i think im in love with my best friend! i really dont want to be because hes such a great friend, but i think he might feel something for me too. This weekend i we were at a getty n he was staring into space and i stood right in front of him hand he blew me a kiss and i kinda freaked. I don't know what to do. some of my friends tell me to tell him how i feel but idk how he will react and im afraid that if we start to go out and it ends bad that i will have lost an amazing friend. please no stupid answers i really need help this constant back and fourth small flirting has been going on for almost a year and a half. every time he sees me talking to a guy hell ask him a whole bunch of questions with his hand around me, or dancing with a guy he'll get in the middle and dance with me. i really have no idea what to do PLEASE HELP ITS URGENT
i just want him 2 kiss me... i cant focus in skool and when he txts me or ims me or calls me or w.e i get a huge smile from ear to ear no matter were i am and butterflies in my stomachDo i tell him.... hes my best friend and i dont want To ruin things?
go hang out togher at the movies, just the two of you. make it easy going dont make it sound like a date right away and creep him out. when you guys are sitting there alone at the movie then see what happnes. scoot a little closer to him and give him the chance to make a move and then you can see if he feels the same way. i get what you are sying thogh that you dont want to ruin a great relationship. i told my best firned how i felt and it ruined things for a while but now we are great friends and its all fine. so just see how it goes and follow your heart. good luck :)
please help me!!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do i tell him.... hes my best friend and i dont want To ruin things?
Ask to hangout, watch a movie, go to the mall and have a conversation. If he enjoys it. Ask. Tell him how you feel and see where it goes there.
Sweetie, this is NOT going to be what you want to hear, but please learn from my mistake. About 3 days ago I told my best friend I liked him more than a friend..to be honest, I'm completely in love with him.. It made everything awkward, and now we don't even talk as much. we used to hug and flirt and stuff but now its just weird for us and we barely even say hi. If I were you, I wouldn't tell him.
Go for it. If he is as good a friend as you say he is then you have nothing to lose. Sure, if you are wrong it might be awkward for a bit but he is still your friend. Besides, it seems like he likes you just as much as you like him! :)
u should tell him how u feel, its obvious he feels the same..do it do it. if it doesnt work u guys can still be friends..
he def feels something for you... something serious! you should tell him but you have to remember that if it does not work out you might loose him... maybe talk to him about it, what you are afraid of
Uh, hello, he likes you why don't you just tell him how you feel. Haven't you ever heard that you should marry someone whom you can call your best friend? Just do it already.
Awwwwwww that's sooooooooooooo cute I am going through the exact same thing almost but I told by bgf how I felt and we started going out then he broke up with me and i was mad for a little while but we are still best friends I hope my advice helps and I hope you make him your bf instead of your bgf Good Luck
Life has risks and this is one you must take.
The regret of inaction stings more than the regret of rejection.
Now...get out there. Don't let fear rule your life
If you think it would work out, tell him because it's obvious that he likes you.
Just give him hints that you like him. If he likes you too then he wouldn't go out with any other girls and eventually he'll ask you himself. That's the guys job anyway. Girls aren't supposed to ask guys out it's usually supposed to be the other way around. If you can tell he feels awkward with you flirting then you won't have to ruin the friendship to find out. Seriously play it safe. You don't want to do anything you'll regret.
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