Tuesday, 16 November 2010

How should i dump my boy friend?

I started seeing this guy last week and when we started I really liked him, but now i don't feel the same.

We only been in a realationship for 5 days and he is already talking about marriage and children and it kinda freaks me out. He also tried to have sex on the first night, but i said no. He is 21 and Hindu and im 18 and russian. I like to go to party and dance with different guys. I normally can control myself when i go there but the last time i went i ended up getting off with three different guys. I know this is not right on my bf, but i couldnt help it... it feels like there is something wrong with me. Also i really liked one of the guys from the club and i also saw a friend who i havent seen for two years, we had something going on then, but he lived in a different place, now he moved close to me and i feel like i want to start something with him. I really feel like i want to dump my bf, but i dont know how to do it cos i know how much he likes me. How should i do it? Please help, but please dont judge me, im not normally like that. Thanks.How should i dump my boy friend?
You went over the top at the party because you fell trapped already after only 5 days in a realtionship with your bf. You need to get rid of him NOW however you do it. Then just be single! What do you need a bf for? You can go out and have fun, you dont need to have to answer to anyone at age 18. Do you own thing. Fun doesnt have to be one night stands with every guy you dance with, you can just have a dance, a kiss maybe and be friends. Dont stay with him just because you feel sorry for hurting him, he cannot have fallen deeply for you in only 5 days and if he says he has it is only to make you do as he wants you to do. Dump your bf because you two are just not compatible, you want very different things out of life. I also suspect he is only going on about getting married becasue some guys think that is all girls want, and if they promise it they will get sex out of the girl. He sounds like a dead loss, get rid of him. Just phone him up and tell him he is way to oserious, you want to live your life before you marry and settle down. Travel, party, have friends. You dont want to be a whore, just free. Tell him and mean it. Then have some fun.How should i dump my boy friend?
you are allowed to be how you like, its your life, your only young once.

just be honest with him, say to him its been nice but you don't feel any spark their then say i think its best if we just be friends

then explain you cant help they way that you feel.

there's no easy way but its best to do it face to face and be firm

good luck
honestly what you should do is call him and meet up and tell him how you feel about how its going and see what his reaction is, There is no calm way to tell someone that you want to dump then because its one of the most soul crushing things to here one say. But if you don't want to be with him. you have to tell him straight otherwise you'll end up hurting him more.
Clearly you are too young for something as serious as he is suggesting. Tell him you are not ready to settle down.
i think you should just be honest with him, it's creepy in within five days of a relationship marriage and children come up. If you don't feel that you like him then don't make yourself miserable
I'd say when he finds out you got off with other guys, he'll finish with you himself.



You should just phone him and tell him you're not interested anymore.



However, there is a cultural element you're not aware of - for many people of Asian origin, it's very normal to discuss marriage on the first date. Be kind to your Hindu boy, he wasn't aware that this cultural thing of his would freak you out.
Just tell him straight, its over b/f, you are not the one for me.
Dump him off a bridge.
I like you and everything its just that im.... im.... im gay :/ x
You are obviously too young to settle down,it has only been 5 days so just tell him it is over,he can then go find himself someone who wants the same thing as he does,you sound confused as to what you want so i will just give you this bit off advice don't go sleeping around with loads of different guys otherwise you'll get a bad reputation,then when you meet a guy you want a proper relationship with he won't want to know because you'll be classed as the local bike e.g every guy ha had a ride on you,you'll probably hate my answer,but the truth can hurt.just tell your boyfriend it's over.

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