I'm in college and I got a little drunk at a party last weekend and this guy came up to me and asked me if i wanna dance. i said sure. he kept telling me how he thinks im so beautiful and how he likes me and wants to take me out when he's more sober.then he started making out with me. (i normally do not do this, it was only the 2nd time i've made out ever.)
the classes at my school are really huge, so i was leaving my 400 person class and some guy shouted my name and said i didn't know you were in this class. i was really confused because i didn't recognize him and so i stared blankly at him trying to figure out who he was and i couldn't remember because i felt like i had never seen him before. so i said ';yeah'; and continued walking.
then he kept trying to talk to be so i started to get freaked out and confused like why is this guy i never met before trying to talk to me and acted like he knows me? so i just acted somewhat friendly but the conversation was terrible because i had no idea how i knew him so i didn't know what to talk about.
20 minutes later it struck me that it was the guy from the party. i was sooooooo mad with myself i felt like an idiot. so i was in class the other day and this time when as he sat down he was turning around looking near my direction.
but when i left i avoided leaving where he leaves.
but what i find really weird is i was looking at my roommate's facebook and he has commented on like all her statuses so i looked at his page and we have 5 mutual friends and his page is public and he has about 800 friends but i looked at the recent activity and the last like 4 things have been to mutual friends between us. could it be he is somehow trying to indirectly get my attention through facebook?
i think he's really cute. but he never called me like he said he would. i think i ruined it since when i saw him i didn't recognize him. but how could i make it up? or am i just screwed and can't make him like me again? i feel so retarded. he probably thinks i dont like him or wanna see him since i probably seemed mad and confused like i didn't wanna be bothered. should i approach him next time i leave class and ask him if he wants to hang out or something?I made out with a guy at a party then he saw me in class and I did not recognize him..what should i do?
Here's my advice:
Don't use Facebook as a tool to work on your personal relationships.
Get off the Internet. Talk face to face, the way people have done for thousands of years. It really works. I know it's hard and makes you nervous, but it pays off.
Unless the guy is just a jerk whom you want out of your life, seek him out and apologize for the fact that you didn't recognize him. If he's a decent guy, he will be impressed that you took the time to make this gesture. Even if you don't hear from him again, it's the right thing to do.
The longer I live, the more I realize that doing right by people and being sincere is more important than making a good impression. (And it actually ends up making a good impression after all.)I made out with a guy at a party then he saw me in class and I did not recognize him..what should i do?
An easy fix.. You know he is in the same class. So look for him. Then turn on that charm.. you know, you got it girl...walk up to him, be honest , apologize, and tell him you didn't recognize him at first because you were a few drinks over your limit that night. But duh ! .. It dawned on you .. Then laugh a little and say he must think you are silly. But you do remember and would like to start over. How about having lunch, or maybe a soda? This will embarrass you a bit, but he will be glad you took the time to explain yourself. Who knows where it will go from there.
Good Luck !
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