girl grinds with a boy.
Move towards the middle of a big group of people. Usually that's where a lot of the grinding is.
Find one of your good friends that you feel comfortable with and begin to dance with her. Dance with her normally as if no one was watching. This doesn't have to be sexually. A guy will soon notice you, mainly because you're dancing and having fun with your best friend. Most likely a guy won't say anything when he wants to grind, but instead will give you subtle signals.
Act normally, as if you don't even realize that they're coming. Be sure to keep dancing
They would appreciate if you look at them and smile and signal them over. Don't Ignore them, acknowledge their prescence.
Know what kind of grinding you're doing. When you feel a guy grab you around the hips he can either be facing you or facing your back. If he's facing your back this is normal grinding and more popular. Front grinding is more risqu茅 and sexy! Most people don't do front grinding their first time.
Leave your arms by your side or maybe even grab his arms, you can also put them on your thighs as you dance for sapport if you get tiered. or you can wrap you arms arouind your neck, even when your back is to them
If the guy you're trying to dance with isn't the best at grinding, put your hands into his pockets and have your hands follow the motion of your hips. This usually works best when you're hips are moving in circles or sideways figure-eights.
Be ready for the song to end. Usually, the guy will walk away. Sometimes he'll say something and sometimes not. Don't be offended if he just walks away in the middle of the song. Don't let that get to you because the chances are that the guy has gotten 'happy' and doesn't want to make things uncomfortable. Just quickly find that friend you were dancing with before. Make it look like nothing is wrong and you're glad that he's gone. but if you want to keep danceing with him for the next song too dance in the break like music is still playing, dont stop!
When you move your hips, move in the shape of a sideways figure-eight.
Don't move with your shoulders, grinding is done with your hips.
Stay on rhythm. Practice at home where no one is watching. DO THIS!!
Try not to step on the guy's feet. Ouch!
Don't touch yourself and try to act all sexy. It'll probably seem forced.
If a guy touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, leave or move his hand. Just because you're grinding it doesn't give him the right to grope you. but try not to get affened by it, just move his hands, hes just horny he cant help him self
If you want to pop lock and drop it then make sure he doesn't go down with you, just pop lock and drop it normally.
Better yet, let us not pop lock and drop it trust me if you can't do it, don't do it!
The best dancers glow in confidence. If you are worried about how good of a dancer you are, when you grind with someone remember that you are already dancing, so he obviously doesn't have a problem.
If you are to join a train, make sure you are in between people you are comfortable grinding with!
Girls- you don't have to let just anyone grind you!
Any fast song like Rap, or Hip-Hop is best to grind to!
If a guy is behind you, and you're mostly sure he wants to grind with you, back into him a bit, so that he knows you are interested. He will most likely put his hands on your hips, and you will start to grind.
Don't get mad if you see a guy you grinded with, grinding with other girls. Grinding isn't serious. It's just for fun!
Move up and down and be sure to bend your knees and move your knees side to side.
If your boy partner is not knowing what to do, take his hands and place them on your waist/stomach/hips and move him in the way you want to move.
Don't dance too slow or the guy won't enjoy it and will leave.
To make things interesting, you can grind face to face.
The best songs to grind to are the faster beat ones. It gives you more of a chance to show your moves
If the guy gets an erection, either ignore it or walk away if
I dont know what my dream means ?
I been having the same dream for the past week ...... iam always sleeping i hear a nois and i wakle up at the end of my bed there is a guy ..... frist i freak out then i ask how he is and he tlls me that i will find out in due time .... anothere dream its the same person says i was there with you but you ignored me this happened after my homecoming night i dance with a guy but did not put that much attion to him dose that mean anything .............. am i going crazy ..... I dont know what my dream means ?
He should not be there you need to pray to God and have him removed he is interfering with your free agency he is bothering you and he is not a good spirit I think he is a Angel of Satin and he is just trying to win your confidence and then once he has you thinking he is ok he will do all he can to harm you. you need to get rid of him now.I dont know what my dream means ?
i know this isnt really helpful but maybe...?
do u kno this guy?
it could just be about what your thinking when your asleep
it could mean he trying to contact you did he die recently? or coma?
maybe you should see a doctor to help you or see a spirtual helper this can help u through it
hope i helpp
best of luck
The young guy is a trick or craftiness and hated enemy shows his mobility, power and the prevalence of ignorance, be carfull from him he did`nt love you ,
see when you sleep cotton and put it on your ears bye bye
He should not be there you need to pray to God and have him removed he is interfering with your free agency he is bothering you and he is not a good spirit I think he is a Angel of Satin and he is just trying to win your confidence and then once he has you thinking he is ok he will do all he can to harm you. you need to get rid of him now.I dont know what my dream means ?
i know this isnt really helpful but maybe...?
do u kno this guy?
it could just be about what your thinking when your asleep
it could mean he trying to contact you did he die recently? or coma?
maybe you should see a doctor to help you or see a spirtual helper this can help u through it
hope i helpp
best of luck
The young guy is a trick or craftiness and hated enemy shows his mobility, power and the prevalence of ignorance, be carfull from him he did`nt love you ,
see when you sleep cotton and put it on your ears bye bye
A question about ';freak dancing';... boys&girls?
so me and my friend were trying to figure this out...
*if a guy thinks you are a bad dancer will he ask you to dance again??*
im thinking no but im not sure!
also, how do you know if you are a good dancer?
if a guy doesnt get ****, does that mean the girl he is dancing with is bad?
just curious!
thanks!!A question about ';freak dancing';... boys%26amp;girls?
You don't have to be a good dancer to dance....if you're having fun it shouldn't matter. If he wants you to loosen up and have fun....he'll ask you to dance again...if you're a good dancer and he isn't he may not want you to outshine him!
You know if you're a good dancer if someone tells you you're a good dancer. The way I see it....I've been dancing for years...I dance EVERYWHERE....even if I only get a really short moment, I like to shake my booty. I get other people dancing and having fun. Turn a song on, do a little jig and ask someone you know, that won't lie to you, if you're a good dancer or you need a little work. Practice makes perfect you know!
Hope I've helped!
*if a guy thinks you are a bad dancer will he ask you to dance again??*
im thinking no but im not sure!
also, how do you know if you are a good dancer?
if a guy doesnt get ****, does that mean the girl he is dancing with is bad?
just curious!
thanks!!A question about ';freak dancing';... boys%26amp;girls?
You don't have to be a good dancer to dance....if you're having fun it shouldn't matter. If he wants you to loosen up and have fun....he'll ask you to dance again...if you're a good dancer and he isn't he may not want you to outshine him!
You know if you're a good dancer if someone tells you you're a good dancer. The way I see it....I've been dancing for years...I dance EVERYWHERE....even if I only get a really short moment, I like to shake my booty. I get other people dancing and having fun. Turn a song on, do a little jig and ask someone you know, that won't lie to you, if you're a good dancer or you need a little work. Practice makes perfect you know!
Hope I've helped!
Okay so there is this guy, hes really hot, hes 1 year older than me, and i want to go to homecomming with him?
... and the problem is, #1 we don't have any classes together, we only ride the bus together, and sit across from each other #2 we don't talk to each other, cause im a total loser and wont break out of my shell %26amp; we'll he is lame like i am in that way also. So im not sure what to do, just 4get about it?/ just ask him to the dance?/ and if asking him, then how, its not like im just gonna say hey u wanna go to the dance, or would that turn a guy on, or even freak him out?!? Anyway, i just want a hot date to homecoming, its not like im seriously looking for a long term relationship, i just wanna have a fun night. What do i do? And how do i do it?
ps. i picked up my complete outfit and i look really hot (not turning heads, but breaking necks kinda hot :P lol) and if i don't get him to be my date, more than likely im going with my ex or a guy friend, which are bothgonnaa be either awkward and im really not sure how the turn out isgonnaa be on this whole shabang:(
anyway what to do... what to do?Okay so there is this guy, hes really hot, hes 1 year older than me, and i want to go to homecomming with him?
just ask him. simple as that. you never know what will happen till you ask.Okay so there is this guy, hes really hot, hes 1 year older than me, and i want to go to homecomming with him?
ok well the day you try to as kem try to look..diffrent,stick out more,then on the bus go sit right next to him and say';hey wanna go to hmecoming with me?' then just go to the other end of the bus
Just talk to him on the bus, give him ur number and tell him to text it, its much easier to ask through texting (though doin so in person is better but you have to ask him) just say ';hey so who are you going to homecoming with?';if he replies ';dont have a date yet';or something like that say ';me either! would you like to go to homecoming together?';
ps. i picked up my complete outfit and i look really hot (not turning heads, but breaking necks kinda hot :P lol) and if i don't get him to be my date, more than likely im going with my ex or a guy friend, which are bothgonnaa be either awkward and im really not sure how the turn out isgonnaa be on this whole shabang:(
anyway what to do... what to do?Okay so there is this guy, hes really hot, hes 1 year older than me, and i want to go to homecomming with him?
just ask him. simple as that. you never know what will happen till you ask.Okay so there is this guy, hes really hot, hes 1 year older than me, and i want to go to homecomming with him?
ok well the day you try to as kem try to look..diffrent,stick out more,then on the bus go sit right next to him and say';hey wanna go to hmecoming with me?' then just go to the other end of the bus
Just talk to him on the bus, give him ur number and tell him to text it, its much easier to ask through texting (though doin so in person is better but you have to ask him) just say ';hey so who are you going to homecoming with?';if he replies ';dont have a date yet';or something like that say ';me either! would you like to go to homecoming together?';
GIRLS!!!! can you give me some tips for dancing at parties?
when i go 2 parties i talk to other people the whole time and when girls ask me to dance with them i try not to because i dont know how to dance. I am a guy and like to know how to freak dance. My friends tell me to just go with the movements that your dancing partner is doing, but i have truble with that cuz the beat is usually fast and her hips move so fast, how can i possibly know what her next movement is? And also when a girl grinds on you what are you supposed to do, just stand there or still go with her movement?
Are the tips that my friend gave me correct? Any tips would be great and helpful. thanksGIRLS!!!! can you give me some tips for dancing at parties?
uhmm. well go with the flow.. but dont out do the girl.. that whould be gay..
and when ur grinding .. press up really hard against her back, or boobs.. orr if she is facing u., kinda grab her but in a nice way =)GIRLS!!!! can you give me some tips for dancing at parties?
You just have to feel the music and feel the dancing vibe. I think people think too much about dancing which in turn makes them tense up. Dancing is just supposed to flow, look around, look at the other guys who are dancing, try to mimic that. I think your friends are right.
dont listen to your friends
be yourself
listen to the music
and dance your own style
and then you will learn it from yourself
ok
follow my tips
because i had the same problem and by following my tips i dont have it anymore
so trust me
-dance your heart out girl!!!!!!
Are the tips that my friend gave me correct? Any tips would be great and helpful. thanksGIRLS!!!! can you give me some tips for dancing at parties?
uhmm. well go with the flow.. but dont out do the girl.. that whould be gay..
and when ur grinding .. press up really hard against her back, or boobs.. orr if she is facing u., kinda grab her but in a nice way =)GIRLS!!!! can you give me some tips for dancing at parties?
You just have to feel the music and feel the dancing vibe. I think people think too much about dancing which in turn makes them tense up. Dancing is just supposed to flow, look around, look at the other guys who are dancing, try to mimic that. I think your friends are right.
dont listen to your friends
be yourself
listen to the music
and dance your own style
and then you will learn it from yourself
ok
follow my tips
because i had the same problem and by following my tips i dont have it anymore
so trust me
-dance your heart out girl!!!!!!
School Dance was tonight..READ!?
Lets call this guy Stephen?. He 's in my class, and a couple months ago we ALWAYS talked and laughed and flirted at some points. But then we slowly stopped talking .Recently, he's been talking to me alot, which im happy for. And one of my friends ( Kayle*) told me she thinks he likes me. And i was really happy ..UNTIL..
My kindaofish friend Stacey* ( girl)...and Jalessa* ( im better friends with her, but they both can be kinda b1tchy). Well they started hanging around him and his friend A*. And then i found out...Stacey* %26amp; Jalessa* BOTH like him. And their kinda like best friends right now, and apparently they got into this huuuge fight. ( as in fist..but it happened a couple days ago, but now their okay. Kinda weird..)
Now, at the dance. They were both like ALL over Stephen . And hes like the quiet, sweet guy. , but yeah, Jalessa got asked by another guy .And Stacey was like kinda near Stephen. and im pretty sure she was gonna ask him to dance..again. ( My friend was telling me this i was loooking the other way, ..and i was far away from them) . Yeah, then Stephen asked me to dance.
Then, the crowd beside me kinda moved...and I saw Stacey standing there with her mouth hung open. Her and a couple other girls were giving me a dirtyish look..then she kinda pretended like it never happened. But she's the type of girl that will like 6 guys..and FREAK out if her friends even talk to them.
But yeah ,was it my fault? Like later i asked him to dance again. And like, well everyone dances with everything at the dances. You dont have to like each other...
Do you think Stacey was being a *****?
BQ : How was your day?
BQ2 : Whats something that made you smile today/ best part of your day? (:School Dance was tonight..READ!?
Yes Stacey was being a complete *******
He asked you first, you said yes, how is that your fault?
I don't think she is worth hanging around with by the sounds of things, and of course you didn't do anything wrong :)School Dance was tonight..READ!?
uhm he asked you first...? how would it be yer fault??
bq:splendid
bq:i seen my baby on a ultrasound :]
Hi, I'm some thing important work with my GF.
hell yeah stacey was being a *****. she shoulda stayed home.
BQ; bad. i didn't get to shovel snow with my friends.
BQ2; again, nothing. i had a crummy day.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Dude, your friends suck.
Uneventful
My friend.. he's weird and I love him so much?
yeah she pretty much was. he asked you to dance with him first so nothing was your fault.
BQ: okay, too much homework
BQ2: my daughter's laugh and her trying to crawl (although she's almost there) %26lt;3
Yes I do. That is a stupid reason for her to be like that
My day was okay I guess, nothing spectacular. I was hoping some guy would ask me to the dance at my school which is next week, but whatever. How was yours, other than the dance?
Best part of my day would be seeing this one girl cry (I know, kinda mean) because she found out I was right about her boyfriend
Pleaseeee!! Shorten up your q's I would love to read them, but they're just too long:)
PS:I love answering q's, but yours is to long, SORRY:)
Marie:)
Stacey sounds like someone not worth remaining friends with. :\
You were wrong in no way whatsoever. Stacey needs to get over herself.
lick me
My kindaofish friend Stacey* ( girl)...and Jalessa* ( im better friends with her, but they both can be kinda b1tchy). Well they started hanging around him and his friend A*. And then i found out...Stacey* %26amp; Jalessa* BOTH like him. And their kinda like best friends right now, and apparently they got into this huuuge fight. ( as in fist..but it happened a couple days ago, but now their okay. Kinda weird..)
Now, at the dance. They were both like ALL over Stephen . And hes like the quiet, sweet guy. , but yeah, Jalessa got asked by another guy .And Stacey was like kinda near Stephen. and im pretty sure she was gonna ask him to dance..again. ( My friend was telling me this i was loooking the other way, ..and i was far away from them) . Yeah, then Stephen asked me to dance.
Then, the crowd beside me kinda moved...and I saw Stacey standing there with her mouth hung open. Her and a couple other girls were giving me a dirtyish look..then she kinda pretended like it never happened. But she's the type of girl that will like 6 guys..and FREAK out if her friends even talk to them.
But yeah ,was it my fault? Like later i asked him to dance again. And like, well everyone dances with everything at the dances. You dont have to like each other...
Do you think Stacey was being a *****?
BQ : How was your day?
BQ2 : Whats something that made you smile today/ best part of your day? (:School Dance was tonight..READ!?
Yes Stacey was being a complete *******
He asked you first, you said yes, how is that your fault?
