What should i do !?!?

well, i'm almost 15 and on friday night, i was at a mixer dance, where all of the schools come together in our town for a dance. i met this guy there named ryan and i really like him. over the summer, this guy named mike asked me out and i said no, i have never seen him before and i just didn't like him. so on friday, i saw mike there. i knew it was him because i had seen his pictures and i just knew it was him. i saw him staring at me the whole night and it made me like a little nervous and stuff. so then, two is better than one is on and ryan asked me to dance with him. right when we started slow dancing i saw mike start to walk over to me and then he saw me dancing with ryan and he just stopped and he made this face and it made me feel so bad. he turned around and went back to his friends.

after like an hour, i guess mike decided that he wasn't gonna let ryan get in the way. we were grinding and mike literally RIPPED ryan off of me. ryan was like dude whats your problem? and mike was like nicole, we need to talk. and i didn't want to sound like a freak so i was like um .. how do you know my name? and he said remember, i asked you out this summer. and then i was like oh.. hi and then ryan took my hand and walked me away. then... mike screamed hmm okay lets fight for her if you want to be like that. and i was like ryan no don't. i don't like him just stop. and he was like well maybe you should tell him that before we get kicked out . i just walked away because i didn't want to start drama.

yesterday, mike messaged me on facebook and said you looked hot the other night. and how i should go out with him, not ryan. and i said well i like ryan a lot and i doont like you .

then he was like oh.. well then i wasted my whole night trying to get you.

and now i feeel ssooo bad !!!

do you think i did the right thing !?

like i should stay with ryan, and do you think ryan did the right thing ?

thanks.

-nicoleeeWhat should i do !?!?
Great job! Mike himself seems desperate. Stay with the one whos best for you.What should i do !?!?
Your welcome.

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definately stay with ryan
Mike is dangerous. you did the right thing sweetie. Don't feel bad. Any guy who's willing to make a scene in a public place is not a safe person to be around. A real man will try to diffuse the situation like Ryan did by refusing to fight. Block Mike on your privacy settings and don't contact him, if he contacts you don't answer back. Ryan sounds like a good guy and he obviously respects you and himself since he refused to fight.
Stay with Ryan. You can't help it you don't like the other guy and he barely knows you so he probably just thinks your hott and wants you. Don't feel bad.
u definently did the right thing, same with ryan. if u don't like that mike dude and barely even know him, whats the point of causing a big situation of it. don't feel bad if u don't like a guy that likes u, thats how life works. i hope u 2 love birds work out :P !!! %26lt;3
you did the right thing by getting away from mike he s not worth it and he s bad news just shut him down and abt ryan well get to know him better and then decide you can't make a choice based on that incident alone.
I am guessing you do not like Mike and you have told him so? and told him to leave you alone? You should have Mike permanently band from your friends list on FaceBook and restrict access to your account to only friends. If he keeps trying to contact you you should tell your parents, and your school counselor. These days dear you can not be too safe, that's your safety and Ryan's safety. Ryan did the right thing and you did the right thing just be careful and tell someone if Mike starts trouble.
Mike sounds like a jerk. Your intuition was right you walked away. You were with Ryan when you were dancing not with Mike. Mike should have been clued in whe you asked him how he knew you're name that you didn't want to talk to him. MIke is the one making you feel bad so you really shouldn't feel bad about anything. He's using whatever he can to get you away from Ryan and get with him, but if he really liked you he wouldn't make you feel bad about it. BTW at age almost 15 I wish you weren't grinding!