Sunday 11 December 2011

Relationship Problem...need some help/suggestions.?

OK. Please, before I start, serious posts only. I'm in love with this girl and I need help. I tried to ask my friends and stuff, but it's all biased.



My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. I love her, and she loves me (at least she's said I love you anyway). We have what I guess you would call a good relationship. We talk, and we hang out, go on dates, have sex, etc. In July, she went overseas for one month. She does dance and goes there for a month every year to get her degree. So, she went, and of course she is over there with all these guys that speak Polish, and can dance Polish folk dance, things I can't do very well, or at all. My family has a history of...cheating. My mom cheated on my dad, and since then, I can't get these suspicions out of my head. Back to the story. So there is this guy over there. They are best friends, and I KNOW that nothing happened between them.



One day I was sending her a long facebook message, just something cute. And I accidentally sent it before it was finished. So i logged in to her facebook to delete it so I could start over. Well, I saw a message between them in her inbox, and I read it. In the message, she said that she was still kind of mad about how I over reacted about them saying things like 'miss you' and 'xoxo' and all that stuff. My best friend is a girl, so I don't know how I couldn't relate. But back to the message. She also wrote how she 'just needed to talk to him' and that made me feel really bad because I want her to talk to me. I told her I looked and she got mad. Long story short, both of us have felt really awkward lately and one night I basically asked her upfront about us. I asked four questions. If she loved me. If she wanted to be my girlfriend. If she cared about me. And if she want everything to work out. Now she is a busy girl.She leads the Polish dance group here in MN, she has school 5 days a week 7-2, works nights on the weekends. She barely has a lot of free time.



So in response to those questions she said that they were really intense. So i kind of freaked out and said that she didn't have any problem answering them a week ago, and all this stuff. So a girlfriend of hers texted me and said that I needed to stop pressuring her and that I needed to give her time to think about her life and get some things done (she is planning the annual x-mas party for the polish community here in town by herself basically). So we haven't spoken in 3 days. WE work together, and I'm not even supposed to talk to her at work, and I'm supposed to wait for Monday when we can talk about things. I am seriously in love with this girl. She inspires me to do so many things. Her parents don't like me much, and one of her best-friends, and I know that ways on her. Basically, I need some advice on how I should go about our talk on Monday. I don't want to lose her. Please help. I'm serious. My email is vegaslove821@yahoo.com if you would like to message me there too. Thank you!!Relationship Problem...need some help/suggestions.?
okay well maybe on monday you can sit down with her and explain how youre feeling and that you love her and all and try to work things out cause it def sounds like youre in love with her.

I really hope you guys can work it out though. good luck :) :)Relationship Problem...need some help/suggestions.?
well...

if i were u i'd dump her. i mean, from the sounds of things, even if theres nothing actually going on with this guy, theres still some sort of feelings. and if u love her, then im guessing u dont want 2 share her.

but... if u just want to work things out, give her a week, dont leave her completely alone, but give her space. then talk to her.

I don't understand, what should I do?

About several months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because he cheated on me with another guy in his car on our driveway while I was a sleep inside the house. He broke up with me and didn't tell me it was because he cheated on me he told me that he just was having second thought and need time to think about what he really wants. I agreed because I thought I wanted the same thing too. Well after a month we got back together and we worked things out he confessed that this guy kissed him outside while we were at a dance and said that ever since then he didn't know how to fell so he took it as if he needed to break up with me. However I found out later that that was just half the truth and we broke up again because he really did cheat on me. Three months went buy and we realized that we missed each other and we wanted to work things he explained to me that he was drunk at the time and wasn't shure weather he wanted to be with me. I forgave him and that was that. Well about 7 months later we decide to move from our home. He decided to move first to find a job and I would stay until we found a place to live in the new city. Well the weekend before I plan to go see him, I plan to have a fun weekend with my friends. However I have too much fun and a little to much to drink. I end up kissing his friend and we end up making out. Well one of my friends goes and gets me to stop. I freak out and I just start to cry. I end up telling my boyfriend over the phone and tell him half of the truth. I made the mistake of telling him that his friend kissed me but I didn't tell him that I kissed him first. He eventually finds out the truth because I tell him. He then calls his friend and asked him what happened and he completely denies everything. Another friend of ours is there and tells him what happens but says some other things that didn't happen. My boyfriend calls me back and is angry with me and tells me that he doesn't know what to think and says that he just doesn't want to talk to me right now. So I don't know if he just wants his space and wants to break up with me or what, should I call him or wait for him to call me?I don't understand, what should I do?
Well, this is complicated, by I would keep calling him. (I mean, if this happened to my girlfriend and I, I'd keep calling her.) If he realizes you are trying to talk to him that badly, he might hear you out. Just say something like, ';Please. I don't expect you to believe it, but this truthful....'; Maybe apologize and tell him it was a huge mix-up, and you could really use a hug right now.

My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?

Was I wrong for telling some random guy she barely knows at a dance club, they came together then next thing you know hes over there freaking another girl. I went up to him and said ';hey my sis law is waiting for you!!'; and he was like okay. Then I went up to him and told him I thought he was being disrespectful to her by dancing with another girl. He grabs me by the arm and pulls me and tells me to dance with him, my husband raised hell and told him to not touch me and they almost started a fight, but they didn't because all his friends came and he backed out. My husband told me to stay out of it but I was a little tipsy and at the end my sis in law said that I was blowing things out of proportion and that I was being dramatic, left with the guy and 2 weeks later decides to text me how I'm doing? Me and her were really close almost best friends, I'm really hurt because I meant good and she made me look bad in front of friends and made me look like I was acting like a drunk girl. Who's wrong here? Should I just not ever speak to her again?



This girl is my husbands sister.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
Your husband is right, you should have stayed out of it. It wasnt your business to approach him. If anything, you could have asked your SIL if she was OK with what was going on.My sis in law got offended because I stood up for her?
This is why I have learned that if I'm going to drink at a bar/club, I better sit my @ss at a table and only get up if I need another drink.
To all who answer this question - over/under on this woman's marriage lasting 3 years?

I got 5$ on the under.
Well, I will have to agree with your sister in law on this one. If she felt that he was being disrespectful then she would've taken care of it herself or ASKED you to do something. She did neither. She is a big girl, let her take care of things. Let it be in the past, learn from it and move on,
I reaaaalllly like you so I am saying this with good intention...



YOU made HER look bad and you WERE a drunk girl. You should have apologized... don't hate me!
';she made me look bad in front of friends';



Nope, you did that on your own.
Your sister in law is a full-grown adult who can take care of herself. It's nice that you wanted to be chivalrous, but she didn't need it. You should have butted out. Now, you need to forgive and forget and let this whole misunderstanding go by the wayside like the trivia that it is.
well you shouldnt want your sister in law to go home with some guy from the club. i know you care about her but you probobly should have just let it go. if she is over it then you should be too, you can be friends again
A buck on %26lt;3yr (... that's $100 not $1)



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Why are you meddling in these trivial things?



