Sunday 21 November 2010

I think i'm in love... help?

okay so i think I'm in love with this guy whom i don't stand a chance with

here's our situation:



i met him 5 months back, we have a whole lot of common friends and the moment i met him i found him cute. we started hanging out in parties in big groups. we have never hung out just the two of us. he's really flirty, like he always hugs me and messes with my hair and steals my stuff (like this one time i was wearing a cap, you get the picture). i started to like him the 3rd time i was with him in a party but i thought it was just a happy crush. but then every time i see him my freaking pancreas falls to the ground! and! a week ago, we were like 10 people left at this certain party, this guy and i started dancing then a slow song played and we started slow dancing! like the ones at prom where his hand is around my waist and mine is around his neck. and i was leaning on his chest/shoulder. that lasted for about 30 or so mins. it was really blissful like i couldnt stop smiling. but we never talked after :( we rarely talk actually! just some casual ';where are you?'; text messages but other than that we just talk face to face during parties! we probably see each other every weekend or every other weekend.



i'm not sure if i'm already in love or if this was just triggered by that dance. but i swear that i haven't stopped thinking of him. he hasnt escaped my mind ever since -- and they months before that. i always look forward to seeing him and making myself look pretty. and when i find out he's not going to the same event im going to, i dont go anymore.



should i tell him, should i wait for signs, or should i just move on? we dont communicate much after all. and i dont know how to ask his friends whats up with him because they see me as someone who would never be interested with their friend...



except that i am. i really really am...I think i'm in love... help?
Personally i think no, you are not in love with him. You say you don't talk much so it's likely to be more of a physical lust or infatuation you have for him thats getting you confused but if you really think there is something there what are you waiting for? Tell him. Ask him out.Whatever..Life is too short and i reckon from what you say he has some feelings for you too. Just take a risk and go for it..could be the best thing you ever do.I think i'm in love... help?
Just move on, don't wait for signs about it.
buy some beef jerky.
just get him super drunk then ask him out.
Why don't you stand a chance with him? Of cause you do!

He sounds like he is into you so go for it!

Talk a bit more to him and see if you can go out just the 2 of you!

Don't miss the chance!
i wouldn't say it's love you hardly no the guy! i think your confusing lust/excitement with love

just play it cool try get some conversation out of him, he sounds shy maybe he is waiting for you to talk to him

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