I only drink.
I only drink coolers.
So, I need help D:
I don't know, but I'm getting really nervous.
I'm going with me friend (16) and a bunch of guys that I don't know that are all 19 or older. SO, I'm kind of freaking out, aha.
You know, I don't really want to end up naked in a ditch. So, does anyone have suggestions?
I mean, I know to watch your drink, don't put it down, the basics, yeah?
But I'm just sort of... Really, really new to this.
And I have never done anything with a guy, save hug and slow dance. So, I'm not sure how I'm going to do this?First big party at 14. Drugs, booze, the works?
You're going to your first big party huh? Well, I hope you're ready for vomiting, hangover, possible arrest, parents losing all trust in you, pregnancy (you think a passed out 14 year old girl is going to be off limits to a drunk 19 year old boy?), STD's (yup. a lot of them out there, and some are for life, or for ending life), being remembered for doing something incredibly stupid while drunk, or getting hurt or killed in an accident on the way home because your friend driving is drunk. Of course it could bring fond memories when you're older. Like, you'll remember when you first started on the road to alcoholism, drug dependency, arrest records, driving violations... Look kid, this isn't some joke, You are 14 years old. 14!! You have no business hanging out with 19 and 20 year old boys. And no, you're not mature enough. You are a kid who is going to get her *** in a lot of trouble for a galactically huge, stupid reason. And there's nothing worse than having to your parents from jail, or worse yet having the police call your parents!! Good-bye freedom!! Hello Hell!!
Good luck kid, you're going to need it!First big party at 14. Drugs, booze, the works?
dont go
wtf
ew. i hate druggies and drunkies
You're 14. You should not be drinking. The only advice I can give you is to not drink. Don't be in a hurry to grow up. Being a grown up sucks.
Uh, that's illegal. Imagine getting caught. What will people think of you then?
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You dont have to do anything that you dont want to do.
Eww I love druggies %26amp; drunkies!
Drink soda and eat food before you get there..
your 14 you dont belong at that party make an excuse not to go
If you were smart you wouldn't go!
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If you're freaking out about over a party maybe you shouldn't go. You need to excerice your abilities (and your right) to draw the line where you are not comfortable. Got it? Stay in your comfort zone.
If you go now you will only get a bad reputation. Dont go and surround yourself with better people.
Just relax. Give yourself a limit to drink. Don't let anyone get you a drink. Give yourself a limit of how far you will go with a dude. Make sure your cell is charged. That is important for emergencies. Don't leave your friend.Thats a party foul.
I'd be freaking out too if I were you. Those scenes are exactly the kind of scenes in which some naive girl gets raped.
If you know drugs, booze, and MEN that are too old for you will be there, you should not be there. Period.
Stay home and rent some videos, or go out to the movies with some other friends. You'll thank me when you graduate from high school without ever getting pregnant.
Grinding is easy, just make sure you're comfortable with it. If you're not comfortable dancing with a guy, just say you feel like you're gonna puke and make a break for the bathroom. Guys don't like puke.
Another thing... Don't mix your drinks. If you're drinking, stick to the same thing. Otherwise who knows how messed up you could get.
Good luck, and just relax. If you're not comfortable, leave. Simple as that.
If you have to drink, ALWAYS get it yourself, and get it out of an unopened bottle. You never know if someone drugged a whole pitcher of something. You don't have to do anything you don't want to -- especially with guys you don't know. Keep your cell phone with you just incase there's trouble.
Also, try to stay away from drugs. It's really the wrong way to go.
i just got outta rehab for that ****. 6 muther fuking months..
i would just drop that **** quick..
really :/
Oh for cryin' out loud Alex, you are FOURTEEN. Knock it OFF!!
3 Dog night song says it best,,,';mama told me not to go';
you better not go. You need better friends, better desires, or you will eventually end up a alcoholic, drug addict, or pregnant,
Calm down! Everything will be fine. Just try not to get pressured doing something you don't want to.
look .. yurr prolly not reddi 4 this .. so just not go .. like .. yu never kno what will happen tuh yu .. nd yu may have regrets, if yu dnt go, then nun to worri about
well it's obvious you'll turn into a drunken whore eventually anyway, so go ahead and screw someone tonight, do the infamous walk of shame tomorrow just get that first one over and done with. Oh and make sure you drink enough so that bubba or whoever doesnt hurt you, or so that you dont feel. Make sure also that you slap your parents in the face for their sh*tty job and preventing another drunken whore from disgracing humanity.
How about not going since you're 14, and shouldn't be drinking alcohol. I don't doubt that those mild coolers can't affect you so much right now, but are you really going to guarantee that in 5 years you won't be a low-life, uneducated piece of ****? (triple negative mother *******)
Ok, so now you're a wannabe low-life uneducated piece of ****. Have fun spending the rest of your high school years trying to please others and fitting in rather than do things productive.
Don't drink, you can get in A LOT of trouble when you are under age drinking, you are responsible for everything that happens to you when you are drunk, what if you get raped or if you die if someone drugs you? How would your parents think if they found out. Wait till you are older for that stuff, you are just becoming a teen. Im 16 and i'm not that stupid, don't do it.
don't go. first of all, it's illegal for you to be drinking and it's illegal to do drugs and ';the works';.
second, you're going to be with a bunch of older people, so chances are you are going to get pulled into what ever they are doing.
third, if the cops get called, you will be going to jail, my friend. unless you happen to get away before they catch you, and even then your friends might rat you out.
so again, my advice: don't go.
don't go. you're 14, don't start trying to act like your all grown up and all because that's ridiculous and stupid.
it's in that kind of situation that girls get harassed by older men, and even raped. some friend you have there, to drag you into this.
uh don't get aids
or kiss any guys you dont know
don't trust anyone
and don't get too ****** up
Well do all the watching your drink etc etc, don't drink loads and DONT do drugs, stay with your friend and talk to the people she is talking to, unless people come up to you. Don't find yourself alone with some guy you just met, and if he trys anything call your parents to come and pick you up.
Hmmm.. dont worry, just make sure you dont go out of your comfort level.
Choose what your limits are : on one hand, why not try something new? why not have some fun and stop being safe? on the other hand dont do things your personal morals are againsts. Choose what your limits are and stick to them. If you said you dont want to do something DONT.
DOnt be afraid to tell people you are new to things, obv. you want to seem cool but dont be too worried to say ';how do i do this?'; or ';sorry i never did this before';
This is only your first party, there will be more so dont try to do everything in one night, on the other hand dont just sit around and do nothing so you dont get invite again:)
yeah watch your drink and stuff but id say the main thing is just to relax and dont get too wasted.
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