If you are too controlling and jealous to allow your spouse, much less some random dude, to dance with someone else don't go to a club.



Bizarre. What is this, Rhythm Infidelity?
So she just met some guy and decided to go to the bar toghether and he wasn't 'her guy'. They weren't exclusive and nothing has been said about being so. You butted in where you had NO idea what the relationship was. The sister in law was just letting you know that it was ok for him to be dancing with other women. In the future, BUTT out, and enjoy her friendship. She obviously is not still mad at YOU for humiliating HER so get OVER it.
you might have blown it out of proportion a little bit. i give you props for standing up for her, even if you were drunk.. but she might have just been embarrassed by the whole thing and you know how girls get when you embarrass them. if she doesn't bring it up then i don't see a reason to be mad at her for it. what would you have done in her shoes? would you have gone with the guy that you were dancing with, or the ';drunk'; girl who was yelling at him?
I think you overreacted. If she barely knows this guy, what does it matter if he was dancing with another woman? If he was her husband it would be different.
I really have nothing except an appreciation for your story telling ability.



I wish I could have seen this.

How do i tell my mom that i.......?

got asked to homecoming by a guy. i'm only 14 (freshmen) so this would b my first homecoming dance. and someone asked me like a few weeks ago but i never brought it up. and homecoming is TONIGHT! and i have to tell her cause the dude im goin with wants to get together for pictures.!! would it b okay if i was liek ';hey mom my friend tom just asked me to go to homecomin is that okay with you?'; and i'll say it in front of my friends so she doesnt like freak or nething. does that sound okay?How do i tell my mom that i.......?
Yes you have to tell her, I mean-ask her for permission, but u dont need to do it infront of your friends so that she麓ll be more ok with it. besides, if she doesnt want u to go she麓ll say it to you even if your friends are there. bedies, why are u u waiting until the last minute to tell her? she wont like that u are trying to hide it from her.How do i tell my mom that i.......?
Sure! It's not like he's asked you for sex or anything. :/ Your mum would have to be REALLY odd if she kicked off about you having a homecoming date. xD
yea but dont act nervous or sumthin...jus be totally chill
yes it should be fine unless ur mom is really mean
yes
sounds good to me!
yea that would be ok to say
No it sounds like you have acted with very poor judgment in leaving things to the last minute. Had you told her some time ago, she may have had a negative reaction, but then warmed to the idea.



Now she is going to be doubly annoyed, one because she probably doesn't want you to go, and two because you brought it up at the last minute leaving her out of the loop until the day of. This shows poor judgment and immaturity (at least that's how she'll see it) which is another reason to refuse to let you go.



I really don't think you want to make it a trifecter by also telling her in front of friends, figuring this will make it go over better.
Well, you should have told her up front. Nothing is better than honesty. She will find out and on this short notice what are you going to do if she tells you no?
That sounds okay. But with my mother, she would get annoyed if I were to ask her for permission for things in front of my friends, as she would feel that she had to say yes. Your mother may feel like this, so just be aware of that. Think about what she would want.

Tell her you'll be home by a specified time, and keep to it. She'll trust you more if you do that. Let her meet him, when he picks you up, if she wants to.

Respect her decisions and requests, and you should be fine. :)

Good luck, and have a great night! :)
Oh no i have a daughter and she always tried doing that in front of her friends made me 10 times madder . Be honest with your parents and they will be honest with you . And introduce him as a friend not boy friend your to young to have a boyfriend Friends are OK . Don't start your life out as a sneak

Hair Question?!?!?! I'm like freaking OUT!!!?

Okay I'm going to my first formal dance and will probably slow dance for the first time with a guy. My dress is gorgeous and looks great on me! LOL k.... well the problem is how should i do my hair? I need experienced girls help here!! My hair is dark brunette without bangs and goes down a couple inches past my shoulders. My hair is like incredibly straight so curling it into like ringlets is pretty much out of the question. Thanks in advance!!!Hair Question?!?!?! I'm like freaking OUT!!!?
try puting it up in a nice bun or looking on the internet for cute hair style
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  • How can she be perfect?

    She always has perfect long curly dark dark brown hair

    She has huge perfect brown eyes with long silky eyelashes

    She has beautiful acne free golden skin

    Her nails are always long and they never break

    She's petit in everything

    She's a gymnast/cheerleader so she's muscular but not like a body builder

    She has perfect white teeth that has never had braces

    Her laugh is like bells tingling. It makes other people laugh/feel better instantly.

    She's a health freak, and always eats healthy

    She also exercises a LOT

    She's head cheerleader

    She's editor at our school newspaper

    She has the biggest boobs i've ever seen

    She has a nice *** and legs

    Guys fall over her

    She dances incredibly well (She did ballet for like 5 years then quit now she does jazz, plus she can grind and crump and all that)

    She has perfectly shaped eyebrows and full luscious lips

    She is very hygienic

    She's rich but she doesn’t show it.

    She doesn’t follow the “latest trends” she makes her own style and other people copy it!

    She doesn’t have any enemies, everyone loves her

    Shes extremely modest

    She sings like an angel

    She takes pictures for fun, and shes good at it!

    She’s soo smart, shes named Student of the year every year and shes always on the honour and effort roll

    She’s the most popular girl in the school, but she’s not stuck up

    She’s funny, she makes everyone laugh

    If you’re down, she can always cheer you up

    She always keeps secrets

    She has no rumours floating around about her

    She volunteers at the gymnastics center twice a week and volunteers at the homeless center once a week. She also works with orphans and organizes charities to raise money for them

    She can party, every party she’s at makes everything more interesting.

    She doesn’t smoke and rarely drinks

    She can act too, but she chooses not to do that as a career because she thinks education is more important.

    Teachers love her

    Everybody does, im not jealous im just wondering how she can be perfect?How can she be perfect?
    Well... to me...you kinda sound like you have a crush...that's a lot of description for just a friend... you need to rethink this whole perfect thing...everyone has a secret. No one is perfect. Maybe she's clincally depressed. or her parents hate her. you never know. but i think you might be blowing this out of porpotion. U have a crush on her and she seems perfect by comparison to everyone else.How can she be perfect?
    no idea

    it's like the impossible person
    wow..i love this....does this person really exist.
    ::blushes:: are you talking about me? lol jk.... um idk... .and all the things you just said are so easily attainable.
    she cant be perfect, becuase nobodys perfect. she must have at least one flaw, you just must not know about it. maybe her home life sucks or something. i dont know what else to tell you...
    You sure sound jealous
    cool and het a life u wrote all that and no one perfect

    god jsut gave he lots of tanlets
    She's not perfect.



    Looks can be deceiving - especially with an overachiever. She works out ';a LOT'; and makes it a point to eat really healthy? That takes work - no wonder she has a great figure.



