My friend is best friends with a guy and she's worried that they might turn out as more than friends.?

They do everything together, every chance they get. They swim together, help each other with homework, walk together in the halls at school, fool around on the computer, email each other, talk on the phone, and they've even planned a shopping trip together. They hug a lot. They're both vey crazy, and they've done the chicken ';danced'; (more like flailing arms) at school dances. They ask each other for dating advice because ';who else better to ask about how to make a guy like you than the opposite gender';? They give each other gifts on holidays and birthdays, and their parents love each other.



The dude's different than most guys though, because he's more....girlish. He's been raised by women, so he's more sensitive.



She says she doesn't think of him that way...and she thinks he doesn't think of her that way...but she's worried that their friendship will lead to a relationship, and then ruin their friendship altogether when they break up. She truly loves him, but as a brother and a best friend.



She's seriously freaking out because she read this, and they're breaking a lot of the rules. http://www.cosmogirl.com/guys/guide-to-g鈥?/a>



Can you give my friend some advice on how to solve her problem without losing her best buddy? I don't want to mention names because she is seriously embarrassed.





Note: Ash180ls, if you find this, PLEASE DO NOT THINK THIS IS ABOUT ME OR YOU. It's a problem that another girl has (she sits by me in english and confides in me, and I told her I'd do some research and give her an answer)has. Just to let you know. (Gags)My friend is best friends with a guy and she's worried that they might turn out as more than friends.?
I would suggest that You suggest that she take a moment to have a chat with him... casually... and tell him that no matter what, she always wants to be friends with him.

Now just let the relationship take its course. If she does want something more from the relationship then tell her to be subtle about it with things like NOT asking him for dating advice and by spending more time with him. Casual touching sends a good hint that she's more interested. But she has to be careful, if anything he does suggests that he's not interested in her then she needs to back off fast, but not too fast, so she doesn't hurt his feelings, or make him think he messed up somehow.

This is a very delicate situation and the last thing she wants is to hurt anyone. so take it slow and play it by ear and let her feel her way through the relationship.

Wish her luck for me.My friend is best friends with a guy and she's worried that they might turn out as more than friends.?
tell her to quit worrying, friends can just be friends and those rules are stupid, and some day they might think of each other that way but if they do that is usually the best kind of relationship to be in one with someone who i your best friend