there is this girl that im her partner in a quinceanera, and i sort of started falling in love with her. i try to talk to her but she just either ignores me or just nodds her head. and then when they were practicing the surprise dance she started freaking to reggeaton. you know like moving alot. another problem is that shes only 13 and im 16. does anyone think im right for her? i dont really know how to dance what she was dancing? do u guys think shes too good for me? or should i just go for it?I dont know how to tell a girl i love her.?
be confident and tell herI dont know how to tell a girl i love her.?
say ';I love you';.
if you have no balls keep walking if your interest hell hay something a close mouth don't get feed !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just go for it. You need the practice.
I would not just jump out and say it. Go on a date, spend some time together, get to know her. Then take it from there...
don't tell a 13 year old girl that you love her
go for it she doesnt know that u dont know how to dance maybe just sit out for the parts you dont know try and talk to her when you guys are just alone that way she wont get so distracted and maybe pay attention to you
ask her to b ur girl she say no get another nena she is not the only 1
well the age diff. is not a prob....but 13 is pretty immature for a girl and she might not respond the same way you do....
but no harm in trying...if she is not interested at least ask her the reason...
if she wont even talk to you then I really don't suggest telling her that you love her
Go for it. But you should probably start to talk to her first.. make sure you really like her for her.
Don't ever consider someone too good for you. That's ridiculous. However...I'm thinking you can't tell her you love her...especially if she doesn't even talk to you. You don't love her...you probably have a crush on her. There's a difference. Ask her if maybe she wants to go to the mall or to see a movie some day. Don't come out and tell her that you love her...you'll scare her away. Start by talking to her...and then ask if she'll go somewhere with you ...Good luck!!
I'd say go for it! The worst thing she could say is I don't like you, and even then you're better off than wondering the whole time. Then if you know how she feels you can move on, or make a move on her! Always be yourself and honest! Best WiShEs!
definatly go for it. age isn't a bad thing unless her parents are against it my parents were at first but after they met my bf they changed their minds.ask her to teach you her dance!
just tell her but DO NOT DATE HER!!!
Make sure u love her, know her well, and that this isn't just a bunch of lust or a crush before u tell her, be yourself and confident about it
If she ignores you, how can you possibly love her? You don't know anything about her to love her. You may be attracted to her or infatuated with her, but you do not love her.
The age difference is a little difficult at your age (three years is a lot in high school and middle school, not so much when you're 25 and she's 22). You can ask her if she wants to do something sometime, just to get to know her. I hate to tell you though, if she ignores you and doesn't even speak to you, hanging out together will be boring. I wouldn't even bother with her.
well,, i would give her a little more time and analyze here behavoir from a third persons point of view... dont tell her you love her... treat her like you love her... (hope this love isn't just for physical looks)... but yeah... treat her nice and gradually she will fall you... dont rush things..
personally i would wait till she is 16 if i was REALLY in love,, i can do 3 years
try to flirt wit her if she return than she likes you if not tray to ignore her for some tome to feel reject
And when come time to tell her that you love her ,be gentle,...
Know that even if she doesn't love you, it is a relief to get this off your chest.
Don't make a big production of it. Just give it to her straight. Acting like a drama king/queen could make her reject you.
Remember, loving someone is not something people plan or do on purpose. Telling her that you can't help feeling the way you feel might help.
Go easy on her, since telling her that you love her might be a bit overwhelming for her, and she may need a minute or two to think about it.
Wait for the right moment. Don't tell her you love her when either one of you is amongst friends. Wait until you are alone. But when you are, don't wait tell her.
Respect her reaction. If she doesn't love you back, your life isn't over; it may hurt, but that's how she feels.
Make sure that you are sure you are ready for the emotional roller coaster of love. There are highs and there are lows; if you are just thinking of saying it to get laid, DON'T. If you really love someone, you will respect them, care for them, and be there for the good and the bad. Are you ready for that?
Tips [edit]Look nice, shower, spray some aftershave or cologne. This might just give that extra bit that was needed.
Don't tell everybody you know you love her before you tell her. It is not a good thing if she finds out on her own.
Love can be a tricky thing. She might change her mind after she gave you an answer. Don't stalk her to see if she has changed her mind yet.
Make sure you have an answer prepared for any possible reaction.
If she rejects you, ask if she wants to be/stay friends; letting her know you care about her might help change her mind eventually.
Consider not saying anything at all. No one likes needy people. If she loves you and tells you so, you're all set. If she doesn't, either she's not ready to tell you anyways, or she just doesn't feel that way about you.