I don't think she is worth hanging around with by the sounds of things, and of course you didn't do anything wrong :)School Dance was tonight..READ!?
uhm he asked you first...? how would it be yer fault??
bq:splendid
bq:i seen my baby on a ultrasound :]
Hi, I'm some thing important work with my GF.
hell yeah stacey was being a *****. she shoulda stayed home.
BQ; bad. i didn't get to shovel snow with my friends.
BQ2; again, nothing. i had a crummy day.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Dude, your friends suck.
Uneventful
My friend.. he's weird and I love him so much?
yeah she pretty much was. he asked you to dance with him first so nothing was your fault.
BQ: okay, too much homework
BQ2: my daughter's laugh and her trying to crawl (although she's almost there) %26lt;3
Yes I do. That is a stupid reason for her to be like that
My day was okay I guess, nothing spectacular. I was hoping some guy would ask me to the dance at my school which is next week, but whatever. How was yours, other than the dance?
Best part of my day would be seeing this one girl cry (I know, kinda mean) because she found out I was right about her boyfriend
Pleaseeee!! Shorten up your q's I would love to read them, but they're just too long:)
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Stacey sounds like someone not worth remaining friends with. :\
You were wrong in no way whatsoever. Stacey needs to get over herself.
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How do i attract 15-16 year old guys?
Community school dance tomorrow. Boys from every school in my town. I am freaking out because im looking to have a great time but my friends and i always end up sitting in the corner bored. How can i have a great time, dance with some guys and look amazing?
Thanks! XD
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you walk around in
skimpy clothes!How do i attract 15-16 year old guys?
how old are you ..im calling the police
just turn up naked wear a big sign that say's im desperate and someone will find you.
Get all the girls together beforehand and dress up (nice hair makeup) especially for the occasion. Don't go overboard though with really skimpy dresses and cake face of make up that is not attractive!! Be excited for the night, dance with you friends and just have fun. Start dancing with some guys and if you鈥檙e having fun and being energetic they will probably be attracted!! No one wants to talk to someone that looks bored or unhappy at a dance as they want to have fun. So dance like crazy, be yourself and I'm sure you will attract the guys!!
Good luck :)
Very simple, I am a 16 year old boy. You just have to show up looking nice and don't appear to be bored and unhappy, ask a guy to dance and he will almost always say yes! Works every time!
do your self up really good(lots of makeup) have a nice hairstyle.
laugh and joke about with your friends, all start dancing or something and draw some attention to yourselves from the boys.
then go over to chat to some boys, thats if they dont come over and chat 2 you
always works with me
good luck
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offer them porn and beer
DRESS UP IN A SHORT SHIRT AND A TOP THAT MAKES YOUR BOOBS LOOK BIGGER.
DRAW THE BOPYS TOWARDS YOU AND IF THIS DOESNT WORK THEN GET NAKED !!:)
Thanks! XD
(Please reply as soon as you can, i have limited time left! )How do i attract 15-16 year old guys?
you walk around in
skimpy clothes!How do i attract 15-16 year old guys?
how old are you ..im calling the police
just turn up naked wear a big sign that say's im desperate and someone will find you.
Get all the girls together beforehand and dress up (nice hair makeup) especially for the occasion. Don't go overboard though with really skimpy dresses and cake face of make up that is not attractive!! Be excited for the night, dance with you friends and just have fun. Start dancing with some guys and if you鈥檙e having fun and being energetic they will probably be attracted!! No one wants to talk to someone that looks bored or unhappy at a dance as they want to have fun. So dance like crazy, be yourself and I'm sure you will attract the guys!!
Good luck :)
Very simple, I am a 16 year old boy. You just have to show up looking nice and don't appear to be bored and unhappy, ask a guy to dance and he will almost always say yes! Works every time!
do your self up really good(lots of makeup) have a nice hairstyle.
laugh and joke about with your friends, all start dancing or something and draw some attention to yourselves from the boys.
then go over to chat to some boys, thats if they dont come over and chat 2 you
always works with me
good luck
x
offer them porn and beer
DRESS UP IN A SHORT SHIRT AND A TOP THAT MAKES YOUR BOOBS LOOK BIGGER.
DRAW THE BOPYS TOWARDS YOU AND IF THIS DOESNT WORK THEN GET NAKED !!:)
Video on how to dirty dance?
can anyone find me a youtube video(s) on how to grind/dirty dance/freak dance (whatever you call it)? i wanna learn how. i know it is hard to explain and it is easier to watch and learn. it can be...
-a video
-or a video + tutorial
-with a guy and a girl/ or just a girl or a guy.
thanks, best answer 10 points!Video on how to dirty dance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUEt-ypKp鈥?/a>
these two are really good:]Video on how to dirty dance?
why don't you just watch some music videos on MTv. They will help
-a video
-or a video + tutorial
-with a guy and a girl/ or just a girl or a guy.
thanks, best answer 10 points!Video on how to dirty dance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUEt-ypKp鈥?/a>
these two are really good:]Video on how to dirty dance?
why don't you just watch some music videos on MTv. They will help
Fashion design or dance for high school, school offers neither, its private, so it would be extra curricular?
i really want to be a fashion sketch artist and then turn the clothes into reality, but i also love to dance for fun, but I would not want to dance for a living. My mom second guesses doing competition dance because they make youung girls sometimes do akward dance moves with guys and wear bikini clothes, but i love dancing. i also have bad knees, not terrible, but they get sore easily and are sensitive and my hips always crack, so she says i could never do it, but some dance studios offer teams that dont have to go there 8 hours a week, but maybe have about 4 classes for 1 comp. dance, right? but i dont think i could handle my homework with all the dance and trying to become a designer. so then i go back to fashion, but how can i learn? i try to look at a pattern but freak out, it takes hours to finish one top that turns out ugly! i go to a private christian school so i have
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health/geographyFashion design or dance for high school, school offers neither, its private, so it would be extra curricular?
I Love dance for fun andrejoice and I dont attach to fashion.
bible
spanish
band (before school) they compete too
advanced english
biology
geometry
health/geographyFashion design or dance for high school, school offers neither, its private, so it would be extra curricular?
I Love dance for fun andrejoice and I dont attach to fashion.
Fashion design or dance for high school? school offers neither so it would be extra curricular?
i really want to be a fashion sketch artist and then turn the clothes into reality, but i also love to dance for fun, but I would not want to dance for a living. My mom second guesses doing competition dance because they make youung girls sometimes do akward dance moves with guys and wear bikini clothes, but i love dancing. i also have bad knees, not terrible, but they get sore easily and are sensitive and my hips always crack, so she says i could never do it, but some dance studios offer teams that dont have to go there 8 hours a week, but maybe have about 4 classes for 1 comp. dance, right? but i dont think i could handle my homework with all the dance and trying to become a designer. so then i go back to fashion, but how can i learn? i try to look at a pattern but freak out, it takes hours to finish one top that turns out ugly! i go to a private christian school so i have
bible
spanish
band (before school) they compete too
advanced english
biology
geometry
health/geographyFashion design or dance for high school? school offers neither so it would be extra curricular?
Focus on your fashion and let the others be hobbies for once in awhile when you get time..
Example: focus on taking some sowing lessons to better your skill. Some art classes could also help.
When it comes to dancing, as someone else mentioned, do it at home. When able to, do a drop in class. (1 time a week). Plus, better on your body to get strength, not over do it and learn new things to do at home or with friends (we used to make up our own dances to songs at my house etc). It was way funner.
You nor your parents can't afford nor have the time do 4 to 8 hour classes, on top of fashion design, on top of school and on top of daily life. I know, I juggled ROTC (physical fitness and drill team), horses (4-H shows/horse judging, arts/craft/ meetings etc), dance (belly and also now pole as an adult) etc. It is a hetic and expensive schedule.Fashion design or dance for high school? school offers neither so it would be extra curricular?
as u r interested in fashion design and if u have creativity this is fine and good whenever u find time do work on fashion designing on paper and when u feel bored or unhappy sad u try to dance for hot music dances
as well u said that u r also intersted in dance but just for fun then u can just dance in front of the television
i mean u try to do the dance as the people who dance in the t.v u dont need to go to some one and learn the dance and spend the time there
Is it dance or competition that you are interested in? Because many dance schools do not compete and offer wonderful (and fun) instruction. You say you want to compete, but don't necessarily want to put in the time required. In dance you get out what you put in, and this holds true for competition dance as well. A dance school that offers good instruction would probably not let you compete if this is your first year of dance because it takes time to build the skills necessary for competition. Why not start with recreational classes that meet once or twice a week and then decide if you have the passion to continue to a competition level? Then, you can also focus on your homework and spend time perfecting your sewing and design skills as well. Best of luck to you!
danceeeeee!!!
you could just do one lesson a week at a local dance school, which shouldn't strain you too much
also fashion design would be fun, try an evening course at a local college
bible
spanish
band (before school) they compete too
advanced english
biology
geometry
health/geographyFashion design or dance for high school? school offers neither so it would be extra curricular?
Focus on your fashion and let the others be hobbies for once in awhile when you get time..
Example: focus on taking some sowing lessons to better your skill. Some art classes could also help.
When it comes to dancing, as someone else mentioned, do it at home. When able to, do a drop in class. (1 time a week). Plus, better on your body to get strength, not over do it and learn new things to do at home or with friends (we used to make up our own dances to songs at my house etc). It was way funner.
You nor your parents can't afford nor have the time do 4 to 8 hour classes, on top of fashion design, on top of school and on top of daily life. I know, I juggled ROTC (physical fitness and drill team), horses (4-H shows/horse judging, arts/craft/ meetings etc), dance (belly and also now pole as an adult) etc. It is a hetic and expensive schedule.Fashion design or dance for high school? school offers neither so it would be extra curricular?
as u r interested in fashion design and if u have creativity this is fine and good whenever u find time do work on fashion designing on paper and when u feel bored or unhappy sad u try to dance for hot music dances
as well u said that u r also intersted in dance but just for fun then u can just dance in front of the television
i mean u try to do the dance as the people who dance in the t.v u dont need to go to some one and learn the dance and spend the time there
Is it dance or competition that you are interested in? Because many dance schools do not compete and offer wonderful (and fun) instruction. You say you want to compete, but don't necessarily want to put in the time required. In dance you get out what you put in, and this holds true for competition dance as well. A dance school that offers good instruction would probably not let you compete if this is your first year of dance because it takes time to build the skills necessary for competition. Why not start with recreational classes that meet once or twice a week and then decide if you have the passion to continue to a competition level? Then, you can also focus on your homework and spend time perfecting your sewing and design skills as well. Best of luck to you!
danceeeeee!!!
you could just do one lesson a week at a local dance school, which shouldn't strain you too much
also fashion design would be fun, try an evening course at a local college
My parents have a problem with freak dancing (grinding)?
My step dad works at my high school and supervises all the dances. I was freak dancing at the last dance (I didn't let any guys ';feel'; me, though, which I explained clearly to him.), and having a really good time. My step dad saw me, and when we got home, he sat me down and told me that it had upset him to see me dancing like that.
Now, please understand, I'm a very good kid. I have good judgement, I don't go out ';playing around'; with boys, do drugs, get drunk, sneak out, etc. Grinding is just about my only outlet.
I never really had fun at the dances where I didn't grind, but I'm having a blast now. And, in my opinion, I think it's much better to for teens to get rid of their ';urges'; out on the dance floor, in clothing, and at a school-supervised event, rather than in some dim-lit room naked.
My step dad still doesn't agree with me, and keeps playing the whole ';you're just giving them a lap dance'; card. How do I convince him to let me dance the way I want?My parents have a problem with freak dancing (grinding)?
you will never convience them. No parent wants to hear that there daughter is doin that.My parents have a problem with freak dancing (grinding)?
I def. aggree wit u and so would my parent....i was 8 when i first grinded(it was at my house) my parents saw me n didnt care at all...idk y he cares it not lik eu r gunna go n *** the dude......come on!
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I'm guessing this is your step dad..
Why is it OK to be a whore on the dance floor, and a virgin at home? What if these boys don't understand the ';whore switch'; goes to the ';off'; position when you leave the dance floor? You're sending mixed messages to the young men you're dancing with, and you could find yourself in dangerous situations. Basically, you are simulating sex, and that turns boys on. I believe you that your intentions are pure, but I'm afraid I have to side with step dad. Sorry!
He's a dad and doesn't want to see his daughter grinding. All dads are like that -- he's a dad. Show respect and don't do it, especially in front of him. In his eyes, it makes you look s.lutt.y
you cant convince him... he's a guy and guys have different intentions when grinding and he knows that so that's why he's saying this. well.. i suggest that you just keep doing whatever you want to even if it's dancing cuz it isn't wrong... it's a type of dance and it a lot of fun but not in a perverted type of way or anything like that..
did you try telling him all that stuff? its just dancing it should be fun. a freedom of expression right? but i guess if he doesn't like it just tell him you won't do it when he's around..
if these boys see u grinding on the dance floor, they'll think ur easy. just becuz u had fun doesn't make it right.
The same thing happened at my school dance with other girls and boys saw them as a ho.
u won't be able to convince him of something that is slutty, that's like trying to convince a dog to stop barking.
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Now, please understand, I'm a very good kid. I have good judgement, I don't go out ';playing around'; with boys, do drugs, get drunk, sneak out, etc. Grinding is just about my only outlet.
I never really had fun at the dances where I didn't grind, but I'm having a blast now. And, in my opinion, I think it's much better to for teens to get rid of their ';urges'; out on the dance floor, in clothing, and at a school-supervised event, rather than in some dim-lit room naked.
My step dad still doesn't agree with me, and keeps playing the whole ';you're just giving them a lap dance'; card. How do I convince him to let me dance the way I want?My parents have a problem with freak dancing (grinding)?
you will never convience them. No parent wants to hear that there daughter is doin that.My parents have a problem with freak dancing (grinding)?
I def. aggree wit u and so would my parent....i was 8 when i first grinded(it was at my house) my parents saw me n didnt care at all...idk y he cares it not lik eu r gunna go n *** the dude......come on!
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Why is it OK to be a whore on the dance floor, and a virgin at home? What if these boys don't understand the ';whore switch'; goes to the ';off'; position when you leave the dance floor? You're sending mixed messages to the young men you're dancing with, and you could find yourself in dangerous situations. Basically, you are simulating sex, and that turns boys on. I believe you that your intentions are pure, but I'm afraid I have to side with step dad. Sorry!
He's a dad and doesn't want to see his daughter grinding. All dads are like that -- he's a dad. Show respect and don't do it, especially in front of him. In his eyes, it makes you look s.lutt.y
you cant convince him... he's a guy and guys have different intentions when grinding and he knows that so that's why he's saying this. well.. i suggest that you just keep doing whatever you want to even if it's dancing cuz it isn't wrong... it's a type of dance and it a lot of fun but not in a perverted type of way or anything like that..
did you try telling him all that stuff? its just dancing it should be fun. a freedom of expression right? but i guess if he doesn't like it just tell him you won't do it when he's around..
if these boys see u grinding on the dance floor, they'll think ur easy. just becuz u had fun doesn't make it right.
The same thing happened at my school dance with other girls and boys saw them as a ho.
u won't be able to convince him of something that is slutty, that's like trying to convince a dog to stop barking.
Just don't do it.
