Tuesday, 16 November 2010

I made out with a guy at a party then he saw me in class and I did not recognize him..what should i do?

I'm in college and I got a little drunk at a party last weekend and this guy came up to me and asked me if i wanna dance. i said sure. he kept telling me how he thinks im so beautiful and how he likes me and wants to take me out when he's more sober.then he started making out with me. (i normally do not do this, it was only the 2nd time i've made out ever.)



the classes at my school are really huge, so i was leaving my 400 person class and some guy shouted my name and said i didn't know you were in this class. i was really confused because i didn't recognize him and so i stared blankly at him trying to figure out who he was and i couldn't remember because i felt like i had never seen him before. so i said ';yeah'; and continued walking.



then he kept trying to talk to be so i started to get freaked out and confused like why is this guy i never met before trying to talk to me and acted like he knows me? so i just acted somewhat friendly but the conversation was terrible because i had no idea how i knew him so i didn't know what to talk about.



20 minutes later it struck me that it was the guy from the party. i was sooooooo mad with myself i felt like an idiot. so i was in class the other day and this time when as he sat down he was turning around looking near my direction.

but when i left i avoided leaving where he leaves.



but what i find really weird is i was looking at my roommate's facebook and he has commented on like all her statuses so i looked at his page and we have 5 mutual friends and his page is public and he has about 800 friends but i looked at the recent activity and the last like 4 things have been to mutual friends between us. could it be he is somehow trying to indirectly get my attention through facebook?





i think he's really cute. but he never called me like he said he would. i think i ruined it since when i saw him i didn't recognize him. but how could i make it up? or am i just screwed and can't make him like me again? i feel so retarded. he probably thinks i dont like him or wanna see him since i probably seemed mad and confused like i didn't wanna be bothered. should i approach him next time i leave class and ask him if he wants to hang out or something?I made out with a guy at a party then he saw me in class and I did not recognize him..what should i do?
i don't know about him trying to get to you through facebook (most people have hundreds of friends so there is bound to be some overlap), but maybe just send him a message saying that you couldn't place him when you saw him in class, but you're really happy to have seen him again and you'd like to see him outside of class. you said you were both drunk at the party and made out right away, so he shouldn't be surprised that you don't remember him. if he likes you he'll laugh it off and ask you out.I made out with a guy at a party then he saw me in class and I did not recognize him..what should i do?
I don't know. Why do guys have to always make the first move? Talk to him.



By the way this is one of those things that used to drive me nuts about women in general, they are so indirect and you have to guess what they are thinking sometimes. At least this is true with the women I have known. :)
Oh, ffs, go talk to him and ask him out to coffee or something.



You're in college, you should be over the retarded games already.

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