    Nowhere does it mention her home life. Are her parents together? Does she get help and attention from her family? Does she have a happy, healthy, loving home? Even if you've met her parents, you have no idea what sort of pressure they may be putting on her to maintain her ';perfect'; facade. Or what skeletons are in her closet.



    Believe me, no one is perfect. There's a fairly good chance she has her reasons for working so hard to have the image you detailed to us. And so she got lucky with some natural talent and looks - it still takes a lot of work to portray perfection.
    Ask your mother if your mother doesn't like her then shes not. sorry!! boss
    you're obsessed
    Some people possess the qualities that we wish we had. It's admirable that you find someone perfect, but remember that you too have qualities that someone envys. It is important to give yourself credit and find the things that you value in yourself as well. It is good to admire and like the qualities of others, remember to think the same about yourself and you can always change some of thethings about yourself that you don't find so desirable with some hard work
    she doesn't sound perfect to me.

    i don't like long nails.

    i don't like big boobs.

    and i don't like cheerleaders.



    but it looks like the causes are also in your list.

    she always eats healthy, she exercises, she volunteers, she's soo smart.

    she's perfect because she's healthy, happy, and smart, and thus motivated.



    now obviously, she's NOT perfect. everyone has flaws of some sort. either those flaws are too horrible for her to let other people see, or they're too simple and minor for people to notice.
    I know people like this, and I can′t keep from envying them or wondering why she has this perfect life while I′m a better person, I pray and go to church every sunday, help the others and so on.

    But we must be careful because appearances cheat. Maybe this person has everything but we don′t live with her 24 hours a day. We can′t know the problems that she surely have. The only place in the world where you can′t find problems is the cemetery.
    No one is perfect.

    Not to mention you sound like a stalker. You prob know much more about this girl than she does about you.

    That is a freakishly long list. Worry about yourself hun.

    You seem insecure.
    Stalkerrrrr...

    Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?

    hey guys im back with something on my mind. dance tryouts are coming back around on May 2,2009 and i am freaking out i made the dance team for the 2008-2009 season and i know i have a good chance of making it for the 2009-2010 season but somewhere in my mind i have this feeling im not, my friends they tell me things happen and you might not do as great as you do last year which i dont think was very nice to say to me around this time every year like today one of my friends said the rest of the old girls would make it but i had a chance and i dance good not great that upset me alot, i can dance real good i come home everyday and practice i take it so serious no joke i have been doing this since i was 5 years old{lyrical and modern dance} i just need some support today we had a meeting and it was like 35 girls there who wanted to tryout and in my mind im like what if one of these girls take my spot what if they dance better then me,dont get me wrong though im not intimidated by them i do believed in myself. im just being parinoid i guess i know every morning when i get ready for school or any other day i pray and also pray to make it on the team again this year, this is something i love to do i just hope i make it because seriously if i dont i swear to you i will cry my eyes out literally thats how bad i want it



    but i have 2questions



    1.do you think i have a better chance of making it again this year



    2.do you think my friends were wrong for what the said



    thanks in advance yata booz and if you dont mind can you give me a good answer please %26lt;3Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
    Talk to the instructor and get their opinion on your capabilities. Without knowing your friends, I cannot say what their agenda is to say that you are good but not great. Unless they gave you specific areas that you should work on to do great. If the instructor says that you do not need to work on anything, then relax and enjoy. If the instructor gives you some constructive criticism then follow the hints and relax and enjoy.Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
    well, i did cheerleading ever since the 2nd grade and ive dance since i was 3 and i was asked to be on a select competition team in the 2nd grade. and im not conceited but i am good at dancing its all ive ever wanted and it shows. Im a great cheerleader also, my friends all told me in the middle school that if there was a captain (there wasnt) that it should be me and stuff. I was so good at hitting my moves and i smiled and obviously could dance and i catch on very quick like i can learn and entire dance in less than an hour (if its difficult and easy one i learn quicker) but i cant do very well cheer jumps. which is wierd bcs my jumps in dance are awesome. But anywayz i made the squad as a freshman and then last year (sophmore year) i tryed out thinking im making varsity no problem im so good... then i didn't practice much i didnt work on jumps or anything but i hate calling chants bcs you say the whole thing but i had to call it so i flipped out and messed up the words and i was like oh i need to restart! big mistake. Then when you spirit i kinda stopped bcs i was like lets hear it (embarassing) and for some reason i only did a single jump and i ended up not making it at all not even JV. i cried for a week straight i couldnt even go to school. i had ppl coming up to me i didnt know saying that i should have made it over them and other ppl like how did they make it. Even the coach called and apologized saying i shouldve made it but she has to go by just try outs and mine sucked. (she didnt say sucked hah) but im trying out again. in a weeek!!! ahh! but my point is dont be to cocky (which i dont think you are) just go in and give it everything be prepared and dont listen to everyone else. and your friends are jerks! they shouldn't say that! just make sure your confident but not too much. Be ready for everything and if you dont make it it doesnt mean your not good. It couldve been a bad day or nerves just dont ever give up if you want it even if you dont make it try out again next yr. good luck!!!!!!

    What does this mean? Is she interested or not enough clues?

    I have known this girl for 4 months. She goes to an out of state school. I have seen her only 3 times in person. We have been communicating quite a bit over that time, mostly texting because apparently she loves doing it. She wished me happy bday 3 times on facebook and even sent me a whip cream w/cherry gift. We have become somewhat good friends and shes even asked me awhile back how my gf situation was. We are both single. Am in the friend zone because she has called me the nice guy before? like she has said it twice but i havent really done anything ';nice'; for her, lol.



    Anyways, we hung out twice during break, went to a dance club and she only fanced with me (no freak) but maybe she feels comfortable with me, and when some guy started feeling her she came back to me and started dancing in front of me.



    we went for coffee 1 day, she texted me that night saying she was glad we hung out and now is telling me to come visit her at college so we can hang out more and go places. likes me?What does this mean? Is she interested or not enough clues?
    proceed on with the ';looking for more clues'; thing, just to boost your confidence. but i'd say it is walking like a duck and talking like a duck, dude.



    good luck!What does this mean? Is she interested or not enough clues?
    she likes you ya ya ya
    god jill, you still dont get it?? of course she likes you and likes you to the fullest.. you are her friends zone but definatelyty she wanst to see more of you....

    she keeps complementing you saying how nice you are .. etc etc.. do you think friends complement friends that much... ha ha ha...never..



    what do you want her to do? she has given more than enough clues that she likes you and consider you as special... of course she likes you!!! you donot do these things if you donot like them.... all the best....
    Of course, she likes u !!

    Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?

    hey guys im back with something on my dance tryouts are coming back around on May 2,2009 and i am freaking out i made the dance team for the 2008-2009 season and i know i have a good chance of making it for the 2009-2010 season but somewhere in my mind i have this feeling im not my friends they tell me things happen and you might not do as great as you do last year which i dont think was very nice to say to me around this time every year i can dance real good i come home everyday and practice i take it so serious no joke i have been doing this since i could walk i just need some support today we had a meeting and it was like 50 girls there who wanted to tryout and in my mind im like what if one of these girls take my spot what if they dance better then me dont get me wrong though im not intimidated by them i do believed in myself im just being parinoid i guess i know every morning when i get ready i pray and also pray to make it again this year this is something i love to do i just hope i make it because seriously if i dont i swear to you i will bust out and start crying thats how bad i want it



    but i have 2 questions



    1.do you think i have a better chance of making it again this year



    2.on this form i have to turn in theirs a question ';how do you view you role as a dance team member canyou all give me some examples of what i should put



    thanks in advance yata booz and if you dont mind can you give me a good answer please %26lt;3Dancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
    yes i do think that you have a better chance of making it this year although, the team captain of our school cheer squad did not make it again this year so you never know.



    also you could put something like, a determined dancer that is always willing to take one for the team.



    another thing when you try out don't be scared to add a little personality into the danceDancing tryout are coming back around again really nervous feel like im bout to cry thats how bad i want it?
    ya u have a great chance

    He Danced With Me, and Now........Answers Greatly Appreciated.?

    ok so winterball was this weekend. i was dancing with my friends when this guy came up to me and started dancing with me. i was shocked by this that i might have come off as like freaked out, but i wasnt. anyway soo i found out that this guy was a sophomore ( im a freshman), i see him all the time at school, how do i talk to him, i really wanna get to know him. any suggestions or tips on how i can approach him. thank you so much if you answerHe Danced With Me, and Now........Answers Greatly Appreciated.?
    If he danced with you then obviously he wants to marry you.



    I say walk right up to him, demand that he declare his love for you, and set a date.



    DANCING IS SERIOUSHe Danced With Me, and Now........Answers Greatly Appreciated.?
    I would have to say that you should take your time with this one. first, was it grinding or slow dancing? a dance is not a huge deal to most guys. there are exceptions to this but most of the time it's true. as sad as it is most women are like attractions at a theme park to guys. i would spend more time with this guy and try to get to know him. you might get a better idea of his feelings for you.
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  • First big party at 14. Drugs, booze, the works?

    So, I'm fourteen, and I'm going to my first party with like, booze drugs and the works.


    I only drink.


    I only drink coolers.


    So, I need help D:


    I don't know, but I'm getting really nervous.


    I'm going with me friend (16) and a bunch of guys that I don't know that are all 19 or older. SO, I'm kind of freaking out, aha.


    You know, I don't really want to end up naked in a ditch. So, does anyone have suggestions?


    I mean, I know to watch your drink, don't put it down, the basics, yeah?


    But I'm just sort of... Really, really new to this.


    And I have never done anything with a guy, save hug and slow dance. So, I'm not sure how I'm going to do this?First big party at 14. Drugs, booze, the works?
    You're going to your first big party huh? Well, I hope you're ready for vomiting, hangover, possible arrest, parents losing all trust in you, pregnancy (you think a passed out 14 year old girl is going to be off limits to a drunk 19 year old boy?), STD's (yup. a lot of them out there, and some are for life, or for ending life), being remembered for doing something incredibly stupid while drunk, or getting hurt or killed in an accident on the way home because your friend driving is drunk. Of course it could bring fond memories when you're older. Like, you'll remember when you first started on the road to alcoholism, drug dependency, arrest records, driving violations... Look kid, this isn't some joke, You are 14 years old. 14!! You have no business hanging out with 19 and 20 year old boys. And no, you're not mature enough. You are a kid who is going to get her *** in a lot of trouble for a galactically huge, stupid reason. And there's nothing worse than having to your parents from jail, or worse yet having the police call your parents!! Good-bye freedom!! Hello Hell!!


    Good luck kid, you're going to need it!First big party at 14. Drugs, booze, the works?
    dont go
    wtf
    ew. i hate druggies and drunkies
    You're 14. You should not be drinking. The only advice I can give you is to not drink. Don't be in a hurry to grow up. Being a grown up sucks.
    Uh, that's illegal. Imagine getting caught. What will people think of you then?








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    Thanks
    You dont have to do anything that you dont want to do.
    Eww I love druggies %26amp; drunkies!
    Drink soda and eat food before you get there..
    your 14 you dont belong at that party make an excuse not to go
    If you were smart you wouldn't go!
    troll
    If you're freaking out about over a party maybe you shouldn't go. You need to excerice your abilities (and your right) to draw the line where you are not comfortable. Got it? Stay in your comfort zone.
    If you go now you will only get a bad reputation. Dont go and surround yourself with better people.
    Just relax. Give yourself a limit to drink. Don't let anyone get you a drink. Give yourself a limit of how far you will go with a dude. Make sure your cell is charged. That is important for emergencies. Don't leave your friend.Thats a party foul.
    I'd be freaking out too if I were you. Those scenes are exactly the kind of scenes in which some naive girl gets raped.


    If you know drugs, booze, and MEN that are too old for you will be there, you should not be there. Period.





    Stay home and rent some videos, or go out to the movies with some other friends. You'll thank me when you graduate from high school without ever getting pregnant.
    Grinding is easy, just make sure you're comfortable with it. If you're not comfortable dancing with a guy, just say you feel like you're gonna puke and make a break for the bathroom. Guys don't like puke.


    Another thing... Don't mix your drinks. If you're drinking, stick to the same thing. Otherwise who knows how messed up you could get.





    Good luck, and just relax. If you're not comfortable, leave. Simple as that.
    If you have to drink, ALWAYS get it yourself, and get it out of an unopened bottle. You never know if someone drugged a whole pitcher of something. You don't have to do anything you don't want to -- especially with guys you don't know. Keep your cell phone with you just incase there's trouble.