How do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
My girlfriend was invited to her good friends birthday party.. and they are going to go clubbing... i dont know her friend that well so natually i wasnt invited.. her friend likes reggeaton music so they are probly going somewhere that plays that kind of music... dancing to reggeaton your real close to who ever your dancing with.. another of her friends are goin and she is in a relationship too.. and my girlfriend said she would be dancing with her for most if not the whole time.. but we talked about if a guy were to ask her to dance and the line between dancing and gettin ready to jump in the sack on the dance floor and what would be going to far... she told me her idea of too far and that she wouldnt dance with someone who got too touchy feely and stuff and i trust her to stop if its too much.. but i really dont like the idea of another guy dancing with her at all lol i know that sounds really bad on my part.. but its pretty much grinding and things of that sort when dancing to reggeaton and i dont like thinking about some other guy rubbing on her or touching her in anyway.. thoughts pop into my head like what if a guy dances with her and he gets a hard on and is rubbin on her behind or rubbin on her in general... i dont like that idea... or if a guy starts getting touchy.. even though she would stop i still dont like that another guy would do that... i dont want to come off as a paranoid control freak boyfriend because im not.. and i dont want to tell her how uncomfortable it would make me because i dont want to say she cant go and have fun.. i know she deserves to have a good time.. and i wouldnt even be having this problem if i was going with them you know.. but i cant help but think about other guys.. but guys might now ask her to dance ( even though i think some might) or she might turn them down.. and there isnt a doubt in my mind that she will stay faithful and she would never cheat on me.. but i dont like the idea of a guy besides me being that close to her... i might jsut be retarted like that but i think guys out there with girlfriends can feel for me... what should i do because i hate feeling like thisHow do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
I know how you feel, as a personal fan of reggaeton music, she needs to be careful with that. you should really tell her hoe you feel, dont hold anything back. its not saying she cant go and have fun, but youre being honest with her. just tell her you trust her, and that you know she would never do you wrong. it just makes you feel uncomfortable because its almost like your letting another guy be with her for that time. if anything ask her if you can come along and dance with her, if she wants to dance with any guy, it should be you.
Good Luck :)How do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
hmmm.. I wonder what she would think if a girl was grinding on you?? btw.. I hate reggeaton music
Well with my old boy friend when we were going out he hung out with ALOT of girls and they have known him forever and i have for only a few months i got the same feeling but sorta pissed of as well then i realized that they were all just having fun and well i guess its a feeling u get in some sort of situation eventually i guess a version of jealousy, i mean it's going to happen in a relationship eventually. If you trust her then it's fine dancing is one thing but cheating is another if u knows she is smart then u know its okay. I'm sorry i feel bad for you in your situation here, because there isn't anything you can do about it besides trust her, so do so.or tell her the truth and how u feel she will understand.
I know how you feel, as a personal fan of reggaeton music, she needs to be careful with that. you should really tell her hoe you feel, dont hold anything back. its not saying she cant go and have fun, but youre being honest with her. just tell her you trust her, and that you know she would never do you wrong. it just makes you feel uncomfortable because its almost like your letting another guy be with her for that time. if anything ask her if you can come along and dance with her, if she wants to dance with any guy, it should be you.
Good Luck :)How do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
hmmm.. I wonder what she would think if a girl was grinding on you?? btw.. I hate reggeaton music
Well with my old boy friend when we were going out he hung out with ALOT of girls and they have known him forever and i have for only a few months i got the same feeling but sorta pissed of as well then i realized that they were all just having fun and well i guess its a feeling u get in some sort of situation eventually i guess a version of jealousy, i mean it's going to happen in a relationship eventually. If you trust her then it's fine dancing is one thing but cheating is another if u knows she is smart then u know its okay. I'm sorry i feel bad for you in your situation here, because there isn't anything you can do about it besides trust her, so do so.or tell her the truth and how u feel she will understand.
Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]? [one last time! :) ]?
so tomorrow is the last school dance of the year, and i really want to have a fun time. the thing is, whenever i got to dance i usually have too am sort of left out of my group's dance circle thing. ..not there's too much room to begin wit
so i was wondering how can i survive a dance just sort of being on my own? i havent freaked [grind] before (the only dance people at my school do) and girls who are usually alone and not with their friends are good at grabbing random guys to freak with them..
how do i do that? please no comments about freaking [grinding] is stupid and stuff like that, its just what my generation does.Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]? [one last time! :) ]?
do what you know is right dont do what you will regret even though in life ive found this to be nearly impossible. On ocassion i have made the right decision its been few and far between, just remember my advice is do what you KNOW is right. dont do what you will regret. hope this makes sense, it took me a long time to learn this and it seems to be for the best im a lot more content with my life in being content with what i have than getting what iwant because when i get what i want i dont want what i get its really wierd how it works God will splain it all someday Good blees Tom W;Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]? [one last time! :) ]?
well if you go alone most likely there will be guys there alone you can ask them to dance or you coud go with your friends do what you wont with guys but the most important thing is that you have fun.
just be yourself
my advice, skip the dance and go hang out somewhere else.
but if you must go, just stand there and try not to look awkward (difficult, i know). dont be afraid to approach the ladies you are interested in dancing with. they might be flattered....or creeped out. but you won't know until you try.
i just plop myself into a random group and nobody cares whos dancing. when freak dancing, dont be pressured to be with a guy or even to freak dance. just out yourself snugly in between tow groups of dancing people and move around and jump and stuff. thats what i do and im fine!
I actually have the exact same problem, i just dont like going to dances. Why stand around, listening to music, while friends are trying to talk over it. Then saying ';Hey! lets go see what we can do when we make this part of our body look like its having a seizure!';
Don't go if its too much of a burden. If you get left out, push your way back in.
Best of luck to you.
no probs b on ur own dont bother abt anything n feel that no onez watchin u juss try to b natural juss like u sing or dance while u take a shower try to be that cool
so i was wondering how can i survive a dance just sort of being on my own? i havent freaked [grind] before (the only dance people at my school do) and girls who are usually alone and not with their friends are good at grabbing random guys to freak with them..
how do i do that? please no comments about freaking [grinding] is stupid and stuff like that, its just what my generation does.Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]? [one last time! :) ]?
do what you know is right dont do what you will regret even though in life ive found this to be nearly impossible. On ocassion i have made the right decision its been few and far between, just remember my advice is do what you KNOW is right. dont do what you will regret. hope this makes sense, it took me a long time to learn this and it seems to be for the best im a lot more content with my life in being content with what i have than getting what iwant because when i get what i want i dont want what i get its really wierd how it works God will splain it all someday Good blees Tom W;Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]? [one last time! :) ]?
well if you go alone most likely there will be guys there alone you can ask them to dance or you coud go with your friends do what you wont with guys but the most important thing is that you have fun.
just be yourself
my advice, skip the dance and go hang out somewhere else.
but if you must go, just stand there and try not to look awkward (difficult, i know). dont be afraid to approach the ladies you are interested in dancing with. they might be flattered....or creeped out. but you won't know until you try.
i just plop myself into a random group and nobody cares whos dancing. when freak dancing, dont be pressured to be with a guy or even to freak dance. just out yourself snugly in between tow groups of dancing people and move around and jump and stuff. thats what i do and im fine!
I actually have the exact same problem, i just dont like going to dances. Why stand around, listening to music, while friends are trying to talk over it. Then saying ';Hey! lets go see what we can do when we make this part of our body look like its having a seizure!';
Don't go if its too much of a burden. If you get left out, push your way back in.
Best of luck to you.
no probs b on ur own dont bother abt anything n feel that no onez watchin u juss try to b natural juss like u sing or dance while u take a shower try to be that cool
My gf danceing with other guysat homecoming?
Ok so my gf is going to homecomeing soon and i talked to her about going with her. I want to go but if i do she might still dance with her guy freinds...I dont know but think about her freaking with another guy makes me a bit nogilistic...i dont want to be the jealous type and tell her she cant cause she already told me that danceing with another guy will be nothing to her. She said that if i do come she may freak with other guys but she will only be all up on me not the other guys...I was just wondering how you people would feel and act if ur gf or bf danced with another person at the dance. I am not positive on what to do about it...should i let this go or talk to her more about it and tell he how i feel? please answer both questions.My gf danceing with other guysat homecoming?
There's nothing wrong with her dancing with other guys, but if freaking other guys means that she'll be rubbing all up against them then that's disrespectful to you. You should tell her that. There's no reason for her to do that if she has you and you'll be there. Trust. ';-()My gf danceing with other guysat homecoming?
give her space dont freek you can hang with ur guy friends well she goes by her girl friends to tell them how amazing you are friends are friend and who cares marryed people dance with other people
As long as she's just dancing and not blowing these guys, I'd encourage her to enjoy her evening and stop being such a control freak!
i would say just dont go so u dont have to see it...its just dancingg so let her do what she wants
Id feel jealous. and uncomfortable. i deff talk more to her about it dude. Shes your girl bro. just dont be super controling hope i could help
dude tell that sluht she cant go if you dont. shes straight tellin you shes gonna freak with other guys? dawg get ur beezy in line
if it bothers you then talk to her about it. dont avoid it because you holding your feelings about it is just going to make things worse. good luck :)
I went to homecoming with my boyfriend who lost his virginity to me and told him I was good friends with a guy and I promised I would dance with him one time. He stood there like an idiot and watched us slow dance together in front of all of his friends. The next day I broke up with him and started dating the other guy. Be careful.
sorry man, that's rough. i guess you can't really do anything. i guess dancing with her guy friends is ok, (not that i'd be comfortable with it) as long as she knows you know she's doing it. when at the dance and she's dancing with someone else, go dance with another girl. see what she thinks of that! good luck.
Well.. in all honestly I would become quiet uneasy if I was at the dance and watched him dance with another girl that wasn't me. But I think that's normal. I mean... it's high school. You only go through it once so everyone may as well enjoy it. Especially if it's dancing with your friends. I would have loved to dance with some of my good male friends, but dancing with my boyfriend would have meant the most. But I know he wouldn't have liked it if I danced with other guys, and I would feel the same way. Maybe while she's dancing with other guys you can dance with another girl? It's only fair. Or, just don't bother going. Either way you'll be insecure. I would have rather been insecure without having to see it happen. At least she told you straight out she was going to be dancing with other guys.
Man i no how it is theres this dance party where i live every monday and she grinded up on some guy and she told me but i did freak out a little but i dont think you have much to worry about if you go with her cause you will be with her and she will think it will be awkward if she dances with other guys.
Your terminology is a bit foreign to me but I'm going to see what I can do. I'm guessing ';freak'; is a relative of 'grind' or 'dirty dance' (again just winging it here correct me if I'm wrong). If my girlfriend did that with another guy I would break up with her before she stepped off the dance floor. Even if it was just a regular dance, I would be uncomfortable with it and tell her she couldn't. I'm not necessarily the jealous type, but I have my borderlines and that one is right over the edge.
if my bf was dancing with other girls i go dance with his friends
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of course for me i would be a bit jealous. its kinda natural but you just have to trust her when she says its nothing when she dances with other guys. Trust plays a part in a relationship to you know. C: . i think you should tell her how you feel but wen she says it really nothing then believe her.
yea dude, if you know her well and your taking her to homecoming then she probably is just dancing with her guy friends, dont be protective of her if shes honest with you
She's just dancing -- She's not going to be having sex with them.
It's one night and she's going to have fun -- You should do it with other girls.
in all of history, people's significant others have danced with other people and meant no harm. haven't you ever watched movies concerning the times of the queens and kings and everybody danced around in big circles and traded partners and such? it should actually be flattering that other guys want to dance with your girl. it means she is well liked and as long as she's not rubbing up against them, then i see no harm.
I feel stupid even answering this question. Your way better than my boyfriend. I cant talk or look or have ANYTHIN to do with guys. If I ever danced with another boy at homecomin my boyfriend would break up with me in a heartbeat. I know that for a 100 % fact. Im not tellin you your wrong. I think she should be aloud to have guy friends and have fun and dance with them. Just nothing bad, trust me being cheated on 5 times and more is not fun to live with knowing or deal with. Its really your call, go for what you feel is best.
Seeing your date dance with someone else SHOULD make you antsy. It would me, for sure. But I think enduring that is a gesture of trust to my date. Sure, you can let her know how you feel - but keep it light and sexy, just tell her it makes you anxious but you want to see her have a good time. She will reassure you again and you should believe her. Don't make it seem like she should feel bad about it, or like you are being possessive.
Besides, that tension is part of what makes a dance a good date, to show that you can let each other go a little, and take chances on each other, and stuff your irrational feelings so that the other person can enjoy it. She'd let you dance with other girls right?
Tell her how you feel. I know I would be pissed, and I would just leave her and go find someone else. And by leave her I mean dump her. I mean its your girl so she should be dancing with you and only you. Unless she wants to dance with another girl then its fine. But seriously tell her how you fell and if she can't accept that leave her.
i think you need to let her have fun on her homecoming. it means nothing to her, its not cheating, i know its hard but if you let her live this out shell love you forever. youve already taked to her, theres no use trying to chan ge her mind
There's nothing wrong with her dancing with other guys, but if freaking other guys means that she'll be rubbing all up against them then that's disrespectful to you. You should tell her that. There's no reason for her to do that if she has you and you'll be there. Trust. ';-()My gf danceing with other guysat homecoming?
give her space dont freek you can hang with ur guy friends well she goes by her girl friends to tell them how amazing you are friends are friend and who cares marryed people dance with other people
As long as she's just dancing and not blowing these guys, I'd encourage her to enjoy her evening and stop being such a control freak!
i would say just dont go so u dont have to see it...its just dancingg so let her do what she wants
Id feel jealous. and uncomfortable. i deff talk more to her about it dude. Shes your girl bro. just dont be super controling hope i could help
dude tell that sluht she cant go if you dont. shes straight tellin you shes gonna freak with other guys? dawg get ur beezy in line
if it bothers you then talk to her about it. dont avoid it because you holding your feelings about it is just going to make things worse. good luck :)
I went to homecoming with my boyfriend who lost his virginity to me and told him I was good friends with a guy and I promised I would dance with him one time. He stood there like an idiot and watched us slow dance together in front of all of his friends. The next day I broke up with him and started dating the other guy. Be careful.
sorry man, that's rough. i guess you can't really do anything. i guess dancing with her guy friends is ok, (not that i'd be comfortable with it) as long as she knows you know she's doing it. when at the dance and she's dancing with someone else, go dance with another girl. see what she thinks of that! good luck.
Well.. in all honestly I would become quiet uneasy if I was at the dance and watched him dance with another girl that wasn't me. But I think that's normal. I mean... it's high school. You only go through it once so everyone may as well enjoy it. Especially if it's dancing with your friends. I would have loved to dance with some of my good male friends, but dancing with my boyfriend would have meant the most. But I know he wouldn't have liked it if I danced with other guys, and I would feel the same way. Maybe while she's dancing with other guys you can dance with another girl? It's only fair. Or, just don't bother going. Either way you'll be insecure. I would have rather been insecure without having to see it happen. At least she told you straight out she was going to be dancing with other guys.
Man i no how it is theres this dance party where i live every monday and she grinded up on some guy and she told me but i did freak out a little but i dont think you have much to worry about if you go with her cause you will be with her and she will think it will be awkward if she dances with other guys.
Your terminology is a bit foreign to me but I'm going to see what I can do. I'm guessing ';freak'; is a relative of 'grind' or 'dirty dance' (again just winging it here correct me if I'm wrong). If my girlfriend did that with another guy I would break up with her before she stepped off the dance floor. Even if it was just a regular dance, I would be uncomfortable with it and tell her she couldn't. I'm not necessarily the jealous type, but I have my borderlines and that one is right over the edge.
if my bf was dancing with other girls i go dance with his friends
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of course for me i would be a bit jealous. its kinda natural but you just have to trust her when she says its nothing when she dances with other guys. Trust plays a part in a relationship to you know. C: . i think you should tell her how you feel but wen she says it really nothing then believe her.
yea dude, if you know her well and your taking her to homecoming then she probably is just dancing with her guy friends, dont be protective of her if shes honest with you
She's just dancing -- She's not going to be having sex with them.
It's one night and she's going to have fun -- You should do it with other girls.
in all of history, people's significant others have danced with other people and meant no harm. haven't you ever watched movies concerning the times of the queens and kings and everybody danced around in big circles and traded partners and such? it should actually be flattering that other guys want to dance with your girl. it means she is well liked and as long as she's not rubbing up against them, then i see no harm.
I feel stupid even answering this question. Your way better than my boyfriend. I cant talk or look or have ANYTHIN to do with guys. If I ever danced with another boy at homecomin my boyfriend would break up with me in a heartbeat. I know that for a 100 % fact. Im not tellin you your wrong. I think she should be aloud to have guy friends and have fun and dance with them. Just nothing bad, trust me being cheated on 5 times and more is not fun to live with knowing or deal with. Its really your call, go for what you feel is best.
