Sunday, 14 November 2010

I have a couples' dance competition friday night. My partner isn't cooperating at all. HELP?

Alright so I'm in 8th grade, and in the beginning of the year we started a ';dancing with the stars'; competition. I picked this guy that I was pretty good friends with, and we both know how to dance. At first, there were about 20 couples, so we were fine since we had experience. And to tell you the truth, it was a lot of fun. A plus was that one of my good friends was one of my 'competitors', so we were able to practice after school as a group of 4 (that way it wasn't really awkward). Anyway, my partner and I have made it to the final four and are competing Friday night at a school dance.



So here's my problem. And it's a big one (in my mind.) About a 1 1/2 months ago, my partner started acting like a real jerk. He would give me an attitude and not want to practice, when clearly we needed to. We got into this mutual fight and wouldn't really talk to each other, and when we'd practice it would be SO awkward. After a while, we told each other that we really need to get along if we want to win the $100. BUT, he keeps acting the same way! He called me a control freak and a *****, but I have a right to act like one since the competition is on friggen FRIDAY and its almost THURSDAY. Plus, he's been disrespectful and arrogant and treats me like dirt! That is not how you treat a woman! So many things have been going on in school, so I've been completely stressed out! (We just had a vaudville show, 2 days in a row and also doing it tomorrow, and I'm one of the main acts plus I'm in dances...) We aren't very confident in our dance because we just finished the ending on monday, (i wonder why...) and I'm so stressed! I hate him so much! He's so mean to me and I really want to cry! I can't take it anymore. You honestly do not know how I feel. Like, I DREAD practicing with him. I don't want to go to my LAST school dance dreading it and stressing out because of this stupid competition. He doesn't deserve the $100 at all.





PLEASE ... someone tell me how I can make him happier and less moody tomorrow when we practice, or how I can put up with this or ANYTHING. I'm sorry I'm venting to all you strangers (lol) but I really need help!!!!!! ='[I have a couples' dance competition friday night. My partner isn't cooperating at all. HELP?
I guess that you just have to live through it this one last time. During the summer, try to find someone to replace him, and let his moody butt go dance with someone else.



I hope all goes/went well for you.



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aaI have a couples' dance competition friday night. My partner isn't cooperating at all. HELP?
Just show him how bad you want to win, and be nice to him! Kill him with kindness! Don't really kill him.. you know..

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