Friday 22 October 2010

What is the best way to tell a guy that you don't freak dance/dirtydance/etc.?

Are girls at clubs now always expected to freak dance with boys; how can a girl still go out and have fun with her friends and dance with guys as well without having them get mad that she won't freak with them; where are the guys that are nice and clean dancers lol?What is the best way to tell a guy that you don't freak dance/dirtydance/etc.?
Just say you dont do those, there are many others that dont and are too frightened to say so. Perhaps you will start a new trend by saying no. Be true to yourself.What is the best way to tell a guy that you don't freak dance/dirtydance/etc.?
well, you will find someone just like you. Dont worry. If they freak out, let them. You are different and decent. :)
well if u go to a club only guys like that are like that not too many good ones just let them get over it
idk but it sure does seem like most guys expect that
Well although I applaud your decision to stay vertical on the dance floor, you also have to be realistic about the club now a days. Its not really the place to find people acting in their most morally upright sense;lol. No diss to clubgoers at all, but try to change the scenery is all. You wanna dance but not freak, take up an actual dance form. Something latin maybe. Or go to a more upscale kind of atmosphere where freakin wouldnt fit in so well.
why should it matter to you if they get mad. . . you don't know them, they don't know you, and if they do get mad, they're not worth your time. its nice to know girls like you are out there and that you have respect for yourself.
I always put a hand out indicating my personal space has been invaded
The problem I find with men in the clubs are they watch too many music videos. Since the women in the videos shake themselves and gyrate on the rappers/rockers/etc.... The men are expecting that in real life. It also doesn't help that the women in the clubs tends to do that and now the men wants it from everyone. It's that whole hit and run scenario, I would say make it clear that you're going to dance, talk to them if you can and see if they are only interested in feeling you up. Not all men in the club are wanting an one night stand but it's very popular, when the next man freak out, walk out! Let him be a fool by himself. There's nothing to me, funnier than a man going off by himself, find another man in the club to dance with and tell the new man, the old man needs to be committed! Lol!
hit him in the mouth.......that'll generally get the message across

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