Seeing your date dance with someone else SHOULD make you antsy. It would me, for sure. But I think enduring that is a gesture of trust to my date. Sure, you can let her know how you feel - but keep it light and sexy, just tell her it makes you anxious but you want to see her have a good time. She will reassure you again and you should believe her. Don't make it seem like she should feel bad about it, or like you are being possessive.
Besides, that tension is part of what makes a dance a good date, to show that you can let each other go a little, and take chances on each other, and stuff your irrational feelings so that the other person can enjoy it. She'd let you dance with other girls right?
Tell her how you feel. I know I would be pissed, and I would just leave her and go find someone else. And by leave her I mean dump her. I mean its your girl so she should be dancing with you and only you. Unless she wants to dance with another girl then its fine. But seriously tell her how you fell and if she can't accept that leave her.
i think you need to let her have fun on her homecoming. it means nothing to her, its not cheating, i know its hard but if you let her live this out shell love you forever. youve already taked to her, theres no use trying to chan ge her mind
Is it okay for my boyfriend to dance at the club?
Okay, basically he went off to college and im a junior in high school..Basically he's always gone to the clubs well since he was 18 i suppose. But he's always freak danced with girls. Now I dont know if you guys know what kind of dancing im talking about but heres a link to what it looks like
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeDXDUaPs0Q
straight up ghetto nasty *** freakin. Not the little ';bounce'; that all the really preppy people do haha. no offense to anyone because i dont dance the way he does..im more of a bouncer myself lol. But..the point is he told me hes thought about girls at the club before like oh i would get with them if i wasnt with lauren..and like he wasnt doing it before i told him he could..but i didnt actually think he would be dumb enough to go do it because he knows how strongly i feel about it. ITS NOT OKAY. and his WHOLE argument is who says its not okay? hes like thats your opinion. I told him he could because I thought that maybe as time passed i would start to accept it because right now it makes me sick, im so stressed my hair is falling out...im getting stomac ulcers. its horrible. Its just like can someone please give me a way to explain it to him so that he understands why its not okay. because right now he just says baby dancing is just dancing to me. it doesnt mean anything. those girls arent sh*** to me. I dont care about them, etc. And I believe him but he should not be doing that or even want to do that with someone else but me right?
Also, please no negative comments for instance like why r u with him if you dont trust him, or why r u with him..hes in college. or hahaha hes gonna cheat on you. If you're posting just to be mean then go do that elsewhere. I really really need help with this so I GREATLY appreciate all comments. Thanks so much..Is it okay for my boyfriend to dance at the club?
Oh my.
I totally understand where your coming from !!!!!
Well here is what's happened with me.
My boyfriend used to be so flirtacious, dance with girls and stuff (not as bad as that though) and he knew it got to me. He didn't however, know how much, or that I knew he was doing it.
When I told him what I felt he completely changed. He doesn't flirt with anyone, doesn't even want to go out anymore because he would rather be with me and stuff.
And to be honest, if your boyfriend loved you he would do the same.
I'm not saying he shouldn't go out or anything, because my boyfriend chose to do that to reassure me. But what I am saying is that your boyfriend should be reassuring you in more ways than just saying 'Dancing is dancing to me.'
If I were you, I would directly ask him to stop. It seems like this is getting to you as you said you are getting stomach ulcers and losing your hair. It must be hard. When my boyfriend's ex girlfriend added me on facebook and just spoke about him that made me uncomfortable. If I had known my boyfriend was dancing like THAT, I would have been so out of place.
I really feel so bad for you, because when I read your question I imagined my boyfriend doing it and I wouldn't have been able to take it.
I hope your boyfriend tries to understand your point of view :)
Good luck xIs it okay for my boyfriend to dance at the club?
Thank you all for your answers you all helped me alot. Im talking to him right now actually, and he just said he wouldnt do it anymore..but then again hes 5 hours away at ECU so how will i know anything for sure? I guess I need to work on trust.
eeeeew..what kinda ***** boyfriend do u have????
Gift him something to dance alone in his room :]]]
he doesn't respect you, indeed i'd say he just wants a girl to spend time with when he's at home, sorry!
all you have to say to him is the reason why he shouldnt dance like that with girls because its upsetting you,if u mean alot to him then he will stop upsetting you,if he carries on then clearly he has no respect for you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeDXDUaPs0Q
straight up ghetto nasty *** freakin. Not the little ';bounce'; that all the really preppy people do haha. no offense to anyone because i dont dance the way he does..im more of a bouncer myself lol. But..the point is he told me hes thought about girls at the club before like oh i would get with them if i wasnt with lauren..and like he wasnt doing it before i told him he could..but i didnt actually think he would be dumb enough to go do it because he knows how strongly i feel about it. ITS NOT OKAY. and his WHOLE argument is who says its not okay? hes like thats your opinion. I told him he could because I thought that maybe as time passed i would start to accept it because right now it makes me sick, im so stressed my hair is falling out...im getting stomac ulcers. its horrible. Its just like can someone please give me a way to explain it to him so that he understands why its not okay. because right now he just says baby dancing is just dancing to me. it doesnt mean anything. those girls arent sh*** to me. I dont care about them, etc. And I believe him but he should not be doing that or even want to do that with someone else but me right?
Also, please no negative comments for instance like why r u with him if you dont trust him, or why r u with him..hes in college. or hahaha hes gonna cheat on you. If you're posting just to be mean then go do that elsewhere. I really really need help with this so I GREATLY appreciate all comments. Thanks so much..Is it okay for my boyfriend to dance at the club?
Oh my.
I totally understand where your coming from !!!!!
Well here is what's happened with me.
My boyfriend used to be so flirtacious, dance with girls and stuff (not as bad as that though) and he knew it got to me. He didn't however, know how much, or that I knew he was doing it.
When I told him what I felt he completely changed. He doesn't flirt with anyone, doesn't even want to go out anymore because he would rather be with me and stuff.
And to be honest, if your boyfriend loved you he would do the same.
I'm not saying he shouldn't go out or anything, because my boyfriend chose to do that to reassure me. But what I am saying is that your boyfriend should be reassuring you in more ways than just saying 'Dancing is dancing to me.'
If I were you, I would directly ask him to stop. It seems like this is getting to you as you said you are getting stomach ulcers and losing your hair. It must be hard. When my boyfriend's ex girlfriend added me on facebook and just spoke about him that made me uncomfortable. If I had known my boyfriend was dancing like THAT, I would have been so out of place.
I really feel so bad for you, because when I read your question I imagined my boyfriend doing it and I wouldn't have been able to take it.
I hope your boyfriend tries to understand your point of view :)
Good luck xIs it okay for my boyfriend to dance at the club?
Thank you all for your answers you all helped me alot. Im talking to him right now actually, and he just said he wouldnt do it anymore..but then again hes 5 hours away at ECU so how will i know anything for sure? I guess I need to work on trust.
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eeeeew..what kinda ***** boyfriend do u have????
Gift him something to dance alone in his room :]]]
he doesn't respect you, indeed i'd say he just wants a girl to spend time with when he's at home, sorry!
all you have to say to him is the reason why he shouldnt dance like that with girls because its upsetting you,if u mean alot to him then he will stop upsetting you,if he carries on then clearly he has no respect for you
How do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
I'm a Junior in High School and I'm 16 years old but I come from a small town so I find it a bit awkward to be grinding up on someone who you'll see in the halls the next day so I haven't had very much experience with this. This weekend I'm going to a dance at another school where grinding is pretty much the only way they dance. So to my question(s) I was wondering, how exactly do you do it (back to front grinding)? I've heard you're supposed to move your hips in a sideways figure 8 motion with the music, is this true? Also should a girl be going with or against a guys motion. Is there anything else a girl should do to make things more interesting? What do you do with your hands? Lastly, is there any point where she should turn around (front to front) or would that just freak a guy out?
Thanks so much!
LindsayHow do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
First ill say I think you are thinking WAY to much into this. I really don't think more girls think about how they are going to dance before they do it, they just move with the music. If you are wanting to learn to dance like how people do in clubs, then just listen to the music. If you have completely no idea you could look on youtube at rap videos or something. How do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
I cant believe i am entertaining this...
you need to just go out there and dance how you feel the music.
but this might help a bit too...
http://www.clubdancelessons.com/
and search http://www.youtube.com as well
Thanks so much!
LindsayHow do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
First ill say I think you are thinking WAY to much into this. I really don't think more girls think about how they are going to dance before they do it, they just move with the music. If you are wanting to learn to dance like how people do in clubs, then just listen to the music. If you have completely no idea you could look on youtube at rap videos or something. How do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
I cant believe i am entertaining this...
you need to just go out there and dance how you feel the music.
but this might help a bit too...
http://www.clubdancelessons.com/
and search http://www.youtube.com as well
How can I trust my girlfriend after several lies?
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 year and 9 months ... and she hasn't lied to me (not any that I know of) for several months, but her past lies still haunt me today. This started off on our third or fourth month together when she went to high school prom. I didn't attend because she went to a different school and I knew high school prom was just a waste of money (supposedly for memories) and has nothing but hormone crazed teenagers dancing sexually. Well I asked my girlfriend not to freak dance with her date or other men and she did ... and since then I have felt uncomfortable. I was angry at her and threatened to leave her if she did that again. Following this were several more lies, such as drinking with other guys present after I ask her not to, or freak dancing again at clubs. One incident came up where I had this gut feeling she was hiding stuff from me again after she got back from the club, and I pretended that I saw a picture on her friend's myspace of her dancing provocatively with some other guy. At first she had a quizzical reaction such as ';Huh?';, ';What picture? Where?';, ';Who?'; then later she admits that she was indeed dancing with some guy from her club at her college campus. This frustrates me, and even if it has been over 4 months of her not lying, or at least none that I know of, she still goes clubbing and attends late night house parties. It eats me up inside wondering what she's doing but I try to set my mind away from it by playing video games. I don't know what I'm going to do ... were on good terms right now and I promised her that I wouldn't bring the past back up as it tends to frustrate her as well as me. I don't mean to be controlling, but when it comes to lying and keep things from me, I feel that I need to control what's going on. For our sake, I don't go clubbing or drink with other women. I've often been invited to house parties or to go clubbing but since I'm uncomfortable with my girlfriend doing this, I don't go. What should I do about my current relationship? How do I know if she's still keeping things from me? She lives 4 hours away from me and I can't be present at all these little festivities she attends.How can I trust my girlfriend after several lies?
I'm no expert but i can speak from experience,I've been there. It doesn't get any better, one lie leads to another to cover up the last one and so on,the thing is she knows that you want to believe in her, and she knows that she has gotten away with it in the past,and now she feels no guilt in telling you what you want to hear,I don't know how old she is and if this is something she has done in past relationships,I do know that lying is a flaw in that person character,and she begins to believe in her own lies. Once the trust is in question it never goes away I thing that your sub conscience keeps reminding you of her lying to you is a way for you to keep your guard up so that the next time she tells you a story (and she will) it doesn't hurt as bad as the previous time or the time before that, My advise to you is get out before that pain in your heart becomes numb and you start to believe that is normal, Trust is something that is earned and not something that can ever be as strong as it was before the first time she lied. There's a snog by Linkin Park that goes '; a little piece of paper with a picture drawn floats on down the street till the wind is gone and the memory now is like the picture was then when the paper's crumpled up it can't be perfect again' How can I trust my girlfriend after several lies?
shes going to do what she wants and she is probably lying to you still. drinking leads to other things......be careful.
You seem to like her a lot. So, do what you feel is right so you won't have any regrets later. Tell her to be honest with you or else...That's the least you deserve. If she doesn't make you happy, someone else will.
without reading details i can answer your question: how do guys ignore the trash that hasnt been taken out? how does a guy ignore the toilet paper roll is empty and wont replace it? how does a guy ignore a woman he's not attracted to? how does a guy ignore anything that he doesnt like or doesnt want to do?
you can control most inanimate objects, but not people.
i know how you feel mate. i went through this. i also dislike going out clubbing or for drinks and have always been invited to join my friends. and i hope that she would be the same way. plus we are in a long distance relationship. the thing is, for a relationship to work both party have to play their part. never do stuff that would hurt your partner. its good that you don't but i know what it felt like when you saw the pictures. talk to your girlfriend, thats the best you can do. don't control her life, it would make it worst. tell her if she wants to club, dance with her girlfriend. tell her you hurt when you saw that picture. she should understand, if not, she isn't worth your time. i knw its hard to accept but if she still does dance sexually with other guys, i guess its better if you break up since you can't take it. i'm not blaming you rite? i feel the same way.
good luck mate
cheers
first off....you need to be the guy that she is freak dancing with...so go dance with her....and second...maybe she shouldnt be drinking and dancing if she has a boyfriend that she cares a lot about and she knows that she is a loose drunk. thats just my opinion.
she's clearly not your type. You don't like club girl, look at you...you dont seems to be a party guy as well. My advise is talk from heart to heart of what you expected out of her, she should know you well already. Is she kept on doing stuff you dont like, she simply doesn't care.
If shes lying too much, than ditch her bro. Honesty is 2 wat street, and its obvious shes been making some u turns. If she aint the one ditch her and let her go.
I'm no expert but i can speak from experience,I've been there. It doesn't get any better, one lie leads to another to cover up the last one and so on,the thing is she knows that you want to believe in her, and she knows that she has gotten away with it in the past,and now she feels no guilt in telling you what you want to hear,I don't know how old she is and if this is something she has done in past relationships,I do know that lying is a flaw in that person character,and she begins to believe in her own lies. Once the trust is in question it never goes away I thing that your sub conscience keeps reminding you of her lying to you is a way for you to keep your guard up so that the next time she tells you a story (and she will) it doesn't hurt as bad as the previous time or the time before that, My advise to you is get out before that pain in your heart becomes numb and you start to believe that is normal, Trust is something that is earned and not something that can ever be as strong as it was before the first time she lied. There's a snog by Linkin Park that goes '; a little piece of paper with a picture drawn floats on down the street till the wind is gone and the memory now is like the picture was then when the paper's crumpled up it can't be perfect again' How can I trust my girlfriend after several lies?
shes going to do what she wants and she is probably lying to you still. drinking leads to other things......be careful.
You seem to like her a lot. So, do what you feel is right so you won't have any regrets later. Tell her to be honest with you or else...That's the least you deserve. If she doesn't make you happy, someone else will.
without reading details i can answer your question: how do guys ignore the trash that hasnt been taken out? how does a guy ignore the toilet paper roll is empty and wont replace it? how does a guy ignore a woman he's not attracted to? how does a guy ignore anything that he doesnt like or doesnt want to do?
you can control most inanimate objects, but not people.
i know how you feel mate. i went through this. i also dislike going out clubbing or for drinks and have always been invited to join my friends. and i hope that she would be the same way. plus we are in a long distance relationship. the thing is, for a relationship to work both party have to play their part. never do stuff that would hurt your partner. its good that you don't but i know what it felt like when you saw the pictures. talk to your girlfriend, thats the best you can do. don't control her life, it would make it worst. tell her if she wants to club, dance with her girlfriend. tell her you hurt when you saw that picture. she should understand, if not, she isn't worth your time. i knw its hard to accept but if she still does dance sexually with other guys, i guess its better if you break up since you can't take it. i'm not blaming you rite? i feel the same way.
good luck mate
cheers
first off....you need to be the guy that she is freak dancing with...so go dance with her....and second...maybe she shouldnt be drinking and dancing if she has a boyfriend that she cares a lot about and she knows that she is a loose drunk. thats just my opinion.
she's clearly not your type. You don't like club girl, look at you...you dont seems to be a party guy as well. My advise is talk from heart to heart of what you expected out of her, she should know you well already. Is she kept on doing stuff you dont like, she simply doesn't care.
If shes lying too much, than ditch her bro. Honesty is 2 wat street, and its obvious shes been making some u turns. If she aint the one ditch her and let her go.
Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]?
so tomorrow is the last school dance of the year, and i really want to have a fun time. the thing is, whenever i got to dance i usually have too am sort of left out of my group's dance circle thing. ..not there's too much room to begin wit
so i was wondering how can i survive a dance just sort of being on my own? i havent freaked before (the only dance people at my school do) and girls who are usually alone and not with their friends are good at grabbing random guys to freak with them..
how do i do that? please no comments about freaking is stupid and stuff like that, its just what my generation does.Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]?
I'm sure as long as u have some good friends there youll have a great time. don't worry too much about grabbing a random guy, just have fun with your friends/guy friends or maybe you have a crush going....good luck %26amp; have fun!Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]?
It's not how you do it, it's confidence, that's what you need. The best dancers are the confident ones.
does freaking mean grinding?
if it does then any guy would want to just grab him.. idk.
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LOL@your generation, that's a funny phrase. Look, you just need to gather up your self-confidence and go for it!
Guys usually will not say no to a girl, and if one does, a ';no'; is the worse thing that can happen, so it's not so bad, just move on to the next one!
Good luck, have a great time!
just movee with the music. let it get into ur body. %26amp; mind %26amp; soul. move 2 the rhythm of the girls body ur dancing with. have confidence in ur self.
u kno wut i do b4 a dance, i blast all the music i think they would play %26amp; i practice dance in front of my mirror so i can figure out what 2 do at certain parts of songs %26amp; stuff. it gets me pumpedd 2
Honestly, don't worry about 'freaking'. The best dancers are the most confident ones! Break all of hell loose and go wild. If someone whines about it, tell them to shut up because you're having fun!
it should just come naturally and u should just have fun with it.
good luck!
i have gone to a dance alone b4 chill with friends %26amp; make some new ones..when u r actually doing it...its not as bad as u think it is.. when i went to homecoming a few months ago.. i did none of that ';freaking'; stuff...dont look like a skank if your not...and dont just want to fit in.i think its too whore-like, to close to losing my viginity...
Just have fun and be confident. Guys like girls that dont mind dancing on their own. Just enjoy your dance. Have a blast tommorrow. Hope you end up the queen of the dance floor :) xoxo
so i was wondering how can i survive a dance just sort of being on my own? i havent freaked before (the only dance people at my school do) and girls who are usually alone and not with their friends are good at grabbing random guys to freak with them..
how do i do that? please no comments about freaking is stupid and stuff like that, its just what my generation does.Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]?
I'm sure as long as u have some good friends there youll have a great time. don't worry too much about grabbing a random guy, just have fun with your friends/guy friends or maybe you have a crush going....good luck %26amp; have fun!Hey guys, need to advice for tomorrow's school dance [high school]?
It's not how you do it, it's confidence, that's what you need. The best dancers are the confident ones.
does freaking mean grinding?
if it does then any guy would want to just grab him.. idk.
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LOL@your generation, that's a funny phrase. Look, you just need to gather up your self-confidence and go for it!
Guys usually will not say no to a girl, and if one does, a ';no'; is the worse thing that can happen, so it's not so bad, just move on to the next one!
Good luck, have a great time!
just movee with the music. let it get into ur body. %26amp; mind %26amp; soul. move 2 the rhythm of the girls body ur dancing with. have confidence in ur self.
u kno wut i do b4 a dance, i blast all the music i think they would play %26amp; i practice dance in front of my mirror so i can figure out what 2 do at certain parts of songs %26amp; stuff. it gets me pumpedd 2
Honestly, don't worry about 'freaking'. The best dancers are the most confident ones! Break all of hell loose and go wild. If someone whines about it, tell them to shut up because you're having fun!
it should just come naturally and u should just have fun with it.
good luck!
i have gone to a dance alone b4 chill with friends %26amp; make some new ones..when u r actually doing it...its not as bad as u think it is.. when i went to homecoming a few months ago.. i did none of that ';freaking'; stuff...dont look like a skank if your not...and dont just want to fit in.i think its too whore-like, to close to losing my viginity...
Just have fun and be confident. Guys like girls that dont mind dancing on their own. Just enjoy your dance. Have a blast tommorrow. Hope you end up the queen of the dance floor :) xoxo
Ok so last weekend there was this dance and the chick that im in love with went and i was really considering..?
asking her if she would dance with me so the party went on all the other guys were dancing with theyr girls and she was the only one wating to be asked to dance so i decided to go dance with her but when i was like 3 feet from the table she was sitting in i got a really bad and stong nervious attack and i walked right past her once i was past her i turned around and saw her looking a the other couples dancing and she also stared at me literally telling me would you dance with me with her eyes i was so nervous my hands got cold i was getting shaky i really wanted to go dance with her but one side of me was freaked out and said no! but the other side said c mon its the perfect chance to be with her i was nervous confused and scared that some other guy would ask her out to dance i spent like half an hour deciding wether i should do it or not and then when i looked at her again BANG! some other guy asked her out to dance the moment i saw that i walked out and went home regreting that i blew up my chance to ask that beauty out to dance but i have never gotten that feeling before i was frozen i had danced with other chicks and never had that feeling so the question is how do i ask her to dance without me freezing up or getting nervous how could i beat that nervous feeling and ask her?Ok so last weekend there was this dance and the chick that im in love with went and i was really considering..?
by simply asking her. think of how much of a good time you'll have and that'll rid you of the nervousness.
by simply asking her. think of how much of a good time you'll have and that'll rid you of the nervousness.
How do you dance at a rave if you're a girl?
I'm going to another rave tomorrow and normally I just buy glow sticks and jump around with friends, but this time a guy I like is going to come and I want to look sexy not like a jumpy freak!
So how do girls dance at raves? Videos would be much appreciated!!How do you dance at a rave if you're a girl?
Do it naked. And to be frank, I'm being serious - if you're on drugs. If you're not naked, do whatever feels right. Like, ride his leg like a dick!How do you dance at a rave if you're a girl?
Well the guy will certainly will enjoy watching you jump around!...I'm just saying.
um yeah......move to the beat and if ur with him then ';go down';. if u know what i mean?
get freaky and rub him a lot. then take him to a corner and go down.
Reach around and give him a hand job while u grind him.
Well rave is jumping!!
lots of jumping and bum shacking!!
So how do girls dance at raves? Videos would be much appreciated!!How do you dance at a rave if you're a girl?
Do it naked. And to be frank, I'm being serious - if you're on drugs. If you're not naked, do whatever feels right. Like, ride his leg like a dick!How do you dance at a rave if you're a girl?
Well the guy will certainly will enjoy watching you jump around!...I'm just saying.
um yeah......move to the beat and if ur with him then ';go down';. if u know what i mean?
get freaky and rub him a lot. then take him to a corner and go down.
Reach around and give him a hand job while u grind him.
Well rave is jumping!!
lots of jumping and bum shacking!!
I don't understand what his problem is?
There's been this guy I've had feelings for for nearly four months. I've given so many hints and signs. At some point he's showed feelings back for me and everything was cool... until he started acting like an immature jackass.
Prom had been coming up for sometime and he always asked me ';so are you going to prom?, I might go..., I don't want to go with any girl..'; So of course I would think that he wasn't interested. So I stopped showing interest.
I went to prom and danced with another guy. The Monday after prom, he asks me how it was(he didn't go because he said he had ';better things to do';) And interrogates me about ';Freak dancing'; with another guy he knows. I tell him he's not my father and he calls me a slut!( I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed a guy all school year) He's really pissed about me dancing and I don't understand...I don't understand what his problem is?
I think he liked you but was afraid to move. Maybe he doesn't know how to dance and was afraid he'd mess things up with you if he asked you to prom. You can't really ask him how he feels if that's the case because he'll be too afraid of being a fool. (His fear is actually making him a fool but he won't be able to see that.) Tell him you wished it had been him that you were freak dancing at prom with, but since he didn't go you had to dance with someone else.
But I don't like that he called you a ****. I think no woman should date guys who call them names like that - it should be automatic cause for breakup, and for other women to not date the guy.I don't understand what his problem is?
he just jelous cause he didnt make his move fast enoughtruck rental rates
Prom had been coming up for sometime and he always asked me ';so are you going to prom?, I might go..., I don't want to go with any girl..'; So of course I would think that he wasn't interested. So I stopped showing interest.
I went to prom and danced with another guy. The Monday after prom, he asks me how it was(he didn't go because he said he had ';better things to do';) And interrogates me about ';Freak dancing'; with another guy he knows. I tell him he's not my father and he calls me a slut!( I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed a guy all school year) He's really pissed about me dancing and I don't understand...I don't understand what his problem is?
I think he liked you but was afraid to move. Maybe he doesn't know how to dance and was afraid he'd mess things up with you if he asked you to prom. You can't really ask him how he feels if that's the case because he'll be too afraid of being a fool. (His fear is actually making him a fool but he won't be able to see that.) Tell him you wished it had been him that you were freak dancing at prom with, but since he didn't go you had to dance with someone else.
But I don't like that he called you a ****. I think no woman should date guys who call them names like that - it should be automatic cause for breakup, and for other women to not date the guy.I don't understand what his problem is?
he just jelous cause he didnt make his move fast enough
I don't understand what his problem is?
There's been this guy I've had feelings for for nearly four months. I've given so many hints and signs. At some point he's showed feelings back for me and everything was cool... until he started acting like an immature jackass.
Prom had been coming up for sometime and he always asked me ';so are you going to prom?, I might go..., I don't want to go with any girl..'; So of course I would think that he wasn't interested. So I stopped showing interest.
I went to prom and danced with another guy. The Monday after prom, he asks me how it was(he didn't go because he said he had ';better things to do';) And interrogates me about ';Freak dancing'; with another guy he knows. I tell him he's not my father and he calls me a slut!( I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed a guy all school year) He's really pissed about me dancing and I don't understand...I don't understand what his problem is?
I think he liked you but was afraid to move. Maybe he doesn't know how to dance and was afraid he'd mess things up with you if he asked you to prom. You can't really ask him how he feels if that's the case because he'll be too afraid of being a fool. (His fear is actually making him a fool but he won't be able to see that.) Tell him you wished it had been him that you were freak dancing at prom with, but since he didn't go you had to dance with someone else.
But I don't like that he called you a ****. I think no woman should date guys who call them names like that - it should be automatic cause for breakup, and for other women to not date the guy.I don't understand what his problem is?
he just jelous cause he didnt make his move fast enough
Prom had been coming up for sometime and he always asked me ';so are you going to prom?, I might go..., I don't want to go with any girl..'; So of course I would think that he wasn't interested. So I stopped showing interest.
I went to prom and danced with another guy. The Monday after prom, he asks me how it was(he didn't go because he said he had ';better things to do';) And interrogates me about ';Freak dancing'; with another guy he knows. I tell him he's not my father and he calls me a slut!( I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed a guy all school year) He's really pissed about me dancing and I don't understand...I don't understand what his problem is?
I think he liked you but was afraid to move. Maybe he doesn't know how to dance and was afraid he'd mess things up with you if he asked you to prom. You can't really ask him how he feels if that's the case because he'll be too afraid of being a fool. (His fear is actually making him a fool but he won't be able to see that.) Tell him you wished it had been him that you were freak dancing at prom with, but since he didn't go you had to dance with someone else.
But I don't like that he called you a ****. I think no woman should date guys who call them names like that - it should be automatic cause for breakup, and for other women to not date the guy.I don't understand what his problem is?
he just jelous cause he didnt make his move fast enough
Should I approach this guy that danced with me???? easy 10 points?
ok so winterball was this weekend. i was dancing with my friends when this guy came up to me and started dancing with me. i was shocked by this that i might have come off as like freaked out, but i wasnt. anyway soo i found out that this guy was a sophomore ( im a freshman), i see him all the time at school, how do i talk to him, i really wanna get to know him. any suggestions or tips on how i can approach him. thank you so much if you answer
oh and it wasnt like slow dancing it was like the high school dance like grinding lol.Should I approach this guy that danced with me???? easy 10 points?
hah FRESHMAN
we are all freshman at one point.
ok so here's what you do. you go up to him when you see him in the hallways and ask (as if you don't know the answer) ';Hey, I think i might have danced with you at the winter ball? i'm *your name*';
he might seem like a big and scary sophomore, but don't worry. He will be really happy you were the one to go up to him, and he will think you're confident. also he wouldn't have danced with you if he didn't think you were attractive.
yes, it is that simple! good lucyShould I approach this guy that danced with me???? easy 10 points?
just talk to him, there isnt any other way
This guy is more interested in what is in your skirt. Give him peek of what he wants and see where it takes you
lol well obviously the guy is interested but as a girl you cant make your self seem geeked up for him or he will just want to have sex.. so just begin saying hi an stuff and if he wants to talk then talk.But dont be afraid to say hi to him catch his attention and make him want you
You go girl! Tell him that you had a great time dancing and that you'd love to hang out sometime. Maybe he'll give you his number and you can start texting him some. Good luck..don't be nervous!
Guys are morons. Be direct, walk up and say ';hi';. Ask him if he wants to get a cup of coffee or something after school one day. see what happens.
Go up to him and say ';i think it's in your best interest to get to know me better';
he'll be all surprised and taken aback, but find it really charming.
How could he resist?
and if he says 'why?'
say ';well get to know me and find out foooool, jeez, get with the plan';
then give him a flirty smile
just be yourself around him. Let him know you are interested without being too clingy. Aproach him with plenty of confidence.
Just go up to him. Some guys are nervous to take the intiative, just go up to him and say hi and walk away! After a few steps away turn around and then keep walking itll show your mysterious and interested at the same time! Guys love it
just go up and talk to him! does he know who you are? if not go up and introduce yourself and tell him you had fun dancing with him or something playful like that. guys like women that are confident, but not crazy. something casual like that will get the ball rolling. it's always best when you first talk to someone to ask questions about them. do you know what he's involved in? ask about that. don't talk too much about yourself.
the key is to act like you are confident even if you are nervous! do you have any mutual friends? that could help get the ball rolling and help you talk to him too. if you get nervous, just remember, it's just talking to a person, it's not a big deal!! it sounds cliche but just be relaxed and be yourself. good luck!!
i agree. don't let yourself look like a ho. saying high for no reason already says that you are into him. my best advice is to find some random thing to say while with a group of people in mid conversation to him. keep going from there, then make him work for it.
just talk to him, there isnt any other way
just ask the reason for his dance with u whenever u meet him(that would b a decent way to start the talk)
slowly and gradually learn him more
talk to him daily when his friends are around and not yours(this really helps-trust me)
good luck
and what r the 10 points u had written?
oh and it wasnt like slow dancing it was like the high school dance like grinding lol.Should I approach this guy that danced with me???? easy 10 points?
hah FRESHMAN
we are all freshman at one point.
ok so here's what you do. you go up to him when you see him in the hallways and ask (as if you don't know the answer) ';Hey, I think i might have danced with you at the winter ball? i'm *your name*';
he might seem like a big and scary sophomore, but don't worry. He will be really happy you were the one to go up to him, and he will think you're confident. also he wouldn't have danced with you if he didn't think you were attractive.
yes, it is that simple! good lucyShould I approach this guy that danced with me???? easy 10 points?
just talk to him, there isnt any other way
This guy is more interested in what is in your skirt. Give him peek of what he wants and see where it takes you
lol well obviously the guy is interested but as a girl you cant make your self seem geeked up for him or he will just want to have sex.. so just begin saying hi an stuff and if he wants to talk then talk.But dont be afraid to say hi to him catch his attention and make him want you
You go girl! Tell him that you had a great time dancing and that you'd love to hang out sometime. Maybe he'll give you his number and you can start texting him some. Good luck..don't be nervous!
Guys are morons. Be direct, walk up and say ';hi';. Ask him if he wants to get a cup of coffee or something after school one day. see what happens.
Go up to him and say ';i think it's in your best interest to get to know me better';
he'll be all surprised and taken aback, but find it really charming.
How could he resist?
and if he says 'why?'
say ';well get to know me and find out foooool, jeez, get with the plan';
then give him a flirty smile
just be yourself around him. Let him know you are interested without being too clingy. Aproach him with plenty of confidence.
