Sunday 11 December 2011

Trust issues...HELP PLEASE!?

my boyfriend and i have had a long distance relationship for 8 months n its 25 days till we see eachother for the first time in those very long 9months we'll have been apart. The problem we have now is this, hes from germany but we met in the US when he went back his friends have been constantly against us. telling him that im probably cheating on him over here and should find someone new.He was able to ignore his friends, trust me, n not worry when i went out to parties. But i messed up, one night i was really drunk and i got my hand taped to a smirnoff bottle with my friend drew. It was no big deal we are honestly just friends.But the pics that got put up on facebook were iffy looking.of course my boyfriend saw those and freaked out.He believes i did nothing with drew, and he still knows im not having sex with anyone, but he gets parniod im dancing or flirting with guys at parties, but im not. How can i get him to trust me now,because im worried I'll lose him, and i love him so muchTrust issues...HELP PLEASE!?
well if he loves u like you say u love him then i dont see a problem,,u can have friend of the male sex,,just not having sex,,i bet he had lady friends there as well and he dont let you know all that is going on there,,so if you are ment to be together it will be,,if not then it was never ment to be,,,,,just keep being honest with him,,for lies will end it faster than it startedTrust issues...HELP PLEASE!?
Honestly..... If you ';loved him so much'; I don't believe you'd have been out with Drew and a bottle of Smirnoff in the first place. You'd be busy doing many other things that hold no potential for someone to doubt.



You need to grow up.
Specially in a long distance relationship trust is the main issue....dont flirt with other guys or even talk with them too much....coz then your boyfriend might think, if you are acting like this in his presence, what you might do if he is back in Germany....Then he will recall all the things what his friends told him about you....



I know you may just being friendly with others, but your guy will view it in a different manner....so dont talk with other guys SPECIALLY WHEN HE IS AROUND....ANYWAY, IF YOU WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO LAST FOREVER, THEN BE TRUTHFUL TO YOU AND AVOID HANGING AROUND WITH OTHER GUYS....

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