How do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?

My girlfriend was invited to her good friends birthday party.. and they are going to go clubbing... i dont know her friend that well so natually i wasnt invited.. her friend likes reggeaton music so they are probly going somewhere that plays that kind of music... dancing to reggeaton your real close to who ever your dancing with.. another of her friends are goin and she is in a relationship too.. and my girlfriend said she would be dancing with her for most if not the whole time.. but we talked about if a guy were to ask her to dance and the line between dancing and gettin ready to jump in the sack on the dance floor and what would be going to far... she told me her idea of too far and that she wouldnt dance with someone who got too touchy feely and stuff and i trust her to stop if its too much.. but i really dont like the idea of another guy dancing with her at all lol i know that sounds really bad on my part.. but its pretty much grinding and things of that sort when dancing to reggeaton and i dont like thinking about some other guy rubbing on her or touching her in anyway.. thoughts pop into my head like what if a guy dances with her and he gets a hard on and is rubbin on her behind or rubbin on her in general... i dont like that idea... or if a guy starts getting touchy.. even though she would stop i still dont like that another guy would do that... i dont want to come off as a paranoid control freak boyfriend because im not.. and i dont want to tell her how uncomfortable it would make me because i dont want to say she cant go and have fun.. i know she deserves to have a good time.. and i wouldnt even be having this problem if i was going with them you know.. but i cant help but think about other guys.. but guys might now ask her to dance ( even though i think some might) or she might turn them down.. and there isnt a doubt in my mind that she will stay faithful and she would never cheat on me.. but i dont like the idea of a guy besides me being that close to her... i might jsut be retarted like that but i think guys out there with girlfriends can feel for me... what should i do because i hate feeling like thisHow do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
I know how you feel, as a personal fan of reggaeton music, she needs to be careful with that. you should really tell her hoe you feel, dont hold anything back. its not saying she cant go and have fun, but youre being honest with her. just tell her you trust her, and that you know she would never do you wrong. it just makes you feel uncomfortable because its almost like your letting another guy be with her for that time. if anything ask her if you can come along and dance with her, if she wants to dance with any guy, it should be you.





Good Luck :)How do i deal with this uncomfortable jealous type feeling?
hmmm.. I wonder what she would think if a girl was grinding on you?? btw.. I hate reggeaton music
Well with my old boy friend when we were going out he hung out with ALOT of girls and they have known him forever and i have for only a few months i got the same feeling but sorta pissed of as well then i realized that they were all just having fun and well i guess its a feeling u get in some sort of situation eventually i guess a version of jealousy, i mean it's going to happen in a relationship eventually. If you trust her then it's fine dancing is one thing but cheating is another if u knows she is smart then u know its okay. I'm sorry i feel bad for you in your situation here, because there isn't anything you can do about it besides trust her, so do so.or tell her the truth and how u feel she will understand.