Ok well i am on a dance team and we practice with the cheerleaders and while they dance they're sluts and when we dance we're not ';EXCEPT'; for ';me'; ok well my friend Daniela has been telling me that people are saying that im a slut and everything and it's because i over-due everything and there's rumors going around that i put my hands in my now exes pants and that i went to Scream Factor with this guy that was already going out with someone and that i kissed the same guy that was already going out with someone and so then everyone believes the rumors and not me and their not true and now they don't believe them but besides that i have let no one touch me at all i only get 10 hugs a day two from 5 people and they're close and because of that of all the ';Hugging people less and Not letting them touch me'; is making me MORE slutty and during this dance i was overdoing all the popping and that's what the cheerleaders do but everyone still talks to them and not me and my friend acts the same as me but she is NOT a slut and she also says that i am i wtf im not doing anything and i don't get what i'm doing that makes them think i am. Please tell me if i'm doing anything wrong or give me some advice on how to stop the situation and or tell me if i am a slut or not. And i haven't even gone out with more then 5 guys ... or two so far i have only gone out with one and everyone supposedly says i flirt with EVERY guy. ugh i don't know ALL the freaking guys in my school. Tell me what you guys think. I need help. i literally do cry every night.Am i seriously a Slut?
if you didn't do all those things then no you aren't a slut. and if your ';friend'; is telling you that you are then why is she even your friend still? if you got a boyfriend and actually stayed with him for awhile and were loyal i'm sure you wouldn't be called a slut anymore...
anyways... if everyone thinks you're a slut already then you mine as well spread rumors about everyone else. two can play that game, right?Am i seriously a Slut?
Slut is only a name, people are going to say it no matter what the truth is. Who cares what they think? Just don't give them any proof and you will eventually stop hearing that.
No you're not.. those people are just mean
No,your not a slut,only girls who have sex with tons of guys are sluts,you really can't make people stop talking about you,they are immature girls who have nothing better to do than make others feel bad so they feel good.just stay away from them and be yourself,act like it doesn't bother you(i know that's hard to do),hopefully they will find others to talk about,if not well just remember your not the person they say you are and they don't matter.you may want to consider leaving the dance team if they keep making you miserable.
F**k the rumors. .
people are always going to talk..
theyre just jealous
;]
if your askin the question then yes.
i didnt read your details tho.
i dont feel dat ur ,slut.As it is part of ur professional,
if u do intentionslly nd likes to such things, den u would be called as slut..
try to chng the group so that no one get suspious abt ur character !
If it's that big of a deal, then quit your dance team.
And cheerleaders do over-due it sometimes, but that's the whole idea of what cheerleaders do. Dance team on the other hand isn't supposed to OVER-due it. It's a little much...
So I think you should either
(1) Quit the dance team %26amp; join cheer.
(2) Quit the dance team %26amp; not be too involved for a while.
(3) Keep dancing the way you do, and WHO CARES what people say about you.
Plus, all these people are probably just saying all this because their jealous.
But don't ask yourself if you're a slut or not. Because it's making yourself sound very un-confident and you should be. Work it girl, your a dancer for a reason. :]
being called a slut is just a name. it means nothing so as loong as you feel good about yourself and you believe that your not a slut. my sister gets called a slut but she really isnt and she doesnt let that bug her so dont let it get to you.
Cheerleaders are known to be classy and school-oriented
dance teams are known to be just show-offs who didn't make the cheer squad
If the dance team is your true passion, then come up with classier dances
if your rep is more important, drop the dance team, dive into school work, get good grades, join groups like student gov and take control of a few things.
Once you have some control, if anyone starts rumors, make them rediculous!!
I'm the most popular girl in my school so of course people start rumors about me so I just make them outrageous and laugh with everyone else at myself
Be extremely careful around guys or flirting with anyone. DO NOT come on to any guys until this blows over, it'll make it worse. Just speak the truth, make your school resume SWEET
=) if you need help lemme know. I help girls like you in this situation every day at my school
Sunday, 14 November 2010
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