How can i get a guy to fall in love with me?

ok, so i've known this guy for the longest time. and on our washington dc trip, he was all over this other girl, and there were rumors (before the trip) that they were an item, but he also acted like he liked me too. he actually hugged me once, and pushed the other girl away, but that same night on our dinner/dance cruise up the potomac river, i saw them freak-dancing on the dance floor, since everyone else was dancing. it broke my heart, but it was quick and fast. now that i'm going to a new high school, and he's staying at the old school i used to go to, i wish he'd fall in love with me. i was in love with him for six and a half years, and almost 2 of them he loved me back... i think. i just wonder how maybe i can get us together over the summer. i try to not think about him, but i just wish we had gone out, at least once. but he never asked, and i was always afraid he'd say no. and that would have been embarassing. anyone got any ideas? he has a facebook and i've got his number. also his email. i could never talk to him though! im such a nervous wreck when it comes to this sort of thing. if anyone reads this, and also has any experience in the guy field, your help is much appreciated. thanx...



ClaireHow can i get a guy to fall in love with me?
srry to sy, but u cnt really make any1 fall in luv wit u... and u said that u think that he fell in luv with u befor... well luv just dznt go away that fast, so maybe u hav a chance of him at least liking u... its best to just be more open with him...i dnt mean tell him that u luv him cuz if u do then i dnt think he wud feel da same way and itd be more awkward between u guys...

its just best that u sit him down ALONE and tell him that u like him then ask if hes willing to take a chance with u... it dsnt really matter if a guy is supposed to ask the girl... if u truly luv him then u shud go for it!

try not to spill ur feelings to him, cuz then he wud feel REALY awkward...

so i hope this helped!!!

goodluck! oh and to giv him a hint, hug him more, talk to him more, but at times hav him chase after u insted of u chasing after him the whole time... dnt seem desperate to get his attention, and try to get alone time with him... flirt more, but dnt make it obvious, but at times make it obvious but not too much... if u push him too much then hes gna end up getting tired of u and move on to another girl... if he treats u like crap, then u dnt need him!

if u get into an argument, hav it go on a little, then tell him at the end,,, ';i cant believe i (used to) like u'; then hes gna be all like: ';wut fur real?';

hahaha well, ther u go!How can i get a guy to fall in love with me?
You can't make anybody fall in love with you. ';Love'; doesn't love nobody.
you cant make him fall in love it jusst happens
you shouldnt have to GET a guy to fall in love with you.. your in highschool..i mean i am to..but your new school....theres gonna be more. i mean ik your set on this one kid..i know exactlyy what you mean to be exact....but if youve liked him for that long...and your still not comfortable enough to make a move....or talk to him nonetheless. maybe its not right. you shouldnt feel like your not good enough around the person you care about and want to care about you. you should feel like you could talk to them about absolutely anything. especially the way you feel. i hate talking to people about the way i feel. i dont even talk to my closests gf's, but when it comes to my bf i can tell him anything. i usually IM him the way i feel...cause i get worked up talking in person or one the phone...and he understands that....but i still get what i want him to know to him.. just tryyyy talking to him and if it doesnt feel right....then its probably not rightt. good luckk xo
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