We are both very successful in our sports and now we are in our final year and i have always been paranoid about girls from his hometown that he had previous relations with. They constantly try to conatct him and i hate it. I made it very clear to all my exes not to talk to me. I just dont get it? He finally told his ex who txt him recently after having no contact (none that i know of) for the past 2 n a half years, that she was just thinking about their relationship and how she was at her internship early and i freaked out. Then i went home for a few weeks and i came back and he had an unusually out of character picture of him with some girl they were making a pouting face into the camera and then there was one of her leaning very close to his face with her boobs in his face. I dont do anything to give any other male the idea that i am available, i am very outgoing and love to have fun when i go out but i dont hug guys and dance on them at all, im all about just having fun with who im with.
Should i be worried about our future?
I just dont know, as he gets more successful i guess im going to only get more paranoid.
The thing is he such a good guy, we are always together and if we arent its because we have practice, he takes really good care of me and i love him so much i couldnt imagine life without him. I just dont feel like he has ever really had that temptation that he is starting to face now he is getting more popular.
I really just think im venting i need to here some thoughts though.
ThanksI have had a boyfriend for 3 years, yet i am constantly paranoid he will cheat, am i overreacting?
i think you need to take a step back, breath, and realize that he IS going to come across other girls as he gets higher up in his Carrier. but as long as he is coming home to you every night, you have nothing to worry about. if he was going to do something he would have already. just relax and be proud of him. not up tight, and paranoid. it'll be alright. just gotta relax.I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, yet i am constantly paranoid he will cheat, am i overreacting?
Yes, this is a paranoia. You might want to get some counseling as it eventually could drive him away.
i think u need to chill a lil or u will push him away.. unless u catch him in the act there is nothing u can do.. if he is cheating u will know the signs and have a gut feeling..besides u say u are always together so when would he have time to cheat?
sounds like u may be a lil insecure.. talk to him and let him know how much it hurts u and then go from there..
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