    Also, try to stay away from drugs. It's really the wrong way to go.
    i just got outta rehab for that ****. 6 muther fuking months..


    i would just drop that **** quick..


    really :/
    Oh for cryin' out loud Alex, you are FOURTEEN. Knock it OFF!!
    3 Dog night song says it best,,,';mama told me not to go';


    you better not go. You need better friends, better desires, or you will eventually end up a alcoholic, drug addict, or pregnant,
    Calm down! Everything will be fine. Just try not to get pressured doing something you don't want to.
    look .. yurr prolly not reddi 4 this .. so just not go .. like .. yu never kno what will happen tuh yu .. nd yu may have regrets, if yu dnt go, then nun to worri about
    well it's obvious you'll turn into a drunken whore eventually anyway, so go ahead and screw someone tonight, do the infamous walk of shame tomorrow just get that first one over and done with. Oh and make sure you drink enough so that bubba or whoever doesnt hurt you, or so that you dont feel. Make sure also that you slap your parents in the face for their sh*tty job and preventing another drunken whore from disgracing humanity.
    How about not going since you're 14, and shouldn't be drinking alcohol. I don't doubt that those mild coolers can't affect you so much right now, but are you really going to guarantee that in 5 years you won't be a low-life, uneducated piece of ****? (triple negative mother *******)





    Ok, so now you're a wannabe low-life uneducated piece of ****. Have fun spending the rest of your high school years trying to please others and fitting in rather than do things productive.
    Don't drink, you can get in A LOT of trouble when you are under age drinking, you are responsible for everything that happens to you when you are drunk, what if you get raped or if you die if someone drugs you? How would your parents think if they found out. Wait till you are older for that stuff, you are just becoming a teen. Im 16 and i'm not that stupid, don't do it.
    don't go. first of all, it's illegal for you to be drinking and it's illegal to do drugs and ';the works';.


    second, you're going to be with a bunch of older people, so chances are you are going to get pulled into what ever they are doing.


    third, if the cops get called, you will be going to jail, my friend. unless you happen to get away before they catch you, and even then your friends might rat you out.


    so again, my advice: don't go.
    don't go. you're 14, don't start trying to act like your all grown up and all because that's ridiculous and stupid.


    it's in that kind of situation that girls get harassed by older men, and even raped. some friend you have there, to drag you into this.
    uh don't get aids


    or kiss any guys you dont know


    don't trust anyone


    and don't get too ****** up
    Well do all the watching your drink etc etc, don't drink loads and DONT do drugs, stay with your friend and talk to the people she is talking to, unless people come up to you. Don't find yourself alone with some guy you just met, and if he trys anything call your parents to come and pick you up.
    Hmmm.. dont worry, just make sure you dont go out of your comfort level.





    Choose what your limits are : on one hand, why not try something new? why not have some fun and stop being safe? on the other hand dont do things your personal morals are againsts. Choose what your limits are and stick to them. If you said you dont want to do something DONT.





    DOnt be afraid to tell people you are new to things, obv. you want to seem cool but dont be too worried to say ';how do i do this?'; or ';sorry i never did this before';





    This is only your first party, there will be more so dont try to do everything in one night, on the other hand dont just sit around and do nothing so you dont get invite again:)





    yeah watch your drink and stuff but id say the main thing is just to relax and dont get too wasted.





    If you need any advice / help / more private questions:





    terrence.howard99@yahoo.com





    be glad to help :)
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  • Boyfriends Crazy Mother?

    This isn't me, but I need to give my friend advice, and so I need advice.



    My friend asked this guy she likes to the dance at our school (girls ask guys). He said yes. They're not really going out, they haven't even hung out, he hasn't asked her out yet to hang (and yeah, how about she asks him, but hear me out...)



    So apparently she'll be his first girlfriend, well, not ';girlfriend'; but hanging out with a girl and all that other lovely stuff. But before they can hang out, his mother and his sister are coming over to my friends house to ask her some questions... The guy told my friend today at school this saying she'll probably ask her things like ';what are her intentions'; ... ';her goals'; ... ';if she's ever had other boyfriends.';



    My friends freaking out because she doesn't know when they're going to come.



    But seriously!



    How are you supposed to answer to the question ';What are your intentions?'; Intentions to what?



    I don't know what to tell her... I kind of just want to tell her to get over the guy, the family will only get weirder the more she becomes attached.Boyfriends Crazy Mother?
    Your right, his family will probably get worse if she keeps hanging out with him. However, she should just be honest with them. And tell them, hey its just a dance, nothing hinky is going to happen they are just going to have some fun. And if they ask her about her goals be honest. Don't show fear they can sense it!!! I had a b/f whose parents were worse than that, and if she likes him that much she should just do her best to ignore them, and lie if she has to. If she doesn't, then they will kill the relationship before it really starts. Tell her Good luck!Boyfriends Crazy Mother?
    That's a little much to be doing I think...Like they aren't dating or anything its a stupid dance? But anyway she should say so and so is a really nice guy and i wanted to ask him and he said yes. There's not much else you can say really...She just has to be herself. Gl
    I totally agree with you on that comment!! A medling mother in law is the weirdest most frustrating ordeal to try to handle. There's no way to have any control in the relationship because when times got rough you would have to face the whole familly.
    OK. Who is this guy? Price Charles. Good grief. Tell her to leave that ALONE. Too young for this kind of drama. Yes I know that is her son and then the sister..But come on.

    I need help!!???????

    ok...thers this girl at school..she talks so much **** about me...and makes the stupidest rumors...she constantly has to talk to my friends and ask about my life....and when she finds out something she tells the whole freaking school...its ridiculous..last year she wanted a truce and i said sure..then this year shes at it again..im sick of it....



    im not the fighting type..so i don't know what to do...i want to tell her off..but when i look at her face i feel like running away..firstly because shes ugly has heck...(im not saying it out of anger she is) and shes really fat...



    i just don't know what to do..im sick of it....



    its like what the question says...you know celebrities??? how you want all there info??? thats how she is











    YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THIS BUT ITS A STORY OF WHAT SHE HAS DONE



    this guy asked me to the dance..and i said yes..well she found out...and she texts him...so i know your going to the dance with someone....and he says i dont know what your talking about...and she kept on and on...then she was saying that he only asked me to the dance because he felt sorry for me...then at the dance she tried dancing with him!!! and she followed me and him everywhere!!



    and no she didnt like him...and it did not start here..this dance was in the 9 grade and we been at it since 8 grade..i need help please!









    I need help!!???????
    one you tell your friends not to tell her anything then you comfront her in watever way you want and if she still doesnt stop just ignore her and eventually she'll stop or move on to someone else.

    i need advice!!!! im sick of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

    ok...thers this girl at school..she talks so much **** about me...and makes the stupidest rumors...she constantly has to talk to my friends and ask about my life....and when she finds out something she tells the whole freaking school...its ridiculous..last year she wanted a truce and i said sure..then this year shes at it again..im sick of it....



    im not the fighting type..so i don't know what to do...i want to tell her off..but when i look at her face i feel like running away..firstly because shes ugly has heck...(im not saying it out of anger she is) and shes really fat...



    i just don't know what to do..im sick of it....



    its like what the question says...you know celebrities??? how you want all there info??? thats how she is









    YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THIS BUT ITS A STORY OF WHAT SHE HAS DONE



    this guy asked me to the dance..and i said yes..well she found out...and she texts him...so i know your going to the dance with someone....and he says i dont know what your talking about...and she kept on and on...then she was saying that he only asked me to the dance because he felt sorry for me...then at the dance she tried dancing with him!!! and she followed me and him everywhere!!



    and no she didnt like him...and it did not start here..this dance was in the 9 grade and we been at it since 8 grade..i need help please!

    i need advice!!!! im sick of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    From the way you described her (ugly and fat) she probably has low self confidence. When people feel bad about themselves, they pick on other people and in this case you. I know what its like to have rumors spread about you and its not fun at all. But the best thing you can do is ignore the rumors and her. She does these things cause she sees they bother you. Act like its no big deal. If she was following you at the dance (which had to be super annoying) try to act like you don't even notice her (even though you definitley do)



    I know it might be hard to ignore her when she's obnoxious but try as hard as you can. If it works, she'll realize that she doesn't bother you and she'll go pick on someone else.