Just go up to him. Some guys are nervous to take the intiative, just go up to him and say hi and walk away! After a few steps away turn around and then keep walking itll show your mysterious and interested at the same time! Guys love it
just go up and talk to him! does he know who you are? if not go up and introduce yourself and tell him you had fun dancing with him or something playful like that. guys like women that are confident, but not crazy. something casual like that will get the ball rolling. it's always best when you first talk to someone to ask questions about them. do you know what he's involved in? ask about that. don't talk too much about yourself.
the key is to act like you are confident even if you are nervous! do you have any mutual friends? that could help get the ball rolling and help you talk to him too. if you get nervous, just remember, it's just talking to a person, it's not a big deal!! it sounds cliche but just be relaxed and be yourself. good luck!!
i agree. don't let yourself look like a ho. saying high for no reason already says that you are into him. my best advice is to find some random thing to say while with a group of people in mid conversation to him. keep going from there, then make him work for it.
just talk to him, there isnt any other way
just ask the reason for his dance with u whenever u meet him(that would b a decent way to start the talk)
slowly and gradually learn him more
talk to him daily when his friends are around and not yours(this really helps-trust me)
good luck
and what r the 10 points u had written?
I like this one guy but i dont know what to do..?
i go to a private school and so we have mixers with other private guy schools. well theres this one really cute guy and i think hes pretty shy from one of the guy schools, and i am really interested in him. since i went to a all girl school im pretty bad at talking to guys and stuff. ive danced with this guy about 2 times but it was one of those, dance with the guy behind you, and then leave after the song. its usually really loud too. i dont know what i should do tho. should i ask his phone number or give him mine and if so how do i ask him out? one day? that night? how do i say it so i dont freak him out? or should i bring him with my friends and later ask him out? and where would we go!! pretty much i need help with EVERY part!!I like this one guy but i dont know what to do..?
if you're dancing with him again...wait until the song ALMOST ends
turn around and say...';hey i think you're really cool
would it be ok if i called you sometime?'; if he says yeah
get his number
then say '; oo and by the way, here's mine';. when you call/ or txt (whichever) try to get to know him a bit more...but try to make it more conversational// less question and answering. um....start by asking about the dance
did he like it?
comment on the food or punch...or something embarrassing that happened while you were getting ready
and go from there. after talking for maybe 2-3 days
ask if he'd like to hang out sometime
suggest a movie, skating, bowling....something engaging. NOT dinner lol
if you're dancing with him again...wait until the song ALMOST ends
turn around and say...';hey i think you're really cool
would it be ok if i called you sometime?'; if he says yeah
get his number
then say '; oo and by the way, here's mine';. when you call/ or txt (whichever) try to get to know him a bit more...but try to make it more conversational// less question and answering. um....start by asking about the dance
did he like it?
comment on the food or punch...or something embarrassing that happened while you were getting ready
and go from there. after talking for maybe 2-3 days
ask if he'd like to hang out sometime
suggest a movie, skating, bowling....something engaging. NOT dinner lol
Im really shy, how can i get guys to notice me?
Hi! im a 16 year-old, attractive girl from some place you'll never know, and im looking for some advice about me and getting guys attentions.
i am a VERY shy person and the only way i flirt with guys is at school dances freaking is the way to go (our next dance is jan. 20th). im currently not in any clubs at school, dont do any sports, im in my school orchestra (no cute guys!), im pretty smart, have lots of friends, never had a bf before and the only guys that i can talk to with out getting tounge-tied is with all of my frosh friends down to 5th grade (dont ask but it has to do with baseball).
is there anyone out there can can give me some really good advice on how to:
1. be more out-going
2. be more flirty with guys (besides dances)
and
3. to get guys to notice me
**Pleae dont leave smart @ss remarks cause this is a serious question.**Im really shy, how can i get guys to notice me?
well try talking to other guys u notice r shy too. get them to open up and u feel more comfortable with them because u know how they feel. and to get guys to notice u, psh they probably are and YOU just dont notice THEM. but to get ppl to notice u, just be urself. it always works and then ppl love u for who u r and not who u r pretending to be. and to be more outgoing, u just gotta learn to be comfortable in ur own skin and pay attention to little things ppl do. if u see someone who needs help, give them a hand. if u see someone who looks down, maybe ask whats wrong. or just compliment ppl. if u become known as the nice girl ppl might just start talking to u instead of u needing to go talk to them. but just dont over due the niceness and be too nice, ok? u can do this!!Im really shy, how can i get guys to notice me?
I am a guy..and when a shy girls that i normally would just pass by is wearing a skirt i always take another look..and maybe even talk to them...so my advice would be wear a skirt...it has gotten my attention and some of my friends think the same thing
talk toguys, and ask him about himself, dont tell him about yourself at first, then when he sees that you are interested in him (which you have shown by asking about hids interests and opinions), if he asks you about your life and your opinions then you will know he likes you, then you ask him out on a date. simple.
Talk alot around guys and they will come in on your conversation and they will see your personality and they may like u ! i am shy too but you just have to come out of your shell if u want attention.hope i helped! good luck..and it will work out soon..be pateint!
If you are shy, then that is your personality. It is not easy to change this. You will be very attractive to guys who like quiet, shy girls. The secret is to be available. This is done by joining some clubs in areas that you like. Go to areas that do not involve hoping some handsome cool guy will come up and ask you to dance. If you are attracted to someone,then go ask some neutral question like, ';What did you think of today's class?';. Act like you are interested in what the guy has to say. Ask questions, then he will talk and you will not have to.
Good luck.
Ok so basically your a loser... You need to go from zero to hero. Well meet ';Mr. I will make you hot';, aka ME! anyways.. You need to stand out wear something um sultry. Nothing with more than 1 color please, (we don't need any rainbows flying at a school dance now). basically, GET A MAKEOVER duh... waste money but most of all have fun! hahahaha
well go out to the movies with friends or the mall
and for guys 2 notice you just be more sophisticated and try to be funny and fun around them
and tell them they look good 2 day
guys sometimes like complements =]
just try talking and comunicating with guys more and always being friendly. You could be more flirty but thats not a good idea unless you want to be labeled a sl*t. Before you can be more than friends with someone you have to be friends with them first. So just try to make some guy friends and go from there.
Don't be too conscious of yourself. Guys around sure notice you but may be hesitant to come close probably because you're too stiff conscious. Loosen up. Circulate more with mixed groups in the campus. Dress a little more daring and exude confidence when you walk...also leave the orchestra and join the theatrical club.
i am a VERY shy person and the only way i flirt with guys is at school dances freaking is the way to go (our next dance is jan. 20th). im currently not in any clubs at school, dont do any sports, im in my school orchestra (no cute guys!), im pretty smart, have lots of friends, never had a bf before and the only guys that i can talk to with out getting tounge-tied is with all of my frosh friends down to 5th grade (dont ask but it has to do with baseball).
is there anyone out there can can give me some really good advice on how to:
1. be more out-going
2. be more flirty with guys (besides dances)
and
3. to get guys to notice me
**Pleae dont leave smart @ss remarks cause this is a serious question.**Im really shy, how can i get guys to notice me?
well try talking to other guys u notice r shy too. get them to open up and u feel more comfortable with them because u know how they feel. and to get guys to notice u, psh they probably are and YOU just dont notice THEM. but to get ppl to notice u, just be urself. it always works and then ppl love u for who u r and not who u r pretending to be. and to be more outgoing, u just gotta learn to be comfortable in ur own skin and pay attention to little things ppl do. if u see someone who needs help, give them a hand. if u see someone who looks down, maybe ask whats wrong. or just compliment ppl. if u become known as the nice girl ppl might just start talking to u instead of u needing to go talk to them. but just dont over due the niceness and be too nice, ok? u can do this!!Im really shy, how can i get guys to notice me?
I am a guy..and when a shy girls that i normally would just pass by is wearing a skirt i always take another look..and maybe even talk to them...so my advice would be wear a skirt...it has gotten my attention and some of my friends think the same thing
talk toguys, and ask him about himself, dont tell him about yourself at first, then when he sees that you are interested in him (which you have shown by asking about hids interests and opinions), if he asks you about your life and your opinions then you will know he likes you, then you ask him out on a date. simple.
Talk alot around guys and they will come in on your conversation and they will see your personality and they may like u ! i am shy too but you just have to come out of your shell if u want attention.hope i helped! good luck..and it will work out soon..be pateint!
If you are shy, then that is your personality. It is not easy to change this. You will be very attractive to guys who like quiet, shy girls. The secret is to be available. This is done by joining some clubs in areas that you like. Go to areas that do not involve hoping some handsome cool guy will come up and ask you to dance. If you are attracted to someone,then go ask some neutral question like, ';What did you think of today's class?';. Act like you are interested in what the guy has to say. Ask questions, then he will talk and you will not have to.
Good luck.
Ok so basically your a loser... You need to go from zero to hero. Well meet ';Mr. I will make you hot';, aka ME! anyways.. You need to stand out wear something um sultry. Nothing with more than 1 color please, (we don't need any rainbows flying at a school dance now). basically, GET A MAKEOVER duh... waste money but most of all have fun! hahahaha
well go out to the movies with friends or the mall
and for guys 2 notice you just be more sophisticated and try to be funny and fun around them
and tell them they look good 2 day
guys sometimes like complements =]
just try talking and comunicating with guys more and always being friendly. You could be more flirty but thats not a good idea unless you want to be labeled a sl*t. Before you can be more than friends with someone you have to be friends with them first. So just try to make some guy friends and go from there.
Don't be too conscious of yourself. Guys around sure notice you but may be hesitant to come close probably because you're too stiff conscious. Loosen up. Circulate more with mixed groups in the campus. Dress a little more daring and exude confidence when you walk...also leave the orchestra and join the theatrical club.
Dancing with other guys....im in a relationship?
ive been with my bf for 3 years. im 22 and have recently been going out to the clubs with 3 of my friends that i dont ever go out with, maybe like 8 times since the summer.i always tell him when im going out bcause i dont like to keep things from him. most of the time we dance with each other but there have been a few times where a guy will grab u and dance or just slip in when ur dancing with ur other gfs and i have no clue wat to do but stay, or stay for a bit and then just say ur leaving to get a drink and just not come back. i dont freak dance on anyone cuz to me thats gross and i wouldnt want him to do it so i dont. i recently told him that i have danced w other guys (nothing dirty) and he broke up with me. he thinks i kissed them and tried talkin to them or somthing. he is really upset and called me really bad words and even told me that he woulndt care if i died.
i dont know how to let him know that i didnt do anything with them. he says i lied but i just didnt want him to get crazy upset. i really love him and ive told him that i wont go out anymore and ive goten rid of clubbing clothes. i dont thinnk he'll ever talk to me. i sent him an email telling him about the guys that i danced with and exactly what happened.
what should i do? will he forgive me? i love him wih all of my heart i feel like i cant breathe without him, hes my best friend. to make things worse he lives in sacramento 400 miles from me.Dancing with other guys....im in a relationship?
Well my opinion is this.
1 The distance makes it hard to trust you
2 When you love someone you dont want to hurt them no matter how bad they hurt you
I think that maybe he was looking for a reason to end your relationship as hard as it may be to take in. It sounds like he wants freedom to date others without saying its his fault you broke up because thats not enough of a reason to leave someone if you truely love someone. Besides its going to be hard to be in a relationship with someone who is far far away because you will wounder alot what the other person is doing. I think personally you should express yourself a final time and if he still dosent trust you dont bother with him. Honestly though dont hink he will forgive you. sorry %26gt;.%26lt;Dancing with other guys....im in a relationship?
dude your boyfriend is really immature. Hes probably just jealous or was just trying to find a way to break up with you? iunno. but you should be allowed to go out and have fun. just dont cheat.
wow he broke up with you because you were dancing?? if he truly loves you this wouldnt matter to him.
HEELOOO
ONLY WHO LOVES U ....FIGHTS WITH U
so relax ....he wil definitely talk to u ...
believe ur love %26amp; have faith in urself
All i gotta say is ';DONT DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DONT WANT DONE TO YOU'; simple as that.
Honestly, I think you should seriously find someone who is more worthy of your love and devotion.
It's hard enough to maintain a long-distance relationship. And his jealousy and insecurity makes the relationship that much harder. You did nothing wrong. In fact, your honesty and open communication should be something he appreciates. But he breaks up with you and even disrespects you. You want to spend the rest of your life with that loser?
But he is insecure for a reason...that reason is usually guilt because in the same situation, he would cheat. I would guess that he is cheating because he is a boy, not a man.
Stop crying over this chump because he is not worth your tears. Move on to someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
One more thing, I quit going to clubs long ago because they are really pick-up spots for single people. And no one really dances anymore. They are just dry-humping. Stay away from those places unless you go with your boyfriend.
Men do insane things because they are either 1)immature or 2)insecure. He targeted this non-issue as a reason to lash out at you. He may be afraid of losing you, so he dumped you first. You shouldn't accomodate his irrational feelings, though. BUY NEW CLUB CLOTHES. Go out with the girls! If it is really an issue to YOU, find a new club to dance at. Maybe a lesbian club where guys won't bother you. It has always bothered me when I go out with my girl friends and guys send over drinks or dance with us. I don't care!!!! This guy is being nuts, and you should watch his future behavior. If you want to be with him again, tell him that you love him, you would never do anything to hurt him, but you will not tolerate this bad behavior. Otherwise, he will keep doing it and you will lose him because you will leave because you can no longer be yourself. If he loves you, and is rational, he wouldn't act this way. And LOVE is the easy part, but COMMITMENT is a B*TCH. You will learn to appreciate the man that commits, not the one that says he loves you. Commitment comes with love, but love does not come with a commitment. And he is committing nothing to you but the looney bin.
Somebodies got real issues that need to be sorted %26amp; quickly....Its not you..Feel that 400 miles is not enough distance,need more between you..JUST FORGET about this dude,he's not worth the effort my girl..GETS his own self fixed up,then maybe,just maybe..Otherwise forget %26amp; ignore..Any forgiving to be done.Should be you forgiving,him for his childish behaviour.Not the other way around.
Best of luck with everything that you do..
i dont know how to let him know that i didnt do anything with them. he says i lied but i just didnt want him to get crazy upset. i really love him and ive told him that i wont go out anymore and ive goten rid of clubbing clothes. i dont thinnk he'll ever talk to me. i sent him an email telling him about the guys that i danced with and exactly what happened.
what should i do? will he forgive me? i love him wih all of my heart i feel like i cant breathe without him, hes my best friend. to make things worse he lives in sacramento 400 miles from me.Dancing with other guys....im in a relationship?
Well my opinion is this.
1 The distance makes it hard to trust you
2 When you love someone you dont want to hurt them no matter how bad they hurt you
I think that maybe he was looking for a reason to end your relationship as hard as it may be to take in. It sounds like he wants freedom to date others without saying its his fault you broke up because thats not enough of a reason to leave someone if you truely love someone. Besides its going to be hard to be in a relationship with someone who is far far away because you will wounder alot what the other person is doing. I think personally you should express yourself a final time and if he still dosent trust you dont bother with him. Honestly though dont hink he will forgive you. sorry %26gt;.%26lt;Dancing with other guys....im in a relationship?
dude your boyfriend is really immature. Hes probably just jealous or was just trying to find a way to break up with you? iunno. but you should be allowed to go out and have fun. just dont cheat.
wow he broke up with you because you were dancing?? if he truly loves you this wouldnt matter to him.
HEELOOO
ONLY WHO LOVES U ....FIGHTS WITH U
so relax ....he wil definitely talk to u ...
believe ur love %26amp; have faith in urself
All i gotta say is ';DONT DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DONT WANT DONE TO YOU'; simple as that.
Honestly, I think you should seriously find someone who is more worthy of your love and devotion.
It's hard enough to maintain a long-distance relationship. And his jealousy and insecurity makes the relationship that much harder. You did nothing wrong. In fact, your honesty and open communication should be something he appreciates. But he breaks up with you and even disrespects you. You want to spend the rest of your life with that loser?
