Friday 22 October 2010

Help me please!!!! I have no clue how to ask this guy out to a dance!?

or perferably, get him to ask me out!! :) :) :)

i have a crush on this guy who i don't really know but i know he's kind of shy and really nice.

i'm usually kind of social with my friends and all, but really shy around guys i don't know

which as you can see, makes a problem



Girls, (and guys) please help me!!

how do i get close and ask this guy out without freaking out before the next dance in 2 or 3 weeks??!

ahh!!

thanks!Help me please!!!! I have no clue how to ask this guy out to a dance!?
I recommend a slightly gradual and progressive approach. Start communicating with the young lad. Communication is the key to this whole thing. In fact, I would recommend that you start with small talk and slowly grow into discussion on that topic. That will enable both of you to get comfortable with each other, and then you will be laughing with each other about this issue in the end. Communicate honestly and with confidence but try not to back him into corners, allowing both of you guys outs along the way! Stay confident and courageous! Good luck!Help me please!!!! I have no clue how to ask this guy out to a dance!?
I wish you the best... let us know how it turns out!

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yeah plz let us know how it turns out.

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Just go up to him and start talking to him if he is shy he probably wont talk to u even if he is dying to ask you. I would love it if girls also took the initiative and asked us. Arnt we all equal so why aren you asking us?



By the way whats ur physical appearance and his?
ummm send him little hints, smile at him, look at him. If you are blesssed with pretty eyes you might get a compliment from him but dnt get disappointed iif you dont get asked out there will plenty of other dances to attend.
Try get his msn or cell number of one of his friends, or him.

Get to know him a lil bit then casualy ask him if he wants to go woth you =)

good luck!!
im having the same problem!!!! lol good luck!
start talking over msn/aim and then casually at school. after a few days or a week just flirt a little and see how he takes it. then get someone to drop a hint to him. good luck =)
Walk up and (if you already know his name) say something like, ';Hey your (insert name here), right?'; Maybe even compliment him on his shoes, shirt, pants, hat, whatever. Then as the conversation evolves ask him about the dance. Is he going? Is he going to ask someone out to it? Is he already committed? Ask him these things whether you know them or not, that was the conversation can continue.
how cute. Okay as a fellow female i suggest that you find a way to get him alone with you, and then ask him out cause if hes shy hes never going to ask you.
If he is shy it is possible he has also noticed you but feels the attraction isn't mutual. Just find a way to strike up an unimportant conversation. Something that you can feel comfortable talking about, but that maybe holds some importance to you. That way you can get the door opened and find out what his interests or opinions are. If you have a couple of weeks to work with, you can certainly make the time and opportunity to pull this off. I too was a shy guy in school, and found out later I missed out on a few opportunities because I was afraid of rejection. If nothing else happens you might just gain a friend. Don't be afraid to take a chance.
lol. i would think Talk to him a lot.. perhaps raise the topic about the dance. ask him whether he's going.. etc. whether he has a date?
Be friendly with casual flirting (hugs, touching his arm, etc.) Make it seem totally platonic with no pressure involved. Then ask him CASUALLY if he wants to go to the dance with you. Some guys just get scared off if a girl is too forward and are too shy to ask girls out no matter how obvious it is that she likes him. Make it seem like it's not a big deal...and it will be easier for both of you!
get to where you are comfortable talking with him. then ask him to that dance. you don't have to say it is anything more than as friends, that's implied at a dance.
Just start talkin to him as a friend. and then ask him if hes going to the dance. dont say anything else about it. just ask. it will stick in his mind. and then he will be thinking about why you askedhim. and he might askyou
i used to be shy around guys i liked and guys that are cute.because of that i never got a boyfriend. Now i just talk guys pretty easy. and if they are cute, i tell them they are cute. Theres nothing wrong with telling a guy he is cute. they like that. and when you see him say hi even if he doesnt say hi to you first. And if time is getting close to the dance and he hasnt asked you out, you should make the move.and dont be afraid, because the worst thing that could happen is if he said no. but if you just keep talking to him it should work out. And most important, be yourself.
Well, I guess if you're like me I would go over when she's (in your case he :) alone and get into a conversation (your choice) btw DON'T plan it out it will always go wrong i had to learn it the hard way ;) maybe smile or wink in the hallway something to get his attention, I'm a guy so what I did could be different then what you might do!
hmmmm, your buy is like the way i am... im not positive on how you cant freak out but i am sure that if you gather courage to ask him then he will say yes, but you have to say it nicely so he doesent get embarissed or thinks that it is a trick, thats all the advice i can give you, sorry
start to become friends maybe just say some stuff to him and then take it to the next step start to get a little more social with him and then gradually mave up in ur relationship and see how it goes
Talk to him alone



Just say ';hey, could i talk to u for a second?';



And ask him out



And bada bing! u did it ;)
get two of your friends to corner him, n tell him our friend likes you, wanna go to the dance with her ?
just say hey wanna go to the dance with me?
Wink at him all the time and if he asks if there is something in yr eyes you say yes...wanna take it out with yr tounge!!!
write a cute note or smile at him then when u go to him he knows ur friendly

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