Ok this is huge for me. I'm not some retarded prude, i'm not even that shy i just suck at dancing hahaa. so i need you to answer some questions. but this IS a big deal for me because i have this problem....i can NEVER like guys...like ever...and i liked this guy and he asked me to his school dance. :O now it's HIS school dance...so i know literally no one there except him. :S:S which also causes some issues. so i just need some help please
1. I SUCK at fast dancing....when i'm dancing with him do i look at him or do i just kinda do it on my own?
2. for slow dancing....am i supposed to talk to him? hhahah i'll proobly hug him so i don't have to do the whole awkward eye contact thing :P
3. what if he starts grinding me...i've never done that before. how do you even do that?
4. for fast dancing....do i just randomly bounce around and just like play with my hair and stuff? ahah i dance around with my friends, but i don't think it'd be the same. maybe i should have an energy drink or something :P. If i just dance like an idiot but i'm confident about it do you think he'll think i'm a huge tool? or do you think he'll find it cute? ahah
5. for fast dancing...i just dance around with my friends sometimes, like just bounce and play with your hair and put your arms up and such...but if i'm dancing with a guy do i still do stuff with my arms or do i just bounce with my legs and then talk to him...or do i hug him or touch him at all? ahah like put my arms around his neck or ANYTHIGN? ahaha.
6. He's a freaking giant, so for slow dancing so it's less awkward, should i wear heels?
....anyhting else i should know? seriousley anything no matter how stupid it soudns help
HELPP!!
this is huge for me. i'm so happy and scared but i need help. also...it's semi-formall....does that mean i should wear a dress? aha. like should i shop for a short dress?? or is that TOO formal? I need insane help. School dances??? Help me PLEASE?
Let me tell... you can start by doing the ';two-step'; meaning move your feet side to side. You can never go wrong with two step. Then you kinda move your body to the music (feel the rhyme) while doing the two step. Move your body smoothly and with confident (like you know what your doing but you really don't). DON'T BOUNCE AND PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR!!! Or you could look at anybody there near you that could dance and just kinda copy what they do.
Yes for slow dancing you wrap your arms on his shoulders. No you don't have to talk just slow dance. Move as the same pace as the beat of the music. Don't move to fast or just let him take the lead. Follow his movement. Move counter-clock wise in circle, ok. Sure if his tall then wear heels.
If he grinds on you then turn around and grind your butt on him. Rub your butt on his hips.
LoL..... I was in your situation when I went to my first slow dance with a senior and he was hott. I didn't know how to dance either or know how to act. I ended sitting on the bleachers all night and my date was bored. Don't do that like me... try to have fun and with confident. Even if your nervous and shy in the inside don't show it in the outside. Be Confident.
Good Luck! Don't be nervous.I need insane help. School dances??? Help me PLEASE?
calm down
wear a skirt dance liek everyone else
and find how he wants to slow dance with u
well i dont know how old you are but you will prob. be grinding most of the time.
so for that just shake your but a whole lot. i dont really know how to explain that one.
and wear a short dress. and it doesnt really matter what shoes youll end up taking them off anyways.
have fun.
try not to be nervous.
good luck with everything=]
1. maybe grab his hands and move your hips to the music
2. no you really dont need to talk to him, just put your hand around his neck and let his hands wrap around your back.
3. he grabs your hips and stands behind you and you both bob up and down, play with your hair while he does this or put your hands on his
.
4. and bouncing only works if everyone else is doing it. don't dance like an idiot, its not cute.
5. putting your arms around his neck only works for slowdancing.
6. nah your feet will hurt, and most likely you'll take your shoes off anyways, just let him crouch, he'll think it's cute.
and short, to the knee dresses are good for semi formals.
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