But he is insecure for a reason...that reason is usually guilt because in the same situation, he would cheat. I would guess that he is cheating because he is a boy, not a man.
Stop crying over this chump because he is not worth your tears. Move on to someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
One more thing, I quit going to clubs long ago because they are really pick-up spots for single people. And no one really dances anymore. They are just dry-humping. Stay away from those places unless you go with your boyfriend.
Men do insane things because they are either 1)immature or 2)insecure. He targeted this non-issue as a reason to lash out at you. He may be afraid of losing you, so he dumped you first. You shouldn't accomodate his irrational feelings, though. BUY NEW CLUB CLOTHES. Go out with the girls! If it is really an issue to YOU, find a new club to dance at. Maybe a lesbian club where guys won't bother you. It has always bothered me when I go out with my girl friends and guys send over drinks or dance with us. I don't care!!!! This guy is being nuts, and you should watch his future behavior. If you want to be with him again, tell him that you love him, you would never do anything to hurt him, but you will not tolerate this bad behavior. Otherwise, he will keep doing it and you will lose him because you will leave because you can no longer be yourself. If he loves you, and is rational, he wouldn't act this way. And LOVE is the easy part, but COMMITMENT is a B*TCH. You will learn to appreciate the man that commits, not the one that says he loves you. Commitment comes with love, but love does not come with a commitment. And he is committing nothing to you but the looney bin.
Somebodies got real issues that need to be sorted %26amp; quickly....Its not you..Feel that 400 miles is not enough distance,need more between you..JUST FORGET about this dude,he's not worth the effort my girl..GETS his own self fixed up,then maybe,just maybe..Otherwise forget %26amp; ignore..Any forgiving to be done.Should be you forgiving,him for his childish behaviour.Not the other way around.
Best of luck with everything that you do..
Freak dancing..cheating?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than 2 years..about 2 and a half. I love him so much and trust him. However, i have a problem with him.He loves to go out and club with his guy friends. Now he doesnt just dance regular with girls. He loves to freak them and he says its just dancing. But, i dont think it is.I mean a girl rubbing her butt and private parts on him makes me cringe at the thought and it also hurts me. I mean i tell him how would it feel if i rubbed my private parts on some guy and turned him on like that.How would you feel?He says i dont care.I dont know what else to do. I have already told him how i felt about it and he still does it. I cry and tell him if he loves me and cares for me then why does he still do it. He just says again its just dancing and laughs. I dont know ladies and fellas help me out.I am hurt and confused.I really dont know what to think.Freak dancing..cheating?
cheating talk to him, and say i want to break up ******!Freak dancing..cheating?
its cheating
Haha...I would be SO PISSED. I am not sure if I would consider it as ';cheating'; but I definitely think it's inappropriate. Why is he dancing with other girls in the first place? Lose him. He sucks.
I had an old boyfiend that done the same thing...it was ok if he did...but not if I did!!! Then he cheated on me....so...I would move on
It sounds like he doesn't care about your feelings.
It may be a sign to leave.
Sorry.
leave him. it may hurt, but he doesnt really love you. i would kill my boyfriend if he did that. well not really kill him but u know what i mean. he doesnt care and love u like he says he does. if he did than he wouldnt hurt u in any way. its time for u to move on and find someone better who will respect u. u deserve better.
Guys don't go out ';dancing';
That's a petty excuse to rub his junk on other girls. Just remember who he comes home to, though.
you should leave the guy cause he's most likely hitting another cooch. freak dancing at clubs are for hoes yo.
He's intentionally being sexually aroused by other women. He's being insensitive of your feelings. My man wouldn't have any private parts if he was out doing that.
it's not really cheating, but still not really the right thing to do, unless he's single, or if it's with you.
freak dancing is not cheating if it was just that. if you trust your partner move on. communication is the key
LOL, i haven't heard the expression ';freak dancing'; in soo long!
Leave the loser. He is not a good guy! It sounds to me like he is an immature little boy. If he is not compromising with you and refuses to stop dancing in that sexual way, he is not doing his part in maintaining your relationship, and frankly it sounds like he doesn't really care about you! Don't waste your tears on this loser. Find a new boy, hun.
What a sleeze!
that's way inconsiderate! give him an ultimatum, so that he knows you're serious. i can't advice you to leave him because i know a long term relationship is hard to let go and the issue at hand is not that serious (it's not like he's cheating), but give him the ultimatum to see if he responds to that. if not, then, are you sure you want to be with someone that doesn't respects your feelings?
thts messed up. if i was a girl and if i was u and if he was my bf id cut his balls and his dik off and then tell him to go dancing. lol. but if u dont want to, then break it off
cheating talk to him, and say i want to break up ******!Freak dancing..cheating?
its cheating
Haha...I would be SO PISSED. I am not sure if I would consider it as ';cheating'; but I definitely think it's inappropriate. Why is he dancing with other girls in the first place? Lose him. He sucks.
I had an old boyfiend that done the same thing...it was ok if he did...but not if I did!!! Then he cheated on me....so...I would move on
It sounds like he doesn't care about your feelings.
It may be a sign to leave.
Sorry.
leave him. it may hurt, but he doesnt really love you. i would kill my boyfriend if he did that. well not really kill him but u know what i mean. he doesnt care and love u like he says he does. if he did than he wouldnt hurt u in any way. its time for u to move on and find someone better who will respect u. u deserve better.
Guys don't go out ';dancing';
That's a petty excuse to rub his junk on other girls. Just remember who he comes home to, though.
you should leave the guy cause he's most likely hitting another cooch. freak dancing at clubs are for hoes yo.
He's intentionally being sexually aroused by other women. He's being insensitive of your feelings. My man wouldn't have any private parts if he was out doing that.
it's not really cheating, but still not really the right thing to do, unless he's single, or if it's with you.
freak dancing is not cheating if it was just that. if you trust your partner move on. communication is the key
LOL, i haven't heard the expression ';freak dancing'; in soo long!
Leave the loser. He is not a good guy! It sounds to me like he is an immature little boy. If he is not compromising with you and refuses to stop dancing in that sexual way, he is not doing his part in maintaining your relationship, and frankly it sounds like he doesn't really care about you! Don't waste your tears on this loser. Find a new boy, hun.
What a sleeze!
that's way inconsiderate! give him an ultimatum, so that he knows you're serious. i can't advice you to leave him because i know a long term relationship is hard to let go and the issue at hand is not that serious (it's not like he's cheating), but give him the ultimatum to see if he responds to that. if not, then, are you sure you want to be with someone that doesn't respects your feelings?
thts messed up. if i was a girl and if i was u and if he was my bf id cut his balls and his dik off and then tell him to go dancing. lol. but if u dont want to, then break it off
How to be slutty? I'm totally serious.?
Okay yeah so um this is kinda a funny question to be asking.
so i got to these parties with my friends and we all freak dance and grind guys and it's all in good fine so this kind of stuff doesn't give you a rep or anything.
but i wanna act like a total slut (for no reason, just because :P)
so are there any tips on clothes/skills/attitude that i should do
oh yeah, i can alrady unwrap starbursts with my tongue
but im not curvy so no cleavage stuff (i already show that off a lot when im not being slutty XD)
oh, and no ';why would you wanna be slutty blah blah blah';
this is all a joke for me and my girlfriends, im a smart sophosticated young woman, im jsut lookin for more fun ;)How to be slutty? I'm totally serious.?
If you're smart sophisticated woman, you should already know how to act slutty. The fact you ask this question shows you have no confidence and no real self-awareness about your own sexuality to speak of, thus do not even attempt, my dear.How to be slutty? I'm totally serious.?
clothes- nothing well maybe a thong and bra thats it, ya don't want to be too covered up...
skills- watch and learn from hookers
attiude- ask them for money before u dance
short shorts, short skirts, short dresses, low tops, high heels, have your thong showing, lots of make-up, etc
you get the point.. ahha
Push up bra, short skirt, really right tank top. Let your hair loose. Heavy make up. That's how the girls I know do it.
um okay...
short shorts and a skimpy top
act like a whore, throw yourself on every boy
giggle a lot
wear a lot of make up
have fun lol...
Be a huge tease %26amp; dress really slutty %26amp; flirt with every guy out there.
problem.
if you carry yourself like a lady, and are intelligent, then its really hard to pull off unless you`re a great actress. slutty is cheap, vulgar, rude, egocentric, vile trying to pass of as sexy. if you really are sophisticated, it might accidentally turn out hot.
easy solution: alcohol, lots of alcohol. and more alcohol `till you pass out or hate yourself.
get a normal seethrouh tee and slash it up, then stuff ur bra, and wear booty shorts with high socks
Slutty? Ok wear ultra short skirts and a thong underneath.
Wear belly button tops and still show a lot of cleavage.
Oh, and when you see a guy make out with him, when he leaves make out with the next guy.
Wear black knee high boots. Let your hair up and then put it down once you feel dirty.
You'll definitely be a slutt following these tips lol.
Or a prostitute...goodluck?
wear false eye lashes (there not nesesarliy slutty, just over-the-top sometimes), put glitter lotion all over your body! like your clevage and legs and arms, make your hair very volumes, colored lip stick, push-up bras (maybe no bra at all ;) !!), wear a shirt with a low back, or a mid-drift shirt, and obviously the smaller and tighter the clothes. the better! ;)
i know how you feel! sometimes i just want to act like a total **** too! But im so not like that in ';real life'; lol
GeT NAKED now thats sluty.... **** come party with me in the chi ill party with you... Juking Party! ; )
so i got to these parties with my friends and we all freak dance and grind guys and it's all in good fine so this kind of stuff doesn't give you a rep or anything.
but i wanna act like a total slut (for no reason, just because :P)
so are there any tips on clothes/skills/attitude that i should do
oh yeah, i can alrady unwrap starbursts with my tongue
but im not curvy so no cleavage stuff (i already show that off a lot when im not being slutty XD)
oh, and no ';why would you wanna be slutty blah blah blah';
this is all a joke for me and my girlfriends, im a smart sophosticated young woman, im jsut lookin for more fun ;)How to be slutty? I'm totally serious.?
If you're smart sophisticated woman, you should already know how to act slutty. The fact you ask this question shows you have no confidence and no real self-awareness about your own sexuality to speak of, thus do not even attempt, my dear.How to be slutty? I'm totally serious.?
clothes- nothing well maybe a thong and bra thats it, ya don't want to be too covered up...
skills- watch and learn from hookers
attiude- ask them for money before u dance
short shorts, short skirts, short dresses, low tops, high heels, have your thong showing, lots of make-up, etc
you get the point.. ahha
Push up bra, short skirt, really right tank top. Let your hair loose. Heavy make up. That's how the girls I know do it.
um okay...
short shorts and a skimpy top
act like a whore, throw yourself on every boy
giggle a lot
wear a lot of make up
have fun lol...
Be a huge tease %26amp; dress really slutty %26amp; flirt with every guy out there.
problem.
if you carry yourself like a lady, and are intelligent, then its really hard to pull off unless you`re a great actress. slutty is cheap, vulgar, rude, egocentric, vile trying to pass of as sexy. if you really are sophisticated, it might accidentally turn out hot.
easy solution: alcohol, lots of alcohol. and more alcohol `till you pass out or hate yourself.
get a normal seethrouh tee and slash it up, then stuff ur bra, and wear booty shorts with high socks
Slutty? Ok wear ultra short skirts and a thong underneath.
Wear belly button tops and still show a lot of cleavage.
Oh, and when you see a guy make out with him, when he leaves make out with the next guy.
Wear black knee high boots. Let your hair up and then put it down once you feel dirty.
You'll definitely be a slutt following these tips lol.
Or a prostitute...goodluck?
wear false eye lashes (there not nesesarliy slutty, just over-the-top sometimes), put glitter lotion all over your body! like your clevage and legs and arms, make your hair very volumes, colored lip stick, push-up bras (maybe no bra at all ;) !!), wear a shirt with a low back, or a mid-drift shirt, and obviously the smaller and tighter the clothes. the better! ;)
i know how you feel! sometimes i just want to act like a total **** too! But im so not like that in ';real life'; lol
GeT NAKED now thats sluty.... **** come party with me in the chi ill party with you... Juking Party! ; )
My bf gets mad when i freak other girls..is he making a big deal?
we have been 2gether for two years. we went to a party i got buzz started dancing and freaken with my girlfriends according to him it is disrespectful!, and he is mad at me is not like im dancing with other guys plus he never dances!!!..i just want to have fun im 21!..he also didnt even show me affections that night he denied me in front of everyone!!. how else em i supposeto danceMy bf gets mad when i freak other girls..is he making a big deal?
You can always do what you want. If your boyfriend does not like it, he does not have to be your boyfriend. It's about as simple as that!
You can always do what you want. If your boyfriend does not like it, he does not have to be your boyfriend. It's about as simple as that!
I'm a girl and I've never grinded before at a dance.?
Usually if i DO go to dances i always stick with the small clique of girls only that also dont feel comfortable grinding. i WANT to know how to grind but it's already been 2 years into high school and i'm ';behind'; and dont know what to do..
I know girls are supposed to take the lead, and thats a lot of pressure for me cause i dont know what to do!! i wanna go to this upcoming club party in LA hosted by my school but i know A LOT of people are going to be there like guy friends that are always telling me to go to dances to dance with them, my EXES, and my friends that are FREAKS on the dance floor and thats a lot of pressure cause i dont want them thinking ';wow.. she cant dance look at her';
what if i dont listen to those kinds of grinding music and i dont know the words/rhythm? people tell me to just relax and feel the beat and move but i dont know the rhythm or words when the song comes on.
plus i'm really really short (5 feet) is that a disadvantage for me? i cant dance with tall guys?
i'm worried i'm going to be too ';mild'; and bore the guy.. help!I'm a girl and I've never grinded before at a dance.?
well its notthe best dance i like hip hop ballet lyrical jazz and tap but i think you are just dealing with shyness but try togrind on one guy with your friend at the same time till you get used to it that means the guyor other people wont be just looking at youI'm a girl and I've never grinded before at a dance.?
well its not really a good dance its really kind of stupid and nothing special but those are my thoughts but they have it on youtube they will teach you how to or go to the dance class and watch and take notes take it to your dance teacher and they will help you
I know girls are supposed to take the lead, and thats a lot of pressure for me cause i dont know what to do!! i wanna go to this upcoming club party in LA hosted by my school but i know A LOT of people are going to be there like guy friends that are always telling me to go to dances to dance with them, my EXES, and my friends that are FREAKS on the dance floor and thats a lot of pressure cause i dont want them thinking ';wow.. she cant dance look at her';
what if i dont listen to those kinds of grinding music and i dont know the words/rhythm? people tell me to just relax and feel the beat and move but i dont know the rhythm or words when the song comes on.
plus i'm really really short (5 feet) is that a disadvantage for me? i cant dance with tall guys?
i'm worried i'm going to be too ';mild'; and bore the guy.. help!I'm a girl and I've never grinded before at a dance.?
well its notthe best dance i like hip hop ballet lyrical jazz and tap but i think you are just dealing with shyness but try togrind on one guy with your friend at the same time till you get used to it that means the guyor other people wont be just looking at youI'm a girl and I've never grinded before at a dance.?
well its not really a good dance its really kind of stupid and nothing special but those are my thoughts but they have it on youtube they will teach you how to or go to the dance class and watch and take notes take it to your dance teacher and they will help you
My girlfriend is?
going to a school dance on friday which is cool with me though but jokingly i asked her if she was going to be freak dancing and she went on for 5 minutes about how good her freak dancing and some guys were gunna be at her school, should i be worried, i love her and i trust her, but it crossed my mind to ask someone...My girlfriend is?
Why are you not going with her? If it is because you go to another school, then I would trust her and leave it at that.
Jealousy can ruin a relationship.