Warnings [edit]No means no. If she turnes you down, live with it. Following her and try to be along side of her can be seen as stalking, which is illegal in most countries.
She might say that she loves you back; be prepared for that.
talk to a girl:Say her eyes are beautiful, but don't use a pick up line.
Tell her she has a beautiful smile.
Ask her questions (nothing personal) to get to know her.
Girls like it when boys try and defend them so make her feel protected.
If you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you don't like her so she won't like you.
Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly so try doing that.
Tips [edit]Remember this: the best thing to do is tell her directly.She will think you are brave for admitting it.
Give her a Compliment - girls don't like too many compliments it starts to freak girls out. A guy will become the total opposite of a crush.
If at any moment you are playing a game in school, compliment her if she has to answer a question
Say Hi in the hallway if you happen to walk by her. You will know whether or not she wants to say hi by the facial expression she has. If she looks like she would say hi back, then go for it. But if she doesn't, try another time.
Be friendly but don't crowd her.
When you smile at a girl and she smiles back, watch her body language. Nodding her head or wetting her lips with her tongue could be signs that she has feelings for you, too.
After making friendly conversation with her, try holding her hand or maybe hugging her. You don't want to go too fast, though. Make sure you only go as far as she wants to.
Warnings [edit]If the girl doesn't like you and SHE said it, don't stop because she might get an idea!
Also remember that EVERY girl is different - therefore, there is no specific set of steps to magically get your object of affection to like you. The reason she would like you is because she likes you for who you are. So just merely be yourself. No one likes a pretender.
When giving a girl compliments, make sure not to over-do it. If you've just told her that her eyes are beautiful, don't immediately compliment her smile. A little attention is flattering--too much and you'll drive her away.
Things You'll Need [edit]confidence
good compliments
I think you are just horney. Both of you are minors. My theory is that we love the things that give us what we want. Our car, our bed, food, friendships, our job, our preferences for spectator sports. our pets. I don't think she's to good for you, but she is to young for you. She is still a child, and so are you. Just accept her friendship. It sounds like she doesn't want to go past that level of association.
You know what, you should just tell her how you feel! You should really start flirting with her, by saying ';Hey, you look really good tonight';, or something like that, and then while you are finished dancing, you should suprise her, and then be like ';I think your beautiful, and I also think that I've fallen for you.';
lol high school relationships usualy dont last, a girl at 13 doesnt really know what she wants in life until shes older, I dont think tis love its a crush, you will be able to tell the diffrence between the 2 (love and crush) when you get older you will learn, but you cant just tell her you like her get a little bit soical first, talk to her ask her from her phone number take it one step at a time, Then slowly get to the point, you cant just tell her you like her from sitting next to her in class u like her shes gonna think ur a freak, keep it cool dont jump into things take it slow and one step at a time.
hey i am a gurl and i am 13 and this guys i love is 16 good if she treats u right and everything go for it don't just say it ask her if she has different feeling like something she has not felt before that is how my bf did it and age so does not matter and who cares id ppl care if u love her and she loves u stay together and if she ignores u than she is either scared or don't like u but go for it it is so dumb if u don't tell her than u might have lost the love of ur life i mean it is so good to have someone in ur life to love even though no one else loves u i know wat that feels like i have been there done that so that is all i have to say
She's a seventh-eighth grader and you are in high school? Shake yourself man! Let the little fish grow!
As a guideline----Never ever tell a woman (or girl) that you love her. Do it by actions. Only when she tells you that she loves you do you consider it. Girls like it better that way. Then you don't have to constantly reinforce that you love them. They associate your actions with your feelings. You also have to do maintaince now and then. Talk is cheap. Flowers out of the blue or ear rings or something (after an established relationship) will melt her heart.
Don't waste your time on a 13 year old. She isn't too good for you. You are just learning how to deal with pretty women (girls).
LEARN HOW TO DANCE! Dancing = chicks
The Ape is done here.
Well......umm.....Its only 3 years which dosnt matter 2 anyone! Just make sure her parents dont care! Try to get dance classes i mean that will make her happy! call her from time to time! Make sure she isnt using u cause of the age! sometimes girls use guys to get more popular or meet other guys! Dont tell her u love her unless u know she loves u back! I mean u dont want to say i love u and break ur friendship! flirt with her 4 a week or 2 if she flirts back ask her out after going out with and haveing a good relationship for 3 weeks or 4 make the move and say I LOVE YOU!
I would say that from the jumble of info u gave, I wouldn't be able to figure out if you are ';right'; for her. Although the fact that u are 16 and she is 13 may kind of disturb her. You're alot older, and think and feel a lot differently then her.
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