    Oh and one more thing DONT TELL HER ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE! If she finds out from someone else, you can't avoid that, but don't be the source that gives her the information she needs to pick on you! i need advice!!!! im sick of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    You know what they say ,if they hate you your doing something right.She is just jealous don't let her get in your way.The best way to get her off your back is to tell her off and make sure she knows she's messing with the wrong person although your not the fighting type, words will do something just don't do anything you'll regret. Hope this helped.
    Okay, So she's just jealous of you.

    And not making funof her but because shes fat shes trying to mske herself feel better by putting you down. I know I went through it myself. But i didnt run away from the girl ; I laid her out. :]
    let it out girl!

    u should slap her and said ';***** **** off!get outa my life or u'll end up in the hospital!and my advice, u should lose some weight because u have a frikin HUGE ***!';

    thats wat i would do.

    and slap her HARD if possible,left her a bruise.

    let out ALL of ur anger :D:D

    if im in ur position that ***** is DEADDDDDD
    since you not the fighting type act like it dosnt bother you and she'll leave you alone its only fun cause she knows she getting to you
    She is jealous, simply put. Been there done that. Just tell her it is okay that you love me enough to talk about me all the time. I am glad that I stay on your mind because you do not stay on mine. Let me know when you grow up. If she says you are arrogant say al your thoughts about me made me that way. Thank you

    I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

    ok...thers this girl at school..she talks so much **** about me...and makes the stupidest rumors...she constantly has to talk to my friends and ask about my life....and when she finds out something she tells the whole freaking school...its ridiculous..last year she wanted a truce and i said sure..then this year shes at it again..im sick of it....



    im not the fighting type..so i don't know what to do...i want to tell her off..but when i look at her face i feel like running away..firstly because shes ugly has heck...(im not saying it out of anger she is) and shes really fat...



    i just don't know what to do..im sick of it....



    its like what the question says...you know celebrities??? how you want all there info??? thats how she is



































































    YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THIS BUT ITS A STORY OF WHAT SHE HAS DONE



    this guy asked me to the dance..and i said yes..well she found out...and she texts him...so i know your going to the dance with someone....and he says i dont know what your talking about...and she kept on and on...then she was saying that he only asked me to the dance because he felt sorry for me...then at the dance she tried dancing with him!!! and she followed me and him everywhere!!



    and no she didnt like him...and it did not start here..this dance was in the 9 grade and we been at it since 8 grade..i need help please!













    oh..and there was this guy she liked..he talked to me and she got mad at him!!! omg!!! im sick of it!I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    well

    I do agree that violence is not the answer.

    distance yourself from her if you feel that she is undermining you. She may be JEALOUS!

    you just need to blow them hataz off you shoulder b/c fighting back only just entertain her silly ambitions.



    hope things get better.... and if not, don't stress it high school is full of chumps anywayz college is way better!I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
    She is simply jealous and surely envious of you! Those that bully others in school do so because they themselves lack of confidence and get no attention and they find all the awful things done or said is the only way to get it. She is a loser!
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  • Would you be upset if this was your man?

    my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs and are having a baby together in a few months. we have seen our share of ups and downs, but we really seem to be having issues with intimacy - mainly my feeling that he doesn't want to be (at least with me) - which started before i got pregnant. he assures me he's attracted to me and that other issues and pressures have caused him to be less intimate - not me.

    last night he went out for his best friend's bachelor party. they were planning on going to a comedy club and some bars and i assumed the typical bachelor party mayheim would insue. the group needed to drop off my bf since we live in the area they were going out in, and they would be driving another 40min home. to be nice/thoughtful, i put together some food - some of which i stayed up making and made sure to have cold water and a fresh pot of coffee ready for them when they got to our house. when my bf got home and came to bed he was very affectionate and we were intimate with each other. i wondered if it was because he had been drinking, but he said it was because of how nice i had been to leave everything out.



    today i learn that they actually went to a strip club last night. normally i wouldn't get upset, but given the fact that normally he won't touch me, but last night he did -- i'm upset and grossed out knowing that he had at least a lap dance. i feel like the stripper was the warm up act to a normally very dull routine. he tells me that's crazy.... i also asked for the money that he had taken as we needed it to pay a bill. he said he ';lent his friend'; $200 last night.... i'm not sure if he did lend the money or not, but even if he did lend it and not spend it on himself -- he says that's the guy that bought his lap dance for him and we didn't have the money for him to go out, let alone lend to anyone. when i heard this i demanded he call and ask for the money today as the bill that needs to be paid is a serious one for my daughter. he called his friend and said i was freaking out because he went to the strip club and got a lap dance. doesn't that make me sound pathetic? i feel i have a right to be upset given the situation and its over more than just a lap dance.



    am i a over-reacting pregnant woman or am sane in my thoughts?Would you be upset if this was your man?
    He probably bought a prostitute.



    Seriously though, you have some huge issues that you need to sort out before your daughter is born. The fact that he won't be intimate with you is a HUGE one and I wouldn't believe his excuse of pressures.



    It is a sign a man may be cheating/and or losing interest. As to the lap dance, I would not be too concerned.

    What should i do about these two guys?

    guy #1: hes my best guy friend i can tell anything to, and i love him, but only like a brother. i think he might like me more though. should i just like him, or stay friends?



    Guy#2: we were best friends in 5th grade, but he asked me to the dance, and i said no, because i wasnt allowed to go with him. we both liked each other, but havent spoken since. i still have a crush on him. how should i become his friend again, or tell him i like him without him getting freaked out?What should i do about these two guys?
    guy #1 - stay friends. If you made a relationship out of that, it would be one sided and would fall apart eventually. Then you would loose a friend.



    guy #2 say something cute to him like, ';Is that dance still on?'; or something. Let him know you never forgot about him. See what happens

    Am i??????????

    GUYS HELP PLEASE!!! girls can help too.

    so, do you think a cute guy would want to ask me to the fancy dance? i'm nice, skinny (wrist is about 3 in. in circumfrence, legs are about 7 in. circumfrence) dark blonde, blue gray eyes, funny, smart, tall, bid feet, (lol), have braces, honest, have alot of friends, some guy friends like me, so, would a guy like you ask me to the dance? how would you handle seeing me? would you be rude, or try to be friends or hand with your friends because they think i'm a freak? ne honest plaese! i really need help!Am i??????????
    ur ok...



    I'd ask u ';to the dance';Am i??????????
    U sound good .

