I Cant breathe When I See him and I freak out?

I Like this guy that goes to a different school but my bestfriend knows him really well. he wanted to dance with me at the last dance we had in febuary. the first. But i freaked out and pulled away. I just stood there quiet and he walked away after a minuet. [which felt like ten years!]

So..Basically I 'm Head over heels for this guy. i cant breathe when i talk to him [texting that is]. My heart goes crazy!!. Honestly i've never liked anyone this much before. I thought i was kinda 'whatever' with him this one night. When i went to see prom night. And I see his bestfriend. that looks exactley like him!. I mEAN EXACTLY. and I FREAK OUT!. I was gonna start crying. i was in shock.

Anyway My question is how do i not freak out when i see him at another dance on june 6th? How do I Build confidence and not get all nervous and sacred when i see him.

I'm really close to this guy to. He knows my deepest secret and.I know i can trust him.I just..I dont know I'm confused on how to act around himI Cant breathe When I See him and I freak out?
hey i find girls like that attractive because it express how they feel about me he is probably the same and just wants you to get more comfortable around him sooner then later. I was that kind of teen in highschool all the girls found attractive. at age 10 i and this girl had a never ending crush then once i moved to a new place and to a new highschool i did track and field their since i was a freshman. and i remember about 12 girls on the first practice flirting with me and asking for my number. common but i guess i still dont and never thought i was really that attractive. but i will tell you i always found the shy girls really cute and especially the ones who also like more guyish activities so i think you should start breathing and be more confident about the fact you are most likely the perfect fit and dont let him be able to think twice about weather or not you are or not.I Cant breathe When I See him and I freak out?
yeah I know how you feel. Once I had a crush like that well ok more than once. LOL



But I did the same thing and one time I actaully fell over a gate and landed on my azz. Tried to get up and ran into a wall. No kidding.
I think guys are use to that and while they might smile, they really don't see it as funny because they are like, is she going to waste my time like this always. Just tell him how crazy you are about him and he will hug you and tell you that things are going to be OK, then you will get over it and start relating to him like a girl should.
hey you cant help it you love him so how about you tell him and take it one step at a time.

GOOD LUCK
just take a deep breath and pretent like he's just any other person. i know it's a hard thing to do and it seems unrealistic, but it really does help. just make sure you don't look away from his face when you talk to him.
just tell him how you really feel about him. and see how it goes from there
He's probably just as nervous to ask you to dance as well. Take that into account - he's nervous too. Knowing that should let you cool off a bit, but for the most part take some deep breaths. Just be yourself. It's clique to say, but it fits the situation. You did something in the past that let him start to like you, so continue to do that, which is being yourself.



Don't blow this out of proportion like THIS GUY WANTS TO DANCE! Think to yourself like this: he wants to dance. I like him.



You get nervous when you blow it out of proportion. That's your issue.
Be yourself, except how you are when you're comfertable, more confident. Just tell yourself to act normally around him, you can do it. Good Luck!
Well he wants to dance with you right? So it's not like you're asking him to dance or anything. Don't worry about it so much. Relax, you know this guy and he knows you too. The way it sounds, he may even like you back. If you feel a little scared just take a deep few breaths and tell yourself that you can do it.



Good luck at the dance and remember that you're there to have fun! :)