Good LuckMy girlfriend is?
she problaly got mad cuz you ask her if she's going to be a freak and just to make you suffer she said she is
tell her how u feel,
but i think she is just trying to make u jelous, just tell her u love her and not to have to much fun,
and if u a really worried then ask if u can go with her
If you're so worried about it, why don't you go with her? She says she's a good freak dancer, why wouldn't she want you to judge for yourself? Honestly though, if you're so worried about a dance, maybe you should re-evaluate that whole trust thing. It doesn't sound like you've got a lot of it in herYagi Antenna System For World Space
Why are you not going with her? If it is because you go to another school, then I would trust her and leave it at that.
Jealousy can ruin a relationship.
Good LuckMy girlfriend is?
she problaly got mad cuz you ask her if she's going to be a freak and just to make you suffer she said she is
tell her how u feel,
but i think she is just trying to make u jelous, just tell her u love her and not to have to much fun,
and if u a really worried then ask if u can go with her
If you're so worried about it, why don't you go with her? She says she's a good freak dancer, why wouldn't she want you to judge for yourself? Honestly though, if you're so worried about a dance, maybe you should re-evaluate that whole trust thing. It doesn't sound like you've got a lot of it in her
Advise about dancing w/ guys please?
OK. so i know this is super LAME. but i've only danced with a guy twice. first time at a school dance.. and it went fine. the question isint about the 1st time i danced with a guy.
SO...
the second for like a song or two at a night club.. and it was awkward.
by dancing i mean.. freaking. but not hot and heavy freaking, just PG (PG13?) freaking. casual stuff? as in guy behind girl and swaying.. no grinding.
ANYWAY. for the most part. it was OK. like we were in sync and it worked. but once in a while out of no where, we just werent. and in my head im like ';crap, wth?'; and i'd quickly try to figure out what his rhythm is again.
i dont know if its cuz he sucked at dancing, or i sucked at dancing, or what. i didnt know whether i should back up a little more into him so i could feel the rhythm he was going at a little better. or if he sucked at leading or i was just really incompetent. (but the first time [w/diff guy mind you..] was just fine...)
SO. please PLEASE help me. guidance? tips?
I just dont want to find myself in a position where im gonna dance with a guy and be totally clueless. is it ok to be assuming that its always gonna be freaking? etc. I'LL TAKE ANYTHING (even comments about how disgustingly stupid i am.. just please give advise so i can fix it :P)Advise about dancing w/ guys please?
freaking?! hmmm... i guess this is a term for getting 'jiggy' on the dancefloor.
anyway, i'd say stop worrying. sounds like the guy was a bit lame or a bit afraid to impose some leadership on the situation.
generally in dance, the guy takes the lead. the girl follows but (if she's enjoying it) she'll introduce a couple of flirty moves or even tease the guy by moving away a bit to see if he 'chases her' (sort of playing hard to get).
flirty moves can range from putting your hands in your hair and moving down to the ground and back up etc. or even pressing your bum into him to encourage 'freaking' etc.
just make sure you know what you're getting into though - some guys might get a bit over-excited.
but yes, keep doing what you're doing and you should meet a competent guy on the dancefloor soon enough!Advise about dancing w/ guys please?
If you're looking for something with flair then I suggest taking up ballroom. Ballroom is more than Waltz (though I love waltz too). The Latin dances can def. find their way to the club - ChaCha, Rhumba, Salsa, Samba. I'm always big on ballroom because it's artsy, a ton of fun and few people take the time to learn (they'd prefer poor imitations like bumping and grinding or something - seriously - that's not dance - it's bumping and grinding.) But learn some good ballroom and go at it. You won't feel incompetent then. I absolutely love it and people love watching if they can't do it themselves.
And yes - always let the guy lead. It's the nature of dance, the nature of life.
Whatever you do - don't give up on dance. It's too amazing to do that :) You just have to find your style (ballroom or not. lol - just remember that bumping/grinding/freaking isn't dance - it's what it's called. lol)
SO...
the second for like a song or two at a night club.. and it was awkward.
by dancing i mean.. freaking. but not hot and heavy freaking, just PG (PG13?) freaking. casual stuff? as in guy behind girl and swaying.. no grinding.
ANYWAY. for the most part. it was OK. like we were in sync and it worked. but once in a while out of no where, we just werent. and in my head im like ';crap, wth?'; and i'd quickly try to figure out what his rhythm is again.
i dont know if its cuz he sucked at dancing, or i sucked at dancing, or what. i didnt know whether i should back up a little more into him so i could feel the rhythm he was going at a little better. or if he sucked at leading or i was just really incompetent. (but the first time [w/diff guy mind you..] was just fine...)
SO. please PLEASE help me. guidance? tips?
I just dont want to find myself in a position where im gonna dance with a guy and be totally clueless. is it ok to be assuming that its always gonna be freaking? etc. I'LL TAKE ANYTHING (even comments about how disgustingly stupid i am.. just please give advise so i can fix it :P)Advise about dancing w/ guys please?
freaking?! hmmm... i guess this is a term for getting 'jiggy' on the dancefloor.
anyway, i'd say stop worrying. sounds like the guy was a bit lame or a bit afraid to impose some leadership on the situation.
generally in dance, the guy takes the lead. the girl follows but (if she's enjoying it) she'll introduce a couple of flirty moves or even tease the guy by moving away a bit to see if he 'chases her' (sort of playing hard to get).
flirty moves can range from putting your hands in your hair and moving down to the ground and back up etc. or even pressing your bum into him to encourage 'freaking' etc.
just make sure you know what you're getting into though - some guys might get a bit over-excited.
but yes, keep doing what you're doing and you should meet a competent guy on the dancefloor soon enough!Advise about dancing w/ guys please?
If you're looking for something with flair then I suggest taking up ballroom. Ballroom is more than Waltz (though I love waltz too). The Latin dances can def. find their way to the club - ChaCha, Rhumba, Salsa, Samba. I'm always big on ballroom because it's artsy, a ton of fun and few people take the time to learn (they'd prefer poor imitations like bumping and grinding or something - seriously - that's not dance - it's bumping and grinding.) But learn some good ballroom and go at it. You won't feel incompetent then. I absolutely love it and people love watching if they can't do it themselves.
And yes - always let the guy lead. It's the nature of dance, the nature of life.
Whatever you do - don't give up on dance. It's too amazing to do that :) You just have to find your style (ballroom or not. lol - just remember that bumping/grinding/freaking isn't dance - it's what it's called. lol)
My best {guy} friend likes...well thinks I'm ';cute';...? Calling all teens! Help please!!?
I'm a girl btw.
I'm 13 And so is he.
We're best friends and we tell eachother evrything. I mean everything. On my 13th birthday I went to a semi-formal dance. The guy I really like was there. And my bestfriend of course knowable him.. And that I like him. Anywy my best friend (guy) asked my best friend (girl) to the dance. On a scale of 1 to 10 he told me he liked her 9. And she said she liked him 2. So I told her not to hurt his feelings and just go with it for the night. Well they danced and blah blah... Then out of the blue he came up to me and asked me to dance. Shocked, I just told him I don't know how to dance... Then mumbled ';but I'll groupe dance'; which I know he heard. So we group danced together amount our other friends. Since It was my birthday, he braught me pixie six and chocolate. I was uppset at him cuz I told him not to but then gave him a big hug. And told him thank you. And he really didn't have to do that. We had fun for the rest of the night... Oh and my other bff (the one he asked) was telling me all night he likes me. Which had never crossed my mind before.as I left I told everybody goodnight and hugged him... He said ';text me I'll probably be here all night'; so in the car I texted him.. Blah blah... When I got home we were still talking... And we were talking about who we liked... Finaly after asking over and over he said ';fine. I don't really like them I just think they are cute... This girl Ann... And then there's you ;)'; I didn't know what the hell to say so I just said ';awh u make me blush'; I was like omg!!!! And then a few nights ago we were text playing truth or dare and one thing led to another and I asked him if he likes me and he said ';I did like five months ago.'; I'm like WTF? Ugh he is so freaking confusing!!!!!! Andthen tonight, he was like ';nm in bed.. Thinking'; so I asked ';about??'; and he was like I'd rather not say but if you want me to I will..'; which I thought was so stinkin sweet that if I really wanted to know he'd tell me.. So i was like ';no it's ok'; an then later him: ';I think I'm gonna tell you what I was thinking about'; me: ';uhh k...'; him: ';I was telling Ben bout an old friend I liked.. And ya thinking about you, Jen (my bff he asked to the dance) and candy. Lol.'; so I just said ';oh.....'; lol I was all freaked... Soo tell me what u think... Oh and I'm not sure if I like him more then a friend... I feel like I could sooo see us together like bf gf... I've daydremed Bout it... But at the same time, I'm the kind of girl that needs guy attention is some way. It sounds reAlly bad but yeah... And he just makes me feel good. He makes me really happy. Oh and he's straght up asked me if I like him... And I've just said ';I did when I first met you but I just don't know anymore...'; so yeah give me your addvuce please!My best {guy} friend likes...well thinks I'm ';cute';...? Calling all teens! Help please!!?
Whew when does your next book come out. Sounds like a keeper, don't let him get away.My best {guy} friend likes...well thinks I'm ';cute';...? Calling all teens! Help please!!?
dont let him go ask him out let him know how you feel give it a shot you dont wanna not to do it and regret it for the rest of your life.
good luck hun
I'm 13 And so is he.
We're best friends and we tell eachother evrything. I mean everything. On my 13th birthday I went to a semi-formal dance. The guy I really like was there. And my bestfriend of course knowable him.. And that I like him. Anywy my best friend (guy) asked my best friend (girl) to the dance. On a scale of 1 to 10 he told me he liked her 9. And she said she liked him 2. So I told her not to hurt his feelings and just go with it for the night. Well they danced and blah blah... Then out of the blue he came up to me and asked me to dance. Shocked, I just told him I don't know how to dance... Then mumbled ';but I'll groupe dance'; which I know he heard. So we group danced together amount our other friends. Since It was my birthday, he braught me pixie six and chocolate. I was uppset at him cuz I told him not to but then gave him a big hug. And told him thank you. And he really didn't have to do that. We had fun for the rest of the night... Oh and my other bff (the one he asked) was telling me all night he likes me. Which had never crossed my mind before.as I left I told everybody goodnight and hugged him... He said ';text me I'll probably be here all night'; so in the car I texted him.. Blah blah... When I got home we were still talking... And we were talking about who we liked... Finaly after asking over and over he said ';fine. I don't really like them I just think they are cute... This girl Ann... And then there's you ;)'; I didn't know what the hell to say so I just said ';awh u make me blush'; I was like omg!!!! And then a few nights ago we were text playing truth or dare and one thing led to another and I asked him if he likes me and he said ';I did like five months ago.'; I'm like WTF? Ugh he is so freaking confusing!!!!!! Andthen tonight, he was like ';nm in bed.. Thinking'; so I asked ';about??'; and he was like I'd rather not say but if you want me to I will..'; which I thought was so stinkin sweet that if I really wanted to know he'd tell me.. So i was like ';no it's ok'; an then later him: ';I think I'm gonna tell you what I was thinking about'; me: ';uhh k...'; him: ';I was telling Ben bout an old friend I liked.. And ya thinking about you, Jen (my bff he asked to the dance) and candy. Lol.'; so I just said ';oh.....'; lol I was all freaked... Soo tell me what u think... Oh and I'm not sure if I like him more then a friend... I feel like I could sooo see us together like bf gf... I've daydremed Bout it... But at the same time, I'm the kind of girl that needs guy attention is some way. It sounds reAlly bad but yeah... And he just makes me feel good. He makes me really happy. Oh and he's straght up asked me if I like him... And I've just said ';I did when I first met you but I just don't know anymore...'; so yeah give me your addvuce please!My best {guy} friend likes...well thinks I'm ';cute';...? Calling all teens! Help please!!?
Whew when does your next book come out. Sounds like a keeper, don't let him get away.My best {guy} friend likes...well thinks I'm ';cute';...? Calling all teens! Help please!!?
dont let him go ask him out let him know how you feel give it a shot you dont wanna not to do it and regret it for the rest of your life.
good luck hun
Freak dance problem. Started great, girls left halfway through dance. O.O?
I don't get what happened. The Dance started so promising.
At first, I was kinda nervous, but I got this girl to freak dance with me for 30 mins so it was great.
=] It was really fun at first because the girls wanted to freak dance with me.
But around 10:30, something weird happened, a few girls started rejecting me.
By 11:00, most of the girls were rejecting me.
By 11:30, almost all the girls were like ';Eeek...its him'; and start running away. Then this black dude was like ';Dude, leave them the **** alone'; and these other guys started laughing at me. WTF.
seriously, i dont get how come it worked so perfectly in the beginning. Did I do something wrong as the dance progressed?Freak dance problem. Started great, girls left halfway through dance. O.O?
I know the idea is not to answer a question with a question but what on earth is a freak dance?Freak dance problem. Started great, girls left halfway through dance. O.O?
i dont understand too :D
err yeah me too lol.
I'm guessing he means grinding, people.
Hanyway, there seems to most definitely be a rumor that went on. You should think about what you did or said around the time they started rejecting you, or think if there's guys that don't like you. Maybe you danced with a guy's girl?
At first, I was kinda nervous, but I got this girl to freak dance with me for 30 mins so it was great.
=] It was really fun at first because the girls wanted to freak dance with me.
But around 10:30, something weird happened, a few girls started rejecting me.
By 11:00, most of the girls were rejecting me.
By 11:30, almost all the girls were like ';Eeek...its him'; and start running away. Then this black dude was like ';Dude, leave them the **** alone'; and these other guys started laughing at me. WTF.
seriously, i dont get how come it worked so perfectly in the beginning. Did I do something wrong as the dance progressed?Freak dance problem. Started great, girls left halfway through dance. O.O?
I know the idea is not to answer a question with a question but what on earth is a freak dance?Freak dance problem. Started great, girls left halfway through dance. O.O?
i dont understand too :D
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err yeah me too lol.
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I'm guessing he means grinding, people.
Hanyway, there seems to most definitely be a rumor that went on. You should think about what you did or said around the time they started rejecting you, or think if there's guys that don't like you. Maybe you danced with a guy's girl?
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I turned down a dance?
I turned down a dance with my Dream Guy...I never thought he would ever like me he is a senior in high school and I just admired him and looked at how awsome he is...lol but anyways I didn't dance with him cus I didn't wanna mess up. So i turned the dance down it was a slow dance. I then found out a couple days later that he actualy likes me now what he is like super smart and cute...I am a dance freak and worry to much. What should I do? Next dance is the end of this month.I turned down a dance?
just relax, don't be so strict with yourself...next time he asks you to dance, smile, get up and dance...you'll be surprised how easy it is just as long as you let yourself free to feel the rhythm and the excitement while dancing with your dream guy.Good luck and have fun!I turned down a dance?
good
DANCE this time.
tell him the truth
Ask him to dance, just in case.
if you're a dance freak , the you'll have no problems dancing.
i think that you're putting too much in this. why don't you chill out and relax.do it just to enjoy yourself and get to know him.don't stress yourself out.don't do it to make an impression or to impress, do it just to have some fun or you'll sell yourself short.
i'm sure you'll do just fine.if he's smart n cute now, what was he before??????uber stupid and ugly????just kidding!!!!
enjoy yourself n God bless,
gabe
I would ask him to dance this time.
just relax, don't be so strict with yourself...next time he asks you to dance, smile, get up and dance...you'll be surprised how easy it is just as long as you let yourself free to feel the rhythm and the excitement while dancing with your dream guy.Good luck and have fun!I turned down a dance?
good
DANCE this time.
tell him the truth
Ask him to dance, just in case.
if you're a dance freak , the you'll have no problems dancing.
i think that you're putting too much in this. why don't you chill out and relax.do it just to enjoy yourself and get to know him.don't stress yourself out.don't do it to make an impression or to impress, do it just to have some fun or you'll sell yourself short.
i'm sure you'll do just fine.if he's smart n cute now, what was he before??????uber stupid and ugly????just kidding!!!!
enjoy yourself n God bless,
gabe
I would ask him to dance this time.
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