    But why ask ??



    You have a picture ??

    Trust issues...HELP PLEASE!?

    my boyfriend and i have had a long distance relationship for 8 months n its 25 days till we see eachother for the first time in those very long 9months we'll have been apart. The problem we have now is this, hes from germany but we met in the US when he went back his friends have been constantly against us. telling him that im probably cheating on him over here and should find someone new.He was able to ignore his friends, trust me, n not worry when i went out to parties. But i messed up, one night i was really drunk and i got my hand taped to a smirnoff bottle with my friend drew. It was no big deal we are honestly just friends.But the pics that got put up on facebook were iffy looking.of course my boyfriend saw those and freaked out.He believes i did nothing with drew, and he still knows im not having sex with anyone, but he gets parniod im dancing or flirting with guys at parties, but im not. How can i get him to trust me now,because im worried I'll lose him, and i love him so muchTrust issues...HELP PLEASE!?
    well if he loves u like you say u love him then i dont see a problem,,u can have friend of the male sex,,just not having sex,,i bet he had lady friends there as well and he dont let you know all that is going on there,,so if you are ment to be together it will be,,if not then it was never ment to be,,,,,just keep being honest with him,,for lies will end it faster than it startedTrust issues...HELP PLEASE!?
    Honestly..... If you ';loved him so much'; I don't believe you'd have been out with Drew and a bottle of Smirnoff in the first place. You'd be busy doing many other things that hold no potential for someone to doubt.



    You need to grow up.
    Specially in a long distance relationship trust is the main issue....dont flirt with other guys or even talk with them too much....coz then your boyfriend might think, if you are acting like this in his presence, what you might do if he is back in Germany....Then he will recall all the things what his friends told him about you....



    I know you may just being friendly with others, but your guy will view it in a different manner....so dont talk with other guys SPECIALLY WHEN HE IS AROUND....ANYWAY, IF YOU WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO LAST FOREVER, THEN BE TRUTHFUL TO YOU AND AVOID HANGING AROUND WITH OTHER GUYS....

    Girlfriend grinding with other guys?

    Okay my girlfriend and I both went to a club, before going we discussed we were going to dacne with other people. I said its not that big of a deal, its just dancing, she said the same thing, only she doesn't want to see me doing it. [Meaning I can dance with other girls as far as she doesn't see mean]. Unfortunately for me, I did care, at the club I saw her grinding with another guy, and I almost freaking lost it. I was also grinding, so I got pissed and went screw it, I'm even going to grind more, seeing as she doesn't care. It just didn't seem right, and its being bothering me, seeing her dance with someone else. I didn't feel comfortable dancing with those girls either, it was mainly a spite thing. Should I tell her how I feel or just accept it? She loves dancing in general, and I hate being clingy or anything. I just want to knowGirlfriend grinding with other guys?
    idk why y'all are grinding with other people. I'd stick to my boyfriend. and yes tell her. Otherwise, she's never gonna know how you feel or what you think. Oh and just FYI, I love to dance too and I don't dance with anyone except my boyfriend and he doesn't like to dance much so it's something I have to sacrifice for him.Girlfriend grinding with other guys?
    um ok i would personally kill my boyfriend if i saw him dancing with other girls

    if u are in a relationship, u should not be dancing with other girls, just as i would not be dancing with other guys.

    i think that's wrong and i can understand why u didn't like to see it, but u shouldn't have agreed to it.

    she was obviously having a great time with those guys, where as u weren't having a good time with the girls.

    that shows that u are more into her than she is into u
    well, if it's really bothering you and you really like the girl then i think you should definitely talk to her about it. don't tell her she can't dance with other guys or grind with other guys because that will definitely piss her off..just tell her the truth. that it bothers you and that you don't mind her dancing with other guys, but you would appreciate it if she could just tone it down a notch. i bet she'll understand how you're feeling.
    Well personally i wouldn't be going out with her still if she was doing all of that I would of left her her gave her a warning HEY I DON'T KNOW WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS BUT YOUR MINE ND I WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY... Tell her like that or nicer whatever you prefer.
    Why do you two have to grind up on other people? If you are a couple grind on each other it's less complicated! I would have never agreed to something like that! Let her know you don'f feel comfortable seeing men all over her.
    Let her know. i pictured my girlfriend and i in this scenario when i read this, and it angered me. I would have beat some *** in the club.haha
    Pussycat, if you can't keep your end of the bargain, then you need to rethink your clubbing ways. After all, you were doing it too!.



    that means you are both a hypocrite and a whinny s.o.b.
    Next time try having vertical sex in public together.
    Keep her on a leash and put her in a cage with a lock.
    If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck... dump that chick
    Ok. I understand that dancing with other people is fine when you guys are a couple. You can dance, hugging is fine too and so is kissing on the check but she was grinding with another dude while she clearly knew she had a boyfriend? That is just ****** up. I'm sorry bro but you need to dump her, unless she was really drunk ( u can forgive her ONCE only for that) or she is just sooo dumb that she doesn't understand that you can't do those certain things. Man, save yourself the trouble, don't get revenge or you'll be just like 'her'. Dump her and find yourself another girl.
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  • Should I accept his offer or no?

    I'm 12. My school has a formal dance coming up, and a really sweet guy asked me to go with me. No, no, no, it's not like we're dating or anything, he's just a good friend. I'm in the grade 6, and no one really dates, but some do. My sister started dating at 16. Am I too young? I think I'm ready, but I don't really want to tell my parents. Should I accept his offer? Yes or No? Why? And should I tell my parents? They'd freak!





    ALSO, he didn't ask me OUT, did he? Just to a dance, right? And no, it's not the type of thing when he'd come and pick me up, we'd meet there. But what would we DO? How would that differ from just saying no? We'd still dance, but....





    Yes, my dances are lame. :)


    Experience please?Should I accept his offer or no?
    Wow, this is a lot of questions.





    1. You are too young to date, but going to a dance with a boy is perfectly fine. He obviously thinks your cute, and wanted to spend a night with you (not in a bad way!)





    2. You should definitely accept his offer - it's great experience, prepping you for entrance to the boyfriend world. It's a very innocent thing to do, and you'll both be happy.





    3. There's nothing wrong with telling your parents. They know it probably won't turn into anything big, and will probably think it's cute. I'm not trying to degrade your relationships or anything, but you are pretty young.





    4. He didn't ask you out - yet. He wants to see if you like him, which was a pretty good move. By saying yes, you think he's a nice guy and wouldn't mind going to a dance with him.





    5. At a dance, especially in 6th grade, it pretty much goes like this: you stand with your friends in one spot, he stands with his friends in another, and you keep glancing at each other not knowing what to do. Then a slow song comes on, you get really nervous, and he comes over and asks you to dance, and all your friends giggle and crowd around you and think it's adorable. Then the song ends, you smile at each other, and either keep talking or go back to square 1.





