What to do for revenge on wife?

She was freak dancing at the club(was a girls night out). She told me she was letting guys rub their junk all up on her booty. Should I have sex with someone else, leave her, what should I do? She doesn't care if I go to the strip club, but I don't because I think that violates our trust.

So, if I get a lap dance, she won't care. If I cheat on her, then she'll be mad. I want to make her mad, since she doesn't care how I feel about her having some other guys balls up on her.What to do for revenge on wife?
I'd be upset too if my guy was out doing that with other women

Don't react out of hurt though that never solves anything and just makes things worse and especially don't go looking to cheat with someone to get even for her dancing with someone...even tho the dancing was not exactly innocent....



I agree with you on the whole strip club thing violating trust..I would hate my ';better half'; to be going out to a place like that without me....I'm all for couples going together though...it's all about stimulation...think of watching the dancing...imagining your wife doing that for your eyes only....or you doing something similar for her eyes only....



Maybe she's trying to tell you she wants more excitement in your relationship? spice things up a bit...surprise her with a strip tease...tease her tempt her.....let her do the same for you.......add some variety...visit a sex shop together..wander around explore what they have to offer...laugh together..choose something to add to the bedroom together.....go for some oils....or be a bit more daring..buy her a remote controlled toy and go out for a night on the town where you are in control...tease her all night long and watch her go crazy for you....try a blindfold and some wrist/ankle restraints and tease her for hours.......ice...feathers...silk...a flogger..your hand....make her wonder what the next sensation will be



I can understand your wanting revenge....but 2 wrongs don't make a right......and you both will end up feeling bad...instead try talking to her...tell her how you feel....let her explain her thoughts and feelings....see if you can come to a compromise and go from thereWhat to do for revenge on wife?
about you grow up
Yes, by all means divorce her for dirty dancing, or get even by cheating.

You sound incredibly mature...if you're EIGHT!
Marriage counseling. You both sound immature and need to get to the core why you both want to hurt the other.
if she dosen't care how you feel then leave her theres no reason to be unhappy and if she told you about guys rubbing there junk on her then what isn't she telling you about???
Marriage vows either mean something or they don't.. Ask her point blank if she wants to be married or go clubbing with her friends for stray men..



Marriage is about trust and more..



Getting back or revenge sex is not ok, that sets the relationship up for a tit-for-tat back and forth.



You obviously feel hurt by her actions and in my view rightfully so.

Tell her so.. Ask her to not do that again or you will be gone when she gets home. Hopefully there are no children yet. If so, take them with you..As she is showing some signs of being unfit to parent.
Get out of this marriage before you have any children.



And if you have children, get the two of you into couple's therapy quick!



Good Luck!
You guys seem way too immature to be married. Revenge is not a good idea. Sure everyone likes to do it but it's stupid. Anyways, either you talk it out, go to a counslor, orrr get divorced. If you don't love her or she doesn't respect you enough to love you then that's not a good marriage.
You could both use some counseling around this, and come to an agreement about what being unfaithful means in your marriage.
Old adage...two wrongs don't make a right. This is marriage not kindergarten. If your wife is doing something that you don't appreciate, you have to let her know and explain why. Explain that there are things that you don't do out of respect for her and your marriage. If you cheat on her, she'll be mad...what happens if she turns around and cheats to get back at you? Where does it end and at what cost?



If you weren't ready to be mature, you shouldn't have made vows and married someone.



Honestly.
i think your too immature to be in a relationship---if it bothers you that she went too far with the dancing chrap then TELL HER. If you go out and get your so called revenge how does this help anything??
Put toothpaste on the toilet seat in the morning when she has to go to the bathroom. I did that to my girlfriend who I live with when I found out that she would flirt her way out of having to buy drinks and other little things with the cashier dudes! I wish you all the best! ^_^
fight fight fight your right she right just fight it out
maybe just maybe, none of that happened and she just wanted to see your reaction. I think its time to start paying some attention to your wife. cause if you dont someone else will!



If I caught you rubbin your nuts on my girl, I would extend my hand and say ';that will cost you $50'; :)
Maybe instead of getting revenge, you should tell her that you don't like her doing things like she did that night. That it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she truely cares about you, she will stop.
Exactly how old are you? Any club you go too some guy is gonna come up and try to grind on you. Big deal. She was fully dressed and she didn't go home with him. Grow up. And if you think cheating on her is the answer to your issue of jealousy then you need major counseling. Because going out and catching AIDS, Syphilis, Herpes, or any other wide variety of STD is really going help. Dirty dancing and sex are two VERY different acts. It is obvious that she is mature enough to over look you getting a lap dance and some strange slut grinding on your junk, why is it you can't allow her the same privilege?
OMG you two are parents? Lord. Guys will always do that when you are dancing with them, if you let them. I push them back and do the ';no no finger'; at them. But, it's very common. You definitely have a valid reason to be mad. But, you are acting way immature. Cheating on her? Come on. That won't make her mad, it will get you a divorce. If you want a divorce, go for it. You two both seem very immature.
Just leave her.