How can i be more confident and not freeze up again?

ok so i go to an all girls highschool and we have mixers to meet other guys from all guy highschools in the area...

well i went to one so far and i just stood there the whole time... i danced with one guy.. actually he said lets go dance and pulled me into the crowd and started grinding on me and i was so shocked i stood there till he walked away...

yeah so there is one on friday i am going to and i know i can be myself around guys but when i get there i will probably freak out and get all wierd and shy again.

how can i just be myself... like its mainly with the girls because i know there are so many other girls there they could choose from i kind of think why would they choose me?..

i know guys like me though i just get so shy sometimes.

please tell me how to calm downHow can i be more confident and not freeze up again?
You could always just pretend that the guys are girls, I know this is kinda hard to do but it works!! Also try to smile (A LOT), it shows us guys you are a very fun person to be around =D



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Maybe get a group of your girlfriends to approach a group of guys! That could help a lot :)
you stil will be shy ,

but try to forget everything for a little while.

pretend there is noone else in that place other than you two.

and act normal.

shyness usually comes when your aware of the other peeps around you.