    6. I really think you should do it - it happened to me a lot when I was in middle school, and I really enjoyed it. It's nothing serious, it's just really fun to be flirty and start experimenting. Good luck!!!Should I accept his offer or no?
    Just go with a group of friends, and if you happen to see him at the dance, go dance with him. 12 is too young to start dating, usually girls are still at that stage where it's like ';eww omg boys are gross'; but I'm surprised because you sound pretty mature.





    And no, he technically didn't even ask you out, so just have fun and don't worry about dating
    I dont see anything wrong with going to a dance with someone or meeting them there and I wouldn't really call that an 'official' date.


    How old is the guy?? I am going to assume he is your age or close to it.


    I would just relax and enjoy the dance......


    And why wouldn't you tell your parents that some cute guy asked you to go with him??? What is wrong with that....??? It's not an official date and I would agree you are too young for that...but you AREN'T BLIND and you do know a cute boy when you see one . :)


    Good Luck
    he probably likes you. in 6th grade (i'm in 8th) no one took any dances seriously. He will see it as a date if he likes you. ask him what he means to avoid confusion. Tell your parents you are going to hang out with a friend. that's what you'll do. you'll dance, talk, eat, nothing serious.


    all our dances sucked too!





    good luck.
    i always used to go to dances with my good friends. he probably likes you a little more and your parents would understand if you reasurred them that he was just a really good friend! and if he asked you, maybe he's trying to see if anything else between you two could happen! and obviously you dance! it's fun! slow dancing isn't even that weird with your friends. have a good time!
    It's not a date unless he or you specifically said it was one. I don't think you're too young to date. In my opinion, it's depends on a person's maturity about it and you seem pretty mature enough to understand all this. However, you should tell your parents and try to stress enough that this isn't exactly a date, you're just going to a dance with a friend and he is a boy. If you want to accept his offer, you should. It's your choice. He sounds like a ';really sweet guy';, so I would say yes.


    Oh, ask your friend to make sure it's not a real date. If it is, then decide whether or not you like him back. If not, then it's like a regular hang out with your friend. Talk to them, dance if you want to, and do whatever you want.
    Yer accept the poor guys offer cose if you reject him he will be embarrased in front of his mates trust me ive seen it doneto a good mate of mine





    You are old enough to date





    not to get serious tough





    just chill out , or as you americans say Hang Out
    Forget that guy! find yourself a nice 8-10 year old u can boss around and feed u grapes in the shade!
    say yes if you like him. i dont think your too young because im 12 and in the 6th grade too and i've had my first boyfriend this year. and just relax when your with him or go in a group of friends. and you can tell your parents if you want, its not like hes asking you to go to his house after.. err something like that (:
    You should go, it is good to start early dating and get over all the weirdness. Have fun and he will also. It doesn't have to be anything more than a dance, but it can be if you both want it to be. Good luck with your choices.


    I would tell your parents, they would not freak, it would make them smile in the end and prepare them for you growing up also.

    Is this girl...like...is she lesbian?

    Ok...btw...I'm a girl so just to let you know...sand I kinda dress like a boy sometimes...idk why but i've been doing this for a very long time.

    she's been my best friend for at least 2 years during 7th and 8th Grade. Lately she's becoming much more attached to me. She links arms with me. Sleeps with her head resting on my shoulder on bus rides. Rests her head on my shoulder when we're watching something.

    Sits on my lap almost all the time. She always almost asks me to give her a piggy back ride or have her be carried in my arms. And when I carry her in my arms she rests her head right below my neck!?

    She'd give me a bunch of hugs...or come up behind me and slip her hands between my arms and my waist and give me a hug and she was pretty close to me!

    And for some reason when we sit next to each other her foot is touching mine!!

    Also another one of my best friend has been noticing this...

    I'm getting freaked out here. And she's never mentioned a guy she likes. and she's been asked out before once by a guy and she said idk and someone answered for her and said yes. But the relationship only lasted for 1 day.

    She said she doesn't like him either....

    But a couple of days ago...a guy asked her to slow dance...

    He held on to her hips and she held on to his elbows and started dancing like she didn't know how to slow dance! And I've seen her do that before. But I led her arms to where it was supposed to be which was his shoulders. They danced for i think two songs or more..idk..

    AND just to let you know...a lot of the guys in my class think she's hot....Is this girl...like...is she lesbian?
    She might be. She might not be.

    It seems like she has more homosexual tendencies than heterosexual ones.

    She sure seems to have a liking to you though.

    Would you act the way she does with you to someone else unless you were attracted to them? I wouldn't. The things she's doing with you are standard flirting mechanisms.

    Whether she's teasing or not, she wants your attention and your approval of her.Is this girl...like...is she lesbian?
    sounds like a lesbo.

    might wanna talk to her about that
    She might be, but why does it matter? You girls sound young and it could just be an awkward stage she's going through with guys...doesn't mean she's gay.
    :) aww, you like her!!!
    Uh I don know maybe you should bring it up in a conversation
    well to me i think she is bi curious... not fully lez...
    who cares if she is lesbian, there is absolutly no need to freak out about it. she may just feel more comfortable in your company, or feels she is able to be close to you. if it is worrying you that much then gently talk to her, but dont make it such a huge issue. if she is lesbian then she is probably going through a hard time of deciding on her feelings and sexuality, so help her through and let her know whatever she is feeling you are always there for her as a friend XOXO
    lol ok so wat ur sayin is that u r straight, dress like a guy, n think ur bff is diggin u. well ima 17 lesbian and we can tell wen a ';str8 girl'; aint and yea there is something goin on wit her. now, dont get upset. and she actually may not even kno or think she likes u or has even been acting funny cuz stuff like ';this'; takes awhile to realize if its true. but, since u dress like a guy, n we all love our bff's it may b....kinda like playin wit her brain into liking u but unconsciously....i kno it sounds confusing probably but lol i tried. but yea i think she does like like u if she's not jus already secretly gay
    Well all those things that she does to you are things that my girlfriend does to me, but the only sure way to know anything is to just ask her. Don't get freaked out by what she is doing. If it bothers you just tell her. She's your friend so you should be able to talk openly about anything, but please be tactful in the way you ask your questions. Asking in the wrong tone may make her either scared or defensive and either way she won't tell you the truth. I am not sure if she is a lesbian or not because she really isn't old enough to know what she wants, so she may just be curious. Just be patient with her and continue to be her friend no matter what, because if her parents are anything like my mother she is going to need a lot of support from her bestfriend.
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    i think that she is hot

    but i also have seen everything she does

    she does not seem like she is into guys

    she is always with the girls and acts like she wants them

    idk

    she is cool when u get to know her but she goes around bitting people and ****

    i have like 16 holes in my hand from that

    i think she is lesbo because when i was talking to the person that made this ques i asked her this and she had no idea

    now most of our friends think that this could be true