Sunday 21 November 2010

I think i'm in love...help?

I think i'm in love... help?

okay so i think I'm in love with this guy whom i don't stand a chance with

here's our situation:



i met him 5 months back, we have a whole lot of common friends and the moment i met him i found him cute. we started hanging out in parties in big groups. we have never hung out just the two of us. he's really flirty, like he always hugs me and messes with my hair and steals my stuff (like this one time i was wearing a cap, you get the picture). i started to like him the 3rd time i was with him in a party but i thought it was just a happy crush. but then every time i see him my freaking pancreas falls to the ground! and! a week ago, we were like 10 people left at this certain party, this guy and i started dancing then a slow song played and we started slow dancing! like the ones at prom where his hand is around my waist and mine is around his neck. and i was leaning on his chest/shoulder. that lasted for about 30 or so mins. it was really blissful like i couldnt stop smiling. but we never talked after :( we rarely talk actually! just some casual ';where are you?'; text messages but other than that we just talk face to face during parties! we probably see each other every weekend or every other weekend.



i'm not sure if i'm already in love or if this was just triggered by that dance. but i swear that i haven't stopped thinking of him. he hasnt escaped my mind ever since -- and they months before that. i always look forward to seeing him and making myself look pretty. and when i find out he's not going to the same event im going to, i dont go anymore.



should i tell him, should i wait for signs, or should i just move on? we dont communicate much after all. and i dont know how to ask his friends whats up with him because they see me as someone who would never be interested with their friend...



except that i am. i really really am...



---we dont talk on the phone or text messages, but when we see each other almost every weekendI think i'm in love...help?
r u gay or somethingI think i'm in love...help?
Sounds like luuuuuv.
start txting him and c how that goes
tell his friends that you are interested, and if they tell him then it's already off your chest, he knows, and no awkward silence after you say it. if they don't tell him, then you could have asked what's up with him anyways... either way, you've got your answer

good luck (:
DONT WAIT! trust me i was waiting to tell a guy and then he moved. i still havent moved on. so dont wait but dont move into things too fast. just say at a party ';you know we should hang out sometime away from a party'; or something like that. and if theres a weekend that there is not a party then textt him '; im bored theres not a party this weekend! want to hang out?';

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