Your boyfriends dancing with other women?

i was with my guy for about a year.then he dumped me 4 another woman that he fall in love with gave a promise ring to %26amp; she left im.so after a couple of months we started talking again.we are friends %26amp; we are trying to repare our relationship.he works away %26amp; comes home on the weekends.i dont mind him hanging out wih his friends or goes2clubs or hangs out with his femal friends as long as he tells me. it does bug me that he doesnt invite me to go to partys with him. he invites me sometimes to kick it with him and his friends which i do. i hardly get to c him.he hasnt really been making time for me lately. i no there alot of stuff going on with his friends ans stuff but i havent seen him in two weeks straight so i miss him and want to see him.well i found out that when he goes out %26amp; dances he freaks or grind on women or they do it to him.when we were together i told him i dont like it and dont want him or other women doing that to him.he was fine w/ that.well i understand that we r not together but it still bugs me. well i cant ask him if he does this because he might fight withme. i cant really ask him alot of things because it get him mad sometimes well i want to tell him that i dont like it but he is just gonna tell me im immature and being stupid that its just dancing. he will say that its not like they get him hard or he likes them %26amp; that some of the girls are just his friends.we are trying to build trust we have alot of it but honesty i feel like its disrespectful for him to continue doing this if i tell him how i feel.i have never been comfortable with this. he tells me im stupid and immature but yet if guys flirt with me or want to dance with me he gets mad and jealous. i dont know what to do?he is 24 and im 19 so he can go out and drink legally unlike me.lol. i want to know is its ok for him to keep dancing like that even if i tell him how i feel?i dont understand why its ok when he hangs out with girls and is all drunk or is drunk and dancing with them like that, that its ok but then if i wanna hang out with a guy or dance with him he gets mad and jealous and im not even drunk maybe a little buzzed at the most but i might be pregnant so i dont drink just to make sure.he was my first and i love him to death so i stuck with him through thick and thin.he cares about me i no that and he's satrting to fall in love with me again.all his friends tell him he was a fool for leaving me and is a fool if he loses me again.we are not offically together but we talk and act like it.i want to no is it ok if he keeps danicng like that if i tell him how i feel?is it ok for hm to do that and say theres nothing wrong but then get mad and jealous if i go out and hang out or dance and is it because he his getting protective or what.how can i bring this subject upto him so that we can talkabout it?please be nice and give me your advice about the situation.Your boyfriends dancing with other women?
Girl this is one thing you shouldn't even be stressing about right now. It seems like he really don't want to be with you. He's not respecting you, he's not spending time with you, and he spends more time with other females than he does you. You might want to be careful with him because he might be just using you until he finds another girl. That is what you guys are not in a relationship. Tell him that ya'll act like ya'll together so ya'll might as well be bf/gf again and see what he says. If he backs out of it then YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. Trust me...I've been on both sides of the fence. I've done that to my ex fiance and karma did come back to me. I can explain more of this to you but it will take too much typing.

My ex acted the same way when I told him I didn't like him dancing on girl. He never did stop and he just had to get mad at me for dancing with other guys. LOL anything he could do with a girl in a club...I showed him I could do 10 times better with another guy! He hated it and would stop talking to me for a few days but he would get his bearings back after a while. Oh and I have NEVER danced with him in a club...I acted like I didn't even know him! Show up